A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

This is a reply to a comment on a previous post called Consciousness and Loving Yourself. You can read it here.

The comment was: I enjoyed reading this, but would need some gentle persuasion to love myself. I have done many things in my life I am not very proud of. And you & I come from 2 very different worlds, but living in the same.

My Reply:

I too have done many things I’m not proud of, and not sure how different our worlds were/are. Maybe you can tell me why you think that way?
So true we are all living in the same world.

Gentle persuasion…to Love Yourself…maybe I could be a little nicer…something to think about.
I guess it’s the non-love I have for myself coming out!!!

So gently I say to you, Is it not better to Love Yourself, rather than Hate Yourself?

For example, do you love your children? Of course!!
Do you always like what they do? NO! But you never quit Loving Them!

Now just apply that to Yourself!

The reason you Love Yourself is that you are a Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity!

What you do or think is Not the Real You!

The past may be different for each of us, but we can start to Love Ourselves, NOW.

That’s how we change the past, and that is how we create our Future and Find Our Dream.

Is that gentle…and persuasive?

Please let me know if this helps. I have much more inside of me bursting to get out. LOL!

And share this if you think it can help others! The share buttons are in the upper left or scroll down to the bottom of the post!

And, of course, reply to this comment, if you have something bursting to get out…;>).

Also I do private one on one coaching, if you want to Learn how to Love Yourself to Find Your Dream. Just reply to this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or on Facebook at:  https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

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