Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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Start Thinking for Yourself!

Are you frustrated with how things are playing out in the world today?

On one side there is just accept everything.

On the other, there are accusations of fraud and corruption.

What do you think?

I am sure you know that there is rampant fraud and corruption. Everyone does…

Some just choose to ignore it, so their worldview can be validated.

It is happening on both sides.

This is what happens when you want to see what you want to see…and don’t want to deal with “reality.”

It is also a result of You not Loving Yourself. You then have to accept what other people tell you, since you think you are not trustworthy to search out what you really think.

You are also unworthy of Love from others, so you take their opinion.

That means you follow the crowd…never thinking for yourself…and perpetuate “the matrix.”

In “the movies” reality is changed when someone challenges the status quo. It takes effort and is dangerous, but they eventually “win.”

And the world changes!!!

What’s the lesson?

Nothing changes unless you do!!!

You don’t have to win a war. You just have to quit accepting “the narrative” and start to think for yourself and go your own way.

Like I said in the previous post…

Govern Yourself!!!

So You don’t become a SLAVE!!!

Quit censoring yourself…just start to think differently…it spreads…

Just make sure you are Loving Yourself in the process, so you don’t end up in the negative.

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Recent Events!!!

The recent events have evoked a response from me.

Namely, government is total crap and unnecessary.

My take is…I can govern myself…and so can you…you drive on the correct side of the road don’t you?

This goes in line with Loving Yourself. You will have compassion and love for others, and this makes it work.

Loving Yourself also holds you accountable and transparent. You have no reason to hide anything and can deal with other people.

So almost everyone else drives on the correct side too. We all follow “the rules” that make sense.

The ones that don’t are psychopaths. They don’t care what happens to other people when they “drive on the wrong side of the road.”

And they don’t see that it will destroy them as well.

We all “get it.” We need to cooperate to survive.

So, who will fix the roads is a common question.

Well, look at the roads now. Are they doing a good job? I am sure a better system can be devised…like toll roads…if you use them you pay. Simple…

And the company that “owns” that road will be accountable…if he doesn’t keep the road up, fewer people will drive on it.

That goes for every part of infrastructure…if you use it you pay for it.

The contracts between people can be secured by bonds…payment occurs when both parties are satisfied. Disagreements are arbitrated.

There are many other questions, but can be worked out.

Right now government rules by law but is really at the end of a gun. Just try not complying if you don’t think so. Even a parking ticket can lead to jail time.

I go back to the Bible (1 Samuel 8) where it said thousands of years ago….saying the kings will take your sons and daughters to serve in the military, others to farm the land for him, make weapons of war (formerly people were called to war, but went back to regular tasks in peacetime). He will take a tenth of what you have and give it to his court…friends, and officials. He will take the best of your cattle…

AND…

YOU SHALL BECOME SLAVES!!!

Can it become any more clear!!!

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The Mindset of People Who Contact Me???

I get up to 10 contacts a day for something or other…crypto or “new fresh leads” or “marketing help” to get me more clients.

I have years of experience in internet marketing, financial markets, and intuition into people’s motives.

The crazy thing is how they interact with me. First, they ask me how I am doing, and add friend or dear or something like that. We just met???

How easy that is…huh!!!

I think it’s what you call connecting with your prospect. All it does is make me skeptical. Friendship takes time and trust. I certainly don’t trust them now…and I would never buy anything from them.

But I struggle through…they then give me the pitch…I decline, and attempt to tell them why I would never buy anything from them.

I then offer to help them solve those issues with my consulting and coaching services, which they mostly decline, although some are mildly curious.

But they are so focused on their program that they cannot even imagine they could use some help.

So they go on with their life and sometimes come back later to tell me that their program is the best…and to just “trust” them.

What a laugh!!!

I again try to help them, but it just doesn’t work.

This is how most people are…so convinced that their way of looking at things is right. They can’t see themselves.

I know because I have done and sometimes do it myself. It’s so ingrained in us. But I am overcoming my own habits, indoctrinations, and biases.

The thing that helps is my 3 step program

  1. Realizing that I am loved
  2. Because of that, I can love myself
  3. Find My Dream.

I have compassion for them, knowing that if they just knew they were loved things could change for them.

I also know all I can do is offer my help, and the rest is up to them.

Just as it is for you. You know things aren’t right. I don’t care how good you think you have it. There are always new things to create, but old things have to die first!

None of them will die if you learn how to live in a new way…the way of LOVE.

And I don’t mean the way love is normally thought of…like loving something outside of yourself…such as God, others, and things.

You can’t love them because you don’t really know them. You can only know yourself. The more you know yourself the more you have compassion for others, realize the Love of the Universe, and see things as what they are.

The greatest satisfaction in life is helping others but only thru the love you have for yourself. Then it becomes selfless with concern for the individual results. You just keep doing it…making the world a better place!

Do you want that?

Haven’t met one person who didn’t…

I can help, because of my compassion for you!

Blessings

Vince

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Step 3 – Find Your Dream

So what is a Dream? It’s the experience you want to have, including the feeling of money, good relationships, and emotions like peace and confidence.

It’s not the house, car, travel, vacations, and “stuff” that will bog you down and make your life miserable. The more you have, the more you have to take care of it. And that’s not peace!!! That is a hassle, constantly fixing things, painting and just a drag on your creativity.

So focus on how you want to Feel, not what you want Have!

You can only Find Your Dream if You Love Yourself. Otherwise, the self-hate blocks will obscure it and keep from even seeing it.

So you have to see it, then you can get the process.

The steps will come from the inside, and you will be able to get them because there are no filters from the “survival” part of your mind.

You will be in creative mode. That’s where Dreams are found and realized.

The process is unique for everyone, but the need for accountability and feedback is crucial.

That’s where I come in. You have the benefit of my insight, intuition, and experience.

The chances of You actually Finding Your Dream without help is almost impossible.

Go ahead and try, I’ll be talking to you soon!!!

Blessings

Vince

Step 2 – Love Yourself

Only after you have “done the work” in realizing that You Are Loved can You even begin to Love Yourself.

Teaching you “the work” is my part. Doing is Yours!

And all those “gurus” that say it is effortless are doing you a disservice.

It only becomes effortless after you have reached a certain mindset.

On the way, you will encounter many insights and blocks. Each will come after the other.

It’s an exciting journey! I know, I’m on it too!

I will get you thru the blocks and celebrate the insights with you!

Once you realize that You Are Loved…partially…it’s an ever-increasing revelation…you will understand why you can Love Yourself.

I can tell you why but your insights are always unique.

They will propel you into new heights of peace, calm, confidence, and ease of taking action.

You DO know that you could achieve anything you set your mind to, but there is always something holding you.

Wouldn’t it be nice to find out?

Like maybe you wouldn’t spend so much in front of the TV or on the computer getting nothing of value done, and just getting more and more frustrated.

To know that you Can accomplish anything you set your mind to does “Find Your Dream!

And it’s done through Loving Yourself!

There are many other benefits that I have talked about in other posts, such as becoming “unoffendable”, gaining new friends that resonate with you, and finding love in your relationships.

It’s the whole package!

You know you need help doing this, so contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com and let’s get started!

Blessings

Vince

 

 

A Follow-Up to the “Gentle Reply” Post

I’ve so many requests to add more substance to the A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

The Gentle Persuasion to “Love Yourself” is a good technique, because it is not an easy thing to do.

But just asking if it is “better to Love Yourself than hate yourself” is an easily answered question….Of Course!

So let’s run with that…why is it so hard to Love Oneself?

Because we have done so many “wrong” things…and people have let us know about it…many times.

So if you think about what they said to you, was it reality, or did you have a different perspective on it.

I would say most of the time you did.

That means that they weren’t inside your head…they were inside theirs…and judging you from there.

So if they don’t know your motivations and reasons why you acted in a certain way, why did you give any credence to their criticism?

The answer is, “I don’t know. Hmmmm.”

The second reason why it’s so hard to Love Yourself is that Your MIND is telling you “bad” things. Just listen to it for a while…Like:

  • Boy, you didn’t sleep very well last night. You are tired.
  • Why are you are hungry? You are so fat and useless.
  • Why don’t you get up and do something?

Those are just some examples from my Mind?

Yours are probably similar…or worse!

So, how about using the same technique as listening to others?

Your mind is coming from a different perspective than you are!!!

Wait, my mind is me!!!

Is it? Do you agree with what it is saying?

I don’t really accept that I am Fat and Useless!

So your mind is not really You!!!

You are separate from it.

So what is YOU?

You are a “Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity.”

That’s the REAL You, and the best reason to Love Yourself!!!

Blessings

Vince

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Step 1…You are Loved!

You Are Loved! How can that be?

Recent blog posts “Today is the Day” (you can read it here) and “There is no Tomorrow” (here) lay the ground work for Being Loved.

I talked about that today seems to be going pretty good, since I changed my attitude about the past, and the Future is only in my mind, so I can create any one I want, as all the “Guru’s” say.

The way we do that is by having a positive outlook on our Future.

And the way we have it is believing that the Universe is positive and benevolent!

I call it Love!

So something out there Loves You!!!

And so does your family, friends and colleagues….and so do I!

That means at least one physical person Loves You….ME!!!

That takes away the excuse of, “Nobody love me!”

Not true, I do!!!

And, more importantly, so does all Creation!

Think of that…All That There Is has your best interest at heart!

If not, the “Creator” will want to destroy some things, and it might be you!

What Creator wants to destroy it’s Creation?

And Yes, Creation implies Order!

It’s always Order out of chaos. Not sure who “created” chaos, but I think it’s just the default…like darkness…and it is our duality. Can’t have Order without chaos!

So there is Order, that is a great Love for you  working on your behalf and for your highest best!!!

Isn’t that beautiful?

Think about Being Loved!!!

It might began to separate you into Who You ARE…and What You DO!

Remember, we live in a duality, so some of our actions keep the dark side side operating….lol.

I also talk about are our actions really bad? We can’t know that until we can see the consequences…maybe years down the road. We also do change our perspective on what they actually were. spce

It’s our basic self that is being Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!

Feel that!!!

Isn’t it good to know that no matter how we prop up the negative, we are still OK?

This is something that we can dwell on for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on and prayed about for the rest of our Lives!

There are so many stories that tell of how it changed people’s lives.

It is the basis for any successful person’s story, so when you read one, look for the self acceptance, the realization of being worthy, and Loved!

So realize that You ARE Loved.

This is the first of 3 posts where the basis of How to Find Your Dream is explained.

If you need more help…

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to ask!

Blessings

Vince

So…Are You Good or Bad?

I think there are 2 kinds of thinking. I am naturally good, and I am a fallen creature.

The naturally good people say that I am not there but trying to recover that totally good self…and will eventually.

The original sin people say you need someone to make you good, and then you live out that goodness…again until you eventually get there.

Both are basically on the same track. They know that we are going to “get there.”

And that it actually takes “walking it out.”

The people who say you need someone to make you good again implies that you were originally good…so are they really so different?

The “naturally good” know that we are separated from that good…for whatever reason…so both are implying what we are not perfect in our actions.

But underneath….our core, our source….is Perfect!!! And we are striving for that all time. It’s built into us.

It’s just we live in a duality, where choice is available, and we choose “bad” things because we mistakenly believe that they are somehow “good.”

What a strange dichotomy!!!

Thinking something good when we inherently know it’s not…and then being suck in doing it over and over…and more and more…is total irrational and insanity!!!

But that’s the way it is in having Choice. We do chose the negative, or it wouldn’t be available.

So you’re just keeping the duality going…so go for it…then I can have more ability to chose positive….lol.

Hey that’s the way it works.

If you want help to chose more positivity write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

There are lots of negative people that open up great new possibilities for us!!!

Vince

There is NO Tomorrow!

This the follow up to “Today is the Day.”

Since it’s always Today, how can there be Tomorrow?

It never comes, so never exists. It’s all in our mind…

and we live there…wishing for things to be different.

Also the past is our memories…which we remember only in our Present.

So if there is only the Present, why can’t we change the past?

We can…if we perceive it differently.

You say but it happened that way. Ahh, that is your perception. Ask someone else about it and they will have a different perspective.

So change your memory!

It might be a bad one, but think about what that experience taught. Most of the time it’s “I’ll never do that again.”

That’s a great lesson, but have you done that again? Are you stuck doing it over and over?

If so, you are in your past. What a crappy way to live!

Change the memory to, “Maybe this was a good thing…looking back at it.”

So, next time that memory comes up, you just say, “Thanks, I know that one…it was for the best.

Now you associate a good feeling with it, so your evil mind doesn’t want to bring it up again.

This is a constant process, and soon “the devil will leave you for a more opportune time.” He’s not going away. He is licking his wounds, and looking for another to attack you.

This strategy works…most of the time, but he will always come up with a new way to get you…and you can always counteract him with a new one of your own.

It comes from you knowing that everything can be changed…or recreated…and that’s one of the things we were created for!!!

More tricks for you are coming!!!

If you need help…vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to go

Blessings

Vince