You Might Have to Stay in That Alternate Reality

You might ask, “Which alternate reality?”

It’s the one where you are pain free, content and filled with joy, especially if you live with constant pain, or some other chronic condition.

I know, I have one…chronic stomach, gas and bowel issues.

I constantly have to go to the place where I am not it pain and everything is “good.” It’s the only way one can survive.

My day goes much better when I keep telling myself, “You can do it,” or “Go to that nice place.”

The longer I am in that “Alternate Reality,” the better it is.

I’ll just say it…You need to find Yours, because it will become your Real Reality!…if you stay in it long enough.

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Why Negative Can Never Win

The negative can never win for a number of reasons.

The first one is that it is only there to give us a choice. If we didn’t have it, how would we know what the positive is?

It is the basis for free will…to pick one or the other.

The second is that it is not self aware. The Universe is positive or it couldn’t exist. The negative only destroys, so it can never ultimately win…or the Universe would not exist. If negative realized that it would just give up, and cease to exist, but it keeps going thinking somehow it can win. In the end it just destroys itself.

Some who choose the negative actually think they are doing good, because they see how bad this world and people are, so they think they need to control them to somehow make them good, not realizing that they, themselves, are what made the world so bad.

So see negative for what it is…just something there so we can see the choice we have…and the opportunity to choose the positive. It has no power in itself, only if we choose it…temporarily. It is there so we can learn what the positive is and choose it.

So don’t view it so negatively…lol. It is there for our good.

Now that’s a different way to look at it…smile!!!

Nobody is Coming to Save You!

I have to say it…”Nobody is coming to SAVE You!!!

Let’s talk about Christianity first. It’s says that when the “church” is “white as snow” then will Christ return. The church is You…all of us. We have to become worthy of His return.

Other people who talk about the “ET’s” coming say that we need to “raise our vibration” first to allow them to appear.

They will not interfere with our Free Will!

Other religions and traditions say the same thing. It might be cloaked in terms of a “great savior,” but always has a qualifying condition…When We Are Ready!

So get ready…learn how to think…and save Yourself. Don’t worry about anyone else. You can’t help them if you are in trouble.

It says Love your neighbor as yourself. So if you don’t love yourself, how can you love them???

The negative forces are being revealed right now to let you see them as they are.

Reject them…Resist them…and become that person that rises about the fake, corrupt, current world, and be a part of the New World that is surely coming!

 

New Future…

We all know that there is something wrong with this world, and it’s not going back to the way it was.

I have to say this…Quit kidding yourself that “everything will be ok, even if it never goes back to the way it was.”

The reality is that IT WON’T!!!

Step into that reality and take a hard look at what you are doing. Are you just going about your regular life HOPING that things will be ok, or are you preparing, thinking about the future.

If not you will be a victim that might not survive the change.

This is SERIOUS!

I could go through all the things that are pointing to the collapse of the way things are now, but that’s not my focus.

If you don’t believe it, there’s nothing I can do to help you.

For those of you who know things have to change, but don’t have a clue how to do that, I have a program called 3 Step to Finding Your Dream! I have written about that lots in other posts, so go there to find out more.

The focus here is to get you to think…really think…about the how YOU want the future to be.

Then realize that it is up to YOU to bring that about. Also to realize that YOU have to make a decision…stay in the old world or graduate into the new one!

After that I can help with the details of how to get there, including strategies and techniques as outlined in the 3 Steps.

But first you have to realize the uncomfortable truth…it’s not going back…and what do I do about it.

That is becoming honest with Yourself. It’s the first step to Freedom.

Make that decision today to move into the new future. It will give you hope and a Dream that will make your life worth living…even in the present deteriorating one.

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Let Yourself be Loved

Step number one of the 3 step process to Finding Your Dream is Realize that You are Loved.

The first thing is to get to the point of non-judgment.

We have to start with a life review. Go through you life and catalog all the bad things you did and all the good things too. It seems easy to say but it’s about being honest with yourself. You don’t have to get into those places where you have deep trauma, just do an overview, but go as deep as you can.

This can take some time, as you will have a tendency to gloss over your faults or blame other people. It’s not about them, it’s about you.

You are not judging yourself, just cataloging.

Once you have the list, see if you can come up with a percentage of good to bad. Is it 50% good, or 70%, or 30%? Can you put a number on it? You will find out that you can’t do it. You really don’t know if the good outweighs the bad, because you don’t know how bad or good each item on the list is.

How do you know if you are good or bad then? There is no way to tell…or, in other words…judge yourself. You might have this feeling that you are bad, somehow, but confront it. Tell it that you don’t know…and can’t know.

So why not just forgive yourself for all the bad in you life. You might say that you can’t because of all the bad, but what about all the good? Maybe they equal out…

Maybe it doesn’t make any difference, because you don’t know. So why not just let it go…both the good and the bad…and just let things be as they are. It’s called self-forgiveness…the letting go!!! You have basis and the reason to do so now!

So you are neutral. I would call it clean! That makes you loveable.

Now who loves you? Well your family and friends do. They love for who you are. They made a judgment about you and decided that you are more good than bad and are worthy of love.

How about God, or the Universe, or whatever you want to call it? It does the same thing…deciding that you are worthy of love, and doing it ultimately, and unconditionally. IT LOVES YOU!!!

What if it didn’t? Would you still be alive, or would it just absorb you back into itself and make a new soul….one that is better? Well, it didn’t, so you must be ok!

Now you are Loved in spite of all the bad. You can’t judge yourself, and your friends think that are good enough to be loved and the Universe does too.

That is something that can be thought about and meditated on for the rest of your life.

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Don’t Believe the Narrative – It’s in Your Mind!

The Narrative is telling you that the world is going crazy, and that somehow you are too!

It’s saying that whatever everyone else is telling is the “truth.” The news, your friends and neighbors and your family are all saying things, and they influence you.

Even your own mind is telling you things.

And they aren’t positive. It’s all doom and gloom.

It disconnects you from who you are and what You want.

So don’t believe it. It’s only in your mind.

The real you is the one you need to access. It’s the one underneath all the chaos “outside.”

Understand there is no “outside.” Everything is happening to you internally. It’s your perception and your judgment that makes it appear outside.

So take some time today and go inside underneath that created, fake chaos and tap into the peace that is there.

It comes from the Creator, the Order, that is present everywhere. Feel that presence. It will relax you and make you more confident.

It’s called Love!!!!

You Are Loved. Connect with that today!

Also, the real narrative going on inside is Your Dream. It’s what is pushing and compelling to get up and do it again.

We all have a Dream, but if it’s clouded by our belief in the narrative, it is not serving our best interests.

So go deep and Find Your Real Dream.

I can help…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

3 Steps to Finding Your Dream

Are you unsatisfied, unfulfilled or just sense that there is more to life? Is your life filled with just busy things, and you never have the time to really think about what you want?

Do you know why? Is there something  that you just can’t put your finger on, but you know there is something wrong?

If these things REALLY bother you…then Read On…

Finding Your Dream was “downloaded” to me several years ago as a complete package. Guess I was ready or something. So I’m giving what I got.

It is a life coaching program meant to help you escape the life that no longer satisfies you.

So, let’s get into it.

There are just 3 simple steps to Finding Your Dream.

The first step is Realizing You Are Loved! ​

The second is Knowing that you can Love Yourself.

The third step is the actual process of Finding Your Dream.

The first step is the process of learning the deep truth of “You are Loved!”

It involves the concept of Unconditional Love.

Like, your family loves you, even knowing all your faults, as do your friends…and your dog or cat!

Do you believe your family and friends love You? Maybe not.

But I know for certain that One does. You can call it whatever you want…The Universe, or God, or whatever.

Maybe you don’t believe in “God,” but I know you realize there is order in the Universe, or it couldn’t exist.​

That Order is what I am talking about. It wants you to be happy and succeed!

This is very important, and discussed in depth in the coaching you will receive.

Think of this…All That There Is (Order) is always looking out for YOU!​

Isn’t that amazingly beautiful?​

Think about being Unconditionally Loved!!!​

We can dwell on this for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on, and prayed about for the rest of our Lives! ​

It’s our soul that is Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!​

Pause, Breathe and Feel that!!!​

It is the basis for any successful person’s life.  So next time you read someone’s success story, look for the self-acceptance, and the awareness of being worthy…and Loved! ​

The second step…​Love Yourself…is the translation of Feeling that Love for You to having a reason to Love Yourself.

Seems easy, right…You can love yourself, because you are loved. Yes, but there’s a process to get there.

It requires you to work through your past, and the judgments, the guilt, the shame that come along with it.

But we don’t focus on those things, we overcome them through special techniques that were given to me. These are unique to this coaching, not to be found anywhere else.

The third step, Finding Your Dream, flows from the self-love you have, and is the actualization of that love! It is natural and free flowing…like being in the zone, as so many people talk about.​

Again, I “received” the processes and exercises to implement it.

It could be called Success, but that infers a static state…like you reach it and then what.

That’s why I call it “Finding” Your Dream. You are always creating and growing.

So, those are the 3 Steps, starting from dissatisfaction to being where you want to be!

I wish I could tell what that feels like. Even my clients can’t find the words. You can see it on their face!

If you want that feeling, that state of being, that joy, that Success, then let’s start that journey together. It’s the most exciting thing in life!

Just reply to the message I sent you or contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, and let’s set up our first meeting, so we can get to know each other better!!!

From there the Journey begins!!!

Allowance, Consent and Accountability

The 3 necessary things to create a better world.

Allowance…you/we need to allow ourselves to speak what we think, and, therefore, afford that same privilege to everyone else…even if we don’t like it.

When everyone feels free to express themselves, society can move forward.

When you feel free to speak, you can Find Your Dream!

Consent…you consent to what happens to you. Only you…not others, not society not God!

You have free will. That means you have given consent…even if it’s not “conscious.” (It is really because it’s the way you think…what you say to yourself all day long.)

The constant chatter in your mind gives consent to all kinds of “good and bad” situations in your life.

On the good side, when people or government try to get you to do things, you have the right…and responsibility to say, “I do not give consent.”

You might still have to do certain things…like pay taxes…but your mindset is what counts.

When you know you have the power of your consent, it changes how you look at life.

It will even dictate where and how you live…like as far away from the things you do not consent to and closer to people that think like you do, and places that allow you the freedom you crave!

All this is dependant on your Accountability. You must allow other people that same freedom you want.

That means you are free only in as much as you don’t infringe upon their freedom to do what they want or to think the way they do.

That requires extreme accountability. You must be very cognizant of your own actions.

Are your biased opinions and condemnation of other points of view and lifestyles infringing on their freedom?

Remember, they will also do the same to you!!!

Striving for a just world does not include judging others.

It only happens when everyone does their best.

That’s why it’s so important to Learn:

That You are Loved,

Therefore You can Love Yourself!!!

When you do that, we are all closer to…

Finding Our Dream!!!

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This ISN’T Going to End Well!

When one looks at today’s situation, there is no way it’s going to End Well.

We can’t keep going being in lockdown, and opening back up will never go back to the way it was…”Normal!”

So it looks like it will have to be a “New Normal!”

What that will look like is anybody’s guess.

So what can one do?

You can’t control the future, but you can control yourself!

That means that you must become your best self…to Survive!

Yes to survive at the most basic level…food, shelter, and power.

None of these are guaranteed anymore.

To do that it starts with the 3 principles I always talk about:

To realize that You Are LOVED!

Therefore You can Love Yourself, and

Find Your Dream!

This is the way to survive and even Thrive in the coming Change!

Loving Yourself will facilitate you knowing the truth from the lies.

There is so much conflicting information now, that it’s very hard to do that.

Also, because of the chaos, fear is also on the rise, and You can be spared all of its negative effects.

So become the person you can be thru Loving Yourself, escape the falseness and fear, and…

Thrive!!!

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Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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