Is “Found” Money “Good” for You?

The evidence says, “Not so Much,” especially if you didn’t do anything to “Find It!”

For lottery winners, it is mostly a negative. They end up broke, and their friends do too.

The winners think that giving money to “deserving causes” helps them, so they give money to friends and family thinking they are doing good.

What happens is they spend the money…mostly foolishly…and then come back to the “trough.” Money does not grow on trees and most people will get fed up with others sponging off them, so there goes the friendship and family peace.

Now I’m not saying this happens to everyone, but the research says it happens the vast majority of the time.

You don’t know how to handle money if you never had it.

Even the rich lose their money, and they worked for it!!!

Their children are notorious for losing fortunes.

So how do people think that they are going to be any different?

Money changes you…or rather brings out what’s on the inside. If you realize You Are Loved and can Love Yourself, you will see that “helping others” doesn’t really help them.

You will be able to resist, or “see-thru” all the requests, and give the money in a way that doesn’t hurt them.

I think it’s like buying them gifts instead of giving cash. You could pay off some debts, pay for education which is linked to maintaining grades, buying a car, house, or other necessary things.

How about helping them start a business, with much supervision, a loan, or equity stake.

How about using your influence to help people find jobs?

How about starting a “family bank,” where loans are given…at a low-interest rate? No other loans are given until paid.

Now, back to you!

The crucial thing is to “get used to the new money.” 6 months is a good time frame. You limit yourself to spending 5 or 10 percent of it, doing things like paying off debt, a nice dinner, and a small vacation…to get away from all the people hounding you…lol.

Your next objective is to learn about money and how to “keep it.” The rich know that it is harder to maintain…or rather grow…their wealth than create it.

The biggest reason is the fear of loss is bigger than the excitement of making it.

There are lots of people that specialize in helping them…you!

Remember, You are NOW RICH!

So go on a learning spree, getting courses and advice from everywhere you can…and pay for that advice. That way you will have some buy-in and be able to apply it.

Never accept just one person’s opinion. Learn and compare. Take what you resonate with and combine it into your own system.

That’s what the 6 months are for. You will still only a basic level of knowledge by then and, more importantly, you will be more accustomed to having money.

The system’s goal is always to generate enough profits from investing to give you the lifestyle you want.

So it’s more than learning about money…it’s learning how to invest it. First, find people and or programs that can do it for you.

You are not able to do it yourself, that will take several years.

Invest in at least 10 programs and start small, get your money back and then start to scale up…each time getting your initial investment back. It will increase the time to financial independence, but at least you will have your money.

One guy says, “I am more concerned about the return OF my money than the return ON it.

Good advice.

If you have grown your money by 10% in one year, you are doing very well. You have to limit the investing to a small part of the total amount. Then you can start to increase the risk.

So many people say they want bigger returns, but don’t realize that the risk goes up too. So always in terms of risk, not returns.

You can start to increase the risk by investing a larger percentage of your funds. Keep the programs you are using, but also keep researching and learning.

Move your funds around, to the better programs you find.

Pick different risks…like 10% to high risk, 50% to medium, and the rest to a guaranteed return.

Guaranteed can be savings accounts, but better would be annuities that guarantee a return after time…usually 10 years… that last for the rest of your life. The returns are usually 10% or better!

Also, life insurance can be structured to give you a secure income, plus a generous death benefit, but remember the “found money” principle. The beneficiary has to fulfill certain criteria…so the best beneficiary is a trust that is managed by someone that can judge criteria.

See, there is a lot to know…about money and keeping it…and there is so much more to learn.

But…none of this works unless you know that You Are Loved, You Love Yourself and you are in the process of Finding Your Dream!

I can help!

Email me for more info at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

Step 3 – Find Your Dream

So what is a Dream? It’s the experience you want to have, including the feeling of money, good relationships, and emotions like peace and confidence.

It’s not the house, car, travel, vacations, and “stuff” that will bog you down and make your life miserable. The more you have, the more you have to take care of it. And that’s not peace!!! That is a hassle, constantly fixing things, painting and just a drag on your creativity.

So focus on how you want to Feel, not what you want Have!

You can only Find Your Dream if You Love Yourself. Otherwise, the self-hate blocks will obscure it and keep from even seeing it.

So you have to see it, then you can get the process.

The steps will come from the inside, and you will be able to get them because there are no filters from the “survival” part of your mind.

You will be in creative mode. That’s where Dreams are found and realized.

The process is unique for everyone, but the need for accountability and feedback is crucial.

That’s where I come in. You have the benefit of my insight, intuition, and experience.

The chances of You actually Finding Your Dream without help is almost impossible.

Go ahead and try, I’ll be talking to you soon!!!

Blessings

Vince

Step 2 – Love Yourself

Only after you have “done the work” in realizing that You Are Loved can You even begin to Love Yourself.

Teaching you “the work” is my part. Doing is Yours!

And all those “gurus” that say it is effortless are doing you a disservice.

It only becomes effortless after you have reached a certain mindset.

On the way, you will encounter many insights and blocks. Each will come after the other.

It’s an exciting journey! I know, I’m on it too!

I will get you thru the blocks and celebrate the insights with you!

Once you realize that You Are Loved…partially…it’s an ever-increasing revelation…you will understand why you can Love Yourself.

I can tell you why but your insights are always unique.

They will propel you into new heights of peace, calm, confidence, and ease of taking action.

You DO know that you could achieve anything you set your mind to, but there is always something holding you.

Wouldn’t it be nice to find out?

Like maybe you wouldn’t spend so much in front of the TV or on the computer getting nothing of value done, and just getting more and more frustrated.

To know that you Can accomplish anything you set your mind to does “Find Your Dream!

And it’s done through Loving Yourself!

There are many other benefits that I have talked about in other posts, such as becoming “unoffendable”, gaining new friends that resonate with you, and finding love in your relationships.

It’s the whole package!

You know you need help doing this, so contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com and let’s get started!

Blessings

Vince

 

 

A Follow-Up to the “Gentle Reply” Post

I’ve so many requests to add more substance to the A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

The Gentle Persuasion to “Love Yourself” is a good technique, because it is not an easy thing to do.

But just asking if it is “better to Love Yourself than hate yourself” is an easily answered question….Of Course!

So let’s run with that…why is it so hard to Love Oneself?

Because we have done so many “wrong” things…and people have let us know about it…many times.

So if you think about what they said to you, was it reality, or did you have a different perspective on it.

I would say most of the time you did.

That means that they weren’t inside your head…they were inside theirs…and judging you from there.

So if they don’t know your motivations and reasons why you acted in a certain way, why did you give any credence to their criticism?

The answer is, “I don’t know. Hmmmm.”

The second reason why it’s so hard to Love Yourself is that Your MIND is telling you “bad” things. Just listen to it for awhile…Like:

  • Boy you didn’t sleep very well last night. You are tired.
  • Why are you are hungry? You so fat and useless.
  • Why don’t you get up and do something?

Those are just some examples from my Mind?

Yours are probably similar…or worse!

So, how about using the same technique as listening to others?

Your mind is coming from a different perspective than you are!!!

Wait, my mind is me!!!

Is it? Do you agree with what it is saying?

I don’t really accept that I am Fat and Useless!

So your mind is not really You!!!

You are separate from it.

So what is YOU?

You are a “Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity.”

That’s the REAL You, and the best reason to Love Yourself!!!

Blessings

Vince

PS. Please let me know if this helps. I have much more inside of me bursting to get out. LOL!

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Lots of engagement lately

Someone seems to have gotten ahold of this blog lately and told their friends, because there have been an almost overwhelming number of comments lately.

They comment but never respond to my replies, and the English is rather strange, but I’ll take it.

Now is the time to watch my pride. In other words to begin to believe what other people say about me.

They can put you on a pedestal, and make you seem bigger than you are.

It’s really hard to see who you are then, and you begin to Love Yourself because of what others say about you.

That’s not true self love. A lot of famous people get caught up in it, and end up on drugs or dead.

So there are different kinds of Loving Yourself.

Do the good kind.

And if you need help…respond to this post or at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

Thanks

Vince

I Had an Honest Moment the Other Day

The thought came to me that No One wanted to hear what I have been saying for the past 6 or 7 years!

That I had to admit I was speaking into the wind. And I was not relevant.

It was a very honest and revealing moment…

And it was very depressing…for a couple of days. I searched for answers.

You see, I am trying to “monetize” my thoughts into a coaching business.

My goal is to have my thoughts generate resonance with people that want to “pay” for my thoughts.

Honestly, do people really do that?

Not really.

They pay for things that help them.

So why aren’t the things I have been writing helping people?

Maybe I am coming from the wrong place, because I am not doing what I say…namely realizing that I am Loved, Loving Myself and Finding My Dream!

Maybe when I do that, people will then begin to “listen”

But, by my principles, it doesn’t matter if they listen…or want to pay me for my “wisdom.”

My responsibility and accountability is to Love Myself and to Finding MY Dream!

The question is…How do I keep from starving then?

Somebody once said you can have the best and most wisest content, but if no one knows about it, you will starve!

So can I really say that I have told enough people to find any that resonate with what I am saying.

Obviously not!

I mean, if I am just writing my thoughts for myself…no problem…but who really does that? They say things to others to have an effect…to affect change. But it’s a fine line to effect others and not try to control them.

This is a conundrum!

 

 

 

Responsibility, Accountability and Our Country’s Foundation

This is part of a conversation on social media that I had with someone who has had their account temporarily removed due to it needing verification!!!

I probably was talking to a fake person. I was told that by someone, but I kept talking to them…LOL

Maybe the next time I form a “friendship” online, maybe I should “trust, but verify!”

Lesson Learned!

So we were talking about changes necessary in society. They said that certain “influencers” should be “careful” what they say, because some people Might take what they say to hurt others.

Here is my edited response as I thought about it more since I originally wrote it.

What you are saying is that we are responsible for others’ supposed, or maybe in the future, actions. If that is true, then this is the basis for arbitrary censorship…determined by someone else. They can censor you, because it MIGHT cause harm. They foretell the future!

The principle is here is that you are accountable for your speech and actions…not anyone else’s. And your speech is curbed by the same code. You do not say or act in any way that will Directly harm someone else. That is already addressed by law. You do not slander or libel someone else.

But is the call for revolution restricted?

Let’s see:

Our country was founded by a revolution….a violent one…a war. The rhetoric that was used then was incendiary and radical. Patrick Henry said, “Give me Liberty, or Give Me Death.” How radical is that? That is calling for violence…for a just cause. The Declaration of Independence said that when tyranny becomes oppressive, then resistance is an obligation and necessary!

That is how our country was formed…by resisting control…by violence! You should read some of the articles of that time. How about…Let us Hang Together, or we shall all Hang Separately? This was do or die. And it was all voluntary! In fact, most people at the time were pro-British. Only a small minority DID something.

This goes right along with You Are Loved and Love Yourself. Be responsible and accountable…for yourself…and let everyone else do the same. If you think they won’t, what basis do you have to tell them what to do…other than protecting your rights, but not at the expense of theirs….A fine line, but can be clearly drawn…from the right mindset.

 

Some Good Sayings I Saw.

2k a day keeps the J. O. B. away.

Be Yourself…Everyone else is already taken

Are you contributing to civic enlightenment and national harmony?

Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean.

I am keeping busy with my own broom.

Am I waiting for someone else to do what I know to be right?

Is this problem my fault?

How truthful am I?

Is Jesus my answer, or the excuse that I am failing?

Do I truly Love Myself? What feedback do I get when I say, “I Love Myself?” Do I actually listen?

What would happen if I did Love Myself?

Would I still be in the situation I’m in?

What’s the Plan…For Your Life?

Ya…Really…

What is your Plan..Your Dream?

Do you have one?

Have you thought about it?

Maybe you should put some time into thinking about it.

Like how you would want to live.

Not just get up in the morning way before you want to, and go someplace you don’t really like and do things you don’t really want to for someone you don’t really like.

Like really think about it.

What do you want?

Are you afraid of Your Power?

Is that why?

Because if you admit that, you will begin to access things that you can’t even imagine.

Then there’s no one else to blame, and there’s no one else to congratulate when you actually move forward in accomplish it.

If you really think about it, there isn’t anyone out there for you to please, or even could satisfy, so why don’t you try satisfying yourself for once?

I know thins is tough, but that’s what I do.

Teach that You are Loved, You CAN Love Yourself, and Find Your Dream.

Sometimes it takes someone to tell you that in no uncertain terms.

So let’s start with a Plan

Call me…701-850-0560.

And let’s get started!

 

 

Deal With It!

Deal with what?

Whatever is bothering you!

Whatever is holding you back?

“They” are called Traumas by many people.

Why?

Because those are the things that keep you from growing, evolving, ascending…

from Finding Your Dream!!!

So what are Traumas?

They are misinterpretations of experiences, or memories. Those wrong judgements have negative emotions attached to them, and raise a flight, fight or freeze reaction in your primitive brain.

That’s what keeps you Stuck!

The judgement of the experience!

Remember, memory is experienced in the present. You bring it back up and that’s where it affects you. If it stayed in the past…on the shelf…it wouldn’t be a problem.

Our mind keeps bringing them though, because we attached an emotion, an importance to them.

It becomes a Trauma whenfear, guilt and shame become attached to it.

This builds a construct, a matrix, which means it can be looked at, evaluated and even discarded for a new interpretation…which forms a new matrix.

I would like to think that we can live “outside the Matrix,” but we can’t. We need have structure to be able to have tables, chairs, beliefs and the possibility of growth.

So we reconstruct those Traumas into beneficial things we learn from and set back on the shelf, with no emotion tied to them.

It would be nice not to have any emotions, but memories are where emotions come from, so one will always have them, but we can greatly reduce their affects.

We can use the technique of saying, “I know that happened”…or rather…”Thank you for bringing that up again. You brought it up for a reason. What can I learn from it?”

Once you get an intuition why it’s there and what can be learned, you can set it back on the shelf.

You can’t eliminate of memories, so they can only be put back in the database. You do that and lower their importance. If they come up again, it means you can learn more from them. Then they go back and sit there. You just keep doing that over and over.

The process is letting the memories come up, thanking them, learning from them and categorizing their importance.

Most of them happened long ago, and really have nothing to do with the way you are today?

I have a very charged memory of spraining my ankle when I was a teenager. It surprised me and hurt so bad. I was running with wet shoes on a guy floor. It was my first experience with intense pain, so a quick and negative emotion was attached to it. I still shudder to this day when it comes back up. I need to see what I can still learn from it. One thing is to be able to deal with surprising and painful experiences, and knowing I will make a judgement about life because of it. I have been living in fear of having new and potentially negative experiences. They could just as easily been positive too, but I judge…construct…my perspective based on that first experience! (I am discovering some of this just by writing about it…a reason to write your thoughts down. They become “concrete” and it’s harder for the memory to assert influence over you, because you have dealt with it.)

The lesson is: “Don’t Do That.” LOL! (The answer for everything!) Also be aware of your environment. Learn the beneficial way to react with it.  Also, that it happened so long ago that it has nothing to do with my present experience, but it surely does affect it.

But it still brings up a shuddering reaction, and I must deal with it on a consistent basis. Maybe just writing this will release it more so that I can look at it every time it comes up, learn from it and consciously release it.

When you truly learn everything you need to know about it, and, then commit to acting differently…being in a different state…taking a different perspective…the Trauma resides.

This must be a big subject since I already wrote 700 words about it.

These emotions…perspectives…developed matrix’s…can be deep seated…like a death or divorce…and can be hard to deal with. Just letting the experience resurface can elicit so much trauma that we can’t do it.

It then just stays beneath the surface…sometimes deeply buried…that we don’t even recognize they are there. Those are the ones affect us the most, but we work on the ones we can.

Once we learn how to deal with Traumas that are at the surface, the deeper ones will be able to come up.

We have to deal with them from the Matrix of I Am Loved, (Nothing can separate me from the Love of God! My parents Love me just like I Love my children…unconditionally!)

And because of that…I can Love Myself. Also, I am a created, eternal spirit by that God that Loves Me…ultimately and unconditionally!

That I am worth it…worthy…deserving…powerful, and able to Deal With It!

So we start from the Point of Love and deal with what comes up from That Construct!

Since Nothing can separate me from Love, I can deal with Pain, Fear…Trauma…anything.

I form my New Reality.

I call it Finding My Dream!