Tag: Love

A New Definition of “Karma!”

What is “karma?”

Before we get to that, we need to talk about the new “Energy” coming into this Earth.

That is what’s creating this New Definition. Instead of doing “good” things to overcome “bad,” it’s the innerstanding of how the Universe is made. It all came from One source, so there can’t be two Ultimates. So there is only One, not good and bad. Most religions and traditions are rooted in that concept. That also implies that we need help, like a savior to cleanse our sins or remove our karma. That is not possible since there is no one able to do that. Everyone has their Journey to follow and we are all the same…in the sight of God. Believing in a savior removes accountability and hinders us in our progress.

The other concept is that we created/dreamed our reality. That means we have a reason to be here. It’s something like we set tasks for ourselves that we wanted to experience.

A funny meme I saw said, “If I knew what I gave myself to do when I got here, I would have said, “Are you Crazy?”

I think it’s funny, but also looking at it from our perspective, it seems like a disaster most of the time. Why did we choose this very dense and dirty existence?

The Answer is:  To be able to turn it into a good one!

This is the new karma concept!

The karma hold on us has been dissolved. We need to face the current situation, forgive ourselves by knowing that We are Loved.

So we don’t have to go back into our past and try to find the reasons why we do/did things. We probably won’t get a definite answer, because it’s too intertwined with everything else that happened. Our mind just brings up either random things or the Next Right Thing to deal with. We don’t know which it is, but the technique is the same…Face it, Forgive ourselves, and Move On!

I received a saying that helps with the racing of the mind that accuses us of “stupid stuff” that we can’t do anything about.

It’s Love, Love, Love!!!

By repeating that in answer to all the questions or situations that can never be answered or resolved, they diffuse into nothing.

That allows only the things that truly need to be addressed to come forth and be dealt with.

This is the way to Cross the Line and Find Your Dream!

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Vince

 

On Relationships…Again!!!

I have to write about relationships again, because it is so crazy right now.

Are there any “normal” relationships anymore?

Maybe, but that’s not how it is depicted on Social Media. All one hears about is the cheating going on.

It’s the culture that’s changed over the last 60 years. Women entered the workplace, got birth control and everything got “equal.”

Well there is no equal…there is separation of powers, responsibilities and accountability.

That has largely been removed. Now there are no fault divorces, government dictating of monetary and child support.

None of this has produced anything positive.

Women have been freed to pursue their innate need of hypergamy with little consequence, completely destroying kid’s lives. They just move from man to man whenever they want with little to no regard to their children.

Men are destroyed because they love completely. They too stray but it’s different. Men have had multiple wives throughout history…and it sorta worked.

Women were always looked down upon for having multiple men. Now it women’s rights.

It might seem good and freeing for women, but no real man wants a women who has had multiple partners, ex-boyfriends they still have feelings for, and/or children with, male friends hovering around waiting to ponce on any little conflict that is sure to happen in any relationship.

Women have this need for attention and validation from everyone…mostly men…they really don’t like women because they are in competition for the best man…and they believe they deserve them.

But it doesn’t really give them what they need, because after all the attention, one night stands, being a single mom and at 35 can’t understand why they can’t find a good man. They can always get a man for a short hookup, but no long-term relationships, because men can see it and want no part of it.

Don’t think men have changed that much except to buy into the “equal” thing and end up being dumped or submitted to a masculine women.

Women do not respect weak men.

Men do not respect “loose” women.

But that is what has been pushed by every kind of media, social science and the changing culture…and it’s not working!

There is no way to deny the need for men to be with many women and women seeking the best man they can get.

But just because there is that very biological survival need there doesn’t mean we have to allow it…or encourage it.

There has always been the need for tempering those base instincts, and society has done it one way or another.

It’s the same as one can’t steal just because one wants it…or is even hungry. There has always been the constraints on behavior.

Women have to realize that sleeping around does not give them what they want, and men need to realize that sleeping around only encourages women to do things they don’t respect.

So men, if you want a pure women, quit hooking up with women…you are decreasing the supply of the very same women you want. Plus, women have an emotional attachment to you, and it’s creates trauma when you dump them. You create very damaged women that can’t make a pair bond. When you do find the “right one” they’re so full of the damage you have done to other women…which is the psyche of the culture…that it has the very little chance of making it longer than 7 or 8 years. By then you have made the “commitment” and get destroyed by their callous exit.

Women quit buying into the lie that you can sleep with whoever you want with no emotional ties. It might work for awhile until you think you found someone that maybe you could make something permanent, and then they dump you, because their men…number 1…and 2 they can innately see that you are not relationship material. You have become an object…the very thing you have been complaining about for 60 years. You cannot have sex without some emotional attachment…and it creates trauma…for each one. Yes that’s right…TRAUMA!!!

Realize that men can have sex with no emotional bond, but when they do they form it completely and “forever.” Women NEVER do that! It’s always their need for security and safety that keeps them with their man. If they perceive that is failing…they are gone…with no regrets…changing the past saying it was always bad no matter how long the good was.

Another thing is women will monkey branch and when the next monkey is not as good as she thought, she will branch back you…you monkey!!! Sorry, that’s just the way it is.

She doesn’t have to justify it…and really can’t in her mind. It just makes “sense” to her.

So men need to be the provider by being as good as they can…being the security women so desperately want. When they get it, you get respect…not love. Their “love” is always conditional.

Women, remember men have to “do” something with their lives…to become a provider. It entails many conflicts and struggles. You, on the other hand, have to provide peace, fitness, looks, children and deferring to their provision which means they get the last say…the decision. That makes you feel safe!!!

That’s how we…society…goes forward.

Time for a change!!!

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

 

A New Chapter in My Life!

Yes I am entering a new chapter in my Life!

I am Single…again!

It is so freeing! Maybe I am not meant to be in a relationship…or maybe I need to learn how to be in one. ;>)

Either way I have learned so much about myself and my relationships that I am a different person. I used get sullen and not talk when things went wrong. The internal dialogue was atrocious. I couldn’t communicate when I was not Loving Myself.

It got to the point where it was like that the majority of the time. That is why I haven’t been posting recently.

So now I am “coming out” and saying I feel better…getting closer to the Feeling that I am Loved, and Loving Myself more. It’s like taking my own advice.

We all get good thoughts sometimes, and we want to tell others when what we should be doing is applying them to our lives for awhile (which is what I have been doing.) Those thoughts are meant for us to manifest change, heal trauma and evolve. As we grow others will notice, and gather around us to “see us burn!” (evidenced by compassion, enthusiasm, and charisma.)

I have the freedom now to let my thoughts and feelings flow…so that will result in more intuition, and more posts.

Also other things have been happening, like having more things “line up,” connections with like-minded people, and abundance.

It will result in me coming back to the US for awhile and then who knows. Right now the possibilities seem endless, which means it takes a real focus to “see” which direction to go.

So focusing on what I want, and not resisting it is the current agenda. It’s more difficult than one thinks. First sorting out all the different scenarios, then narrowing it down and creating a complete blueprint for one’s life is a full time endeavor.

Getting rid of the distractions, recognizing trauma, and dealing with it always get in the way. Seems like what you want has a whole bunch of barriers.

Why is that? You want it…it’s the best you can imagine…but you can’t really “see” it, or keep it in your mind. There is so much distortion and interference.

“It’s the Matrix…man.” Well, yeah, what kind of world would it be if we all could be “Finding Our Dream!” How about that matrix!!!!

There’s always going to be a construct, because we can’t even imagine “nothingness…” and who want to be in that anyway.

So we should create the one we want!

BUT…remember, it is all about you, but there is an Organization, Source for Everything.

I was listening to an atheist, and how he talked about some religious guy contradicting himself. Well, I thought about how he himself was also  contradicting himself in the most ultimate way. He was talking about “God,” which he didn’t believe in, which is ok, but then he said there cannot be a god.

It’s like saying there cannot be something that we already conceived of…like love or faith or satisfaction. That fact there is a concept called “God” means there is One.

Why, because of the concept, which is:  That which is Everything, Everywhere, all at once!

Try not believing in that!!! Or saying it doesn’t exist!!!

So, just because we all think we create our reality, doesn’t mean that we can do as we please. That freedom can entice us to be so focused on us that we don’t realize the affect it has on others.

We need that Feedback! Otherwise we can justify anything.

So your purpose, your Dream, should be for YOUR Highest Good…which Truly is for Everyone’s good!!!

We can’t really know what that is, but Feedback will tell us. That’s how we interact with our environment.

So Finding Our Dream is the realization of Love…for ourselves, which is compassion for others!!!

Thanks for “listening!”

Vince

vsalzer@vincsealzer.com

Some Answers or at least Explanations

The day after I uploaded my last post, I received and answer. It was from someone I respected.

I don’t need to mention his name, because he is not interested in fame or fortune, and I took what he said and changed it anyway.

It’s interesting that when we ask a question the answer comes to us.

So this was about the question of reincarnation. I said that what is the point of it if we start over every life we live. Doesn’t make sense that we are “learning the lessons,” and no wonder it takes 8 billion lives to “ascend.”

That’s pretty depressing!

Here the alternate viewpoint. We are in a simulated reality (see my Facebook post…The Delusion of the Illusion of Reality.) It has been constructed by negative forces, and keeps “recycling” us to harvest our energy, since they can’t access the Energy of the Universe.

See the movie series, Matrix, as an example, but this is on a much deeper level. Not only are we harvested in this life, but are trapped in the cycle of life after life.

This is much more nefarious.

The escape is to know what the construct is and that one doesn’t die. That removes fear of death.

If you talk to people who have had Near Death Experiences, they generally do not have a fear of death when they return.

The other thing is to not follow the “light” when you die, or accept that the relatives meeting you are genuine. Always look away from the first light and find the second one. That leads you out of the cycle.

But you have to be prepared.

You will never see that second Light unless you have done the work to see through the delusion of this life.

That is what I do in my coaching program.

It’s very hard for most people to see it, and I have worked on my self for years to get to a place where I think I can help. (Don’t think that I’ve seen it all, but I am committed to Finding My Dream.)

If you can see that there is something wrong with this world…The Delusion…and want help to escape it and still live a life full of peace, security and LOVE, send me an email (vsalzer@vincesalzer.com) or PM me on one of the Social Media icons that hover at the bottom of every post. I don’t respond to comments to the posts because of the spam and fake email addresses prevalent there. You need to take some initiative if you want to Find Your Dream.

Thanks

Vince

Fear is an Illusion!

Fear seems real, but you probably have seen the Meme: False Emotions Appearing Real.

Yes, it’s a false narrative.

The only thing real is Love. Fear is the absence of Love, just as cold is the absence of heat.

It’s real in that it is all over the news everyday. It’s how “they” control you. If you are in fear, you can’t think rationally. The flight/fight/freeze part of your brain is activated. The world is now continually in this state, due to the “situation.”

But many people are realizing the falseness and “thinking.” This is changing things. That change, and the future, is up for grabs.

That is up to each one of us to generate that future.

So are you beginning to “think?”

For help…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or on FB at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

I Had a Dream

I was pacing in my front patio the other morning, and this just came to me. What I mean is that I get inspirations…or downloads…as I call them. I have received them for years. Finding Your Dream came this way too.

I intend to tell you about them more in the future too.

This one said, “The earth will be changing…to a new higher frequency. All those who want to be a apart of this “new earth” will have to raise their frequency as well. Those who do not wish to will go “somewhere else,” and it will be like it is here now.” I was not shown where, but it didn’t look pleasant.

I said that I wanted to stay here, and I am working to raise my vibration. Then I asked for help to do that. “It” answered, “Do the Finding Your Dream program we gave you (first time I heard we) and help others implement it as well. ”

I am doing both of those things here in the blog and on social media.

A short summary of the “program” is below.

Realizing that You Are Loved is our way of showing you who you really are, and that you are worthy.

Then it’s up to you to make that the reason to Love Yourself. As you do Your Dream will be revealed as a state of being, and you will get the “next right thing” to do.

Then you get feedback,  and do the next right thing!

It is a creative process that gives you the “I love what I do” feeling. It’s no longer work…just joy and peace…knowing that you are Finding Your Dream.

I’m doing what I am being told. I am in the process myself, and am extending a hand to you to do the same.

If this resonates with you, just respond to this post…and if you are really serious about changing you life, email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

 

Allowance, Consent and Accountability

The 3 necessary things to create a better world.

Allowance…you/we need to allow ourselves to speak what we think, and, therefore, afford that same privilege to everyone else…even if we don’t like it.

When everyone feels free to express themselves, society can move forward.

When you feel free to speak, you can Find Your Dream!

Consent…you consent to what happens to you. Only you…not others, not society not God!

You have free will. That means you have given consent…even if it’s not “conscious.” (It is really because it’s the way you think…what you say to yourself all day long.)

The constant chatter in your mind gives consent to all kinds of “good and bad” situations in your life.

On the good side, when people or government try to get you to do things, you have the right…and responsibility to say, “I do not give consent.”

You might still have to do certain things…like pay taxes…but your mindset is what counts.

When you know you have the power of your consent, it changes how you look at life.

It will even dictate where and how you live…like as far away from the things you do not consent to and closer to people that think like you do, and places that allow you the freedom you crave!

All this is dependant on your Accountability. You must allow other people that same freedom you want.

That means you are free only in as much as you don’t infringe upon their freedom to do what they want or to think the way they do.

That requires extreme accountability. You must be very cognizant of your own actions.

Are your biased opinions and condemnation of other points of view and lifestyles infringing on their freedom?

Remember, they will also do the same to you!!!

Striving for a just world does not include judging others.

It only happens when everyone does their best.

That’s why it’s so important to Learn:

That You are Loved,

Therefore You can Love Yourself!!!

When you do that, we are all closer to…

Finding Our Dream!!!

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

This ISN’T Going to End Well!

When one looks at today’s situation, there is no way it’s going to End Well.

We can’t keep going being in lockdown, and opening back up will never go back to the way it was…”Normal!”

So it looks like it will have to be a “New Normal!”

What that will look like is anybody’s guess.

So what can one do?

You can’t control the future, but you can control yourself!

That means that you must become your best self…to Survive!

Yes to survive at the most basic level…food, shelter, and power.

None of these are guaranteed anymore.

To do that it starts with the 3 principles I always talk about:

To realize that You Are LOVED!

Therefore You can Love Yourself, and

Find Your Dream!

This is the way to survive and even Thrive in the coming Change!

Loving Yourself will facilitate you knowing the truth from the lies.

There is so much conflicting information now, that it’s very hard to do that.

Also, because of the chaos, fear is also on the rise, and You can be spared all of its negative effects.

So become the person you can be thru Loving Yourself, escape the falseness and fear, and…

Thrive!!!

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Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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Thoughts on Relationships…

First of all, is to understand the primal urges of our instinctive brain.

Women look for security and safety. They are hypergamous (sp?), which means they are always looking for the better man…and they will monkey branch…they will latch on to that superior man while still with the other one. It’s a basic survival instinct.

Men want to copulate with as many women as possible…to ensure the survival of the species. They also want to conquer and move on.

It’s no wonder there’s a 60+ divorce rate.

So you have to realize that this is happening and know how to combat it if you want to sustain a committed relationship. You will always have the urge to stray, but the question to ask is, after the betrayal (that’s what it is) WHAT THEN? What will you do? Will you hide it and deal with the guilt? Will you be honest and risk losing the relationship? None of those options are positive. That’s what you are left with.

There is a fog that comes over you when you look outside your relationship. You justify your coldness and lack of intimacy because you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Then it comes to a head eventually and the fog lifts and you realize that you want what you originally had…sometimes no matter how bad it was.

So to stay together you have to deal with these basic things. You can do it internally or together. Just be honest with yourself. Are you looking at other women/men? Always ask yourself…

What will I do then?

What are the consequences?

Even if you are not looking at another person, the same question can be asked. If this doesn’t work…WHAT THEN?

What will be the fallout? Who will get hurt? It will not only be you of course, but probably a lot of other people.

Another thing is that you can’t hide it. Your partner knows your vibe. If you are not feeling it they know.

And if you are looking for an “out,” no matter what kind, it gives you an excuse for not talking about your feelings and resolving issues.

Trust is intrinsic to any relationship and very valuable. You might only truly trust only 2 or 3 people in your WHOLE LIFE!!!

Once it’s destroyed, it can never be restored. A whole new relationship has to be developed…and you will have to become a new person to do it!!!

They say divorce is worse than death.

What I can’t understand then, is why there is so much of it…divorce, not death, lol.

So those are the negative reasons why we act the way we do in relationships…and the negative way to combat those instincts.

But that really doesn’t create a good relationship.

Commitment, transparency, and accountability are crucial to your relationships and your life. You will never Love Yourself if you don’t absolutely incorporate these into your life.

It’s “Hard”…

It seems hard to be honest with yourself and your partner…and let them be honest with you. What they say sometimes will not be what you want to hear, but it’s necessary. They know things about you that you don’t, so take it to heart…and change as a result.

It’s also “hard” to become accountable….do what you say…and admit when you’re not.

It’s difficult to trust someone enough to tell them what you are really feeling…maybe telling them things you never told anyone else.

It’s hard but no comparison to the destruction of your very soul.

How about being honest enough to apologize when you didn’t Love Yourself and took it out on them.

You blamed them for you not being the person you want to be.

It’s not them…it’s you. Doesn’t matter what they did. You could have acted differently!!!

They are not psychopathic. They are just reacting to what they thought you did to them, out of their own self-hate.

Yeah, that’s right, it’s either self-love or self-hate. There is no in-between.

Can you imagine going thru life not Loving Yourself?

So imagine the Opposite.

That results in compassion…for them and you.

And controls your reactions.

If you get in a fight, think about what you did…not what they did.

You can only change yourself?

That is Loving Yourself!!!

For more info, reply to me here or at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or PM on FB at https://www.facebook.com/How.to.Find.Your.Dream.

I am on all the other major social media platforms as well. Just do a search!!!

 

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