Let Yourself be Loved

Step number one of the 3 step process to Finding Your Dream is Realize that You are Loved.

The first thing is to get to the point of non-judgment.

We have to start with a life review. Go through you life and catalog all the bad things you did and all the good things too. It seems easy to say but it’s about being honest with yourself. You don’t have to get into those places where you have deep trauma, just do an overview, but go as deep as you can.

This can take some time, as you will have a tendency to gloss over your faults or blame other people. It’s not about them, it’s about you.

You are not judging yourself, just cataloging.

Once you have the list, see if you can come up with a percentage of good to bad. Is it 50% good, or 70%, or 30%? Can you put a number on it? You will find out that you can’t do it. You really don’t know if the good outweighs the bad, because you don’t know how bad or good each item on the list is.

How do you know if you are good or bad then? There is no way to tell…or, in other words…judge yourself. You might have this feeling that you are bad, somehow, but confront it. Tell it that you don’t know…and can’t know.

So why not just forgive yourself for all the bad in you life. You might say that you can’t because of all the bad, but what about all the good? Maybe they equal out…

Maybe it doesn’t make any difference, because you don’t know. So why not just let it go…both the good and the bad…and just let things be as they are. It’s called self-forgiveness…the letting go!!! You have basis and the reason to do so now!

So you are neutral. I would call it clean! That makes you loveable.

Now who loves you? Well your family and friends do. They love for who you are. They made a judgment about you and decided that you are more good than bad and are worthy of love.

How about God, or the Universe, or whatever you want to call it? It does the same thing…deciding that you are worthy of love, and doing it ultimately, and unconditionally. IT LOVES YOU!!!

What if it didn’t? Would you still be alive, or would it just absorb you back into itself and make a new soul….one that is better? Well, it didn’t, so you must be ok!

Now you are Loved in spite of all the bad. You can’t judge yourself, and your friends think that are good enough to be loved and the Universe does too.

That is something that can be thought about and meditated on for the rest of your life.

Leave a comment or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com to find out more!!!

3 Steps to Finding Your Dream

Are you unsatisfied, unfulfilled or just sense that there is more to life? Is your life filled with just busy things, and you never have the time to really think about what you want?

Do you know why? Is there something  that you just can’t put your finger on, but you know there is something wrong?

If these things REALLY bother you…then Read On…

Finding Your Dream was “downloaded” to me several years ago as a complete package. Guess I was ready or something. So I’m giving what I got.

It is a life coaching program meant to help you escape the life that no longer satisfies you.

So, let’s get into it.

There are just 3 simple steps to Finding Your Dream.

The first step is Realizing You Are Loved! ​

The second is Knowing that you can Love Yourself.

The third step is the actual process of Finding Your Dream.

The first step is the process of learning the deep truth of “You are Loved!”

It involves the concept of Unconditional Love.

Like, your family loves you, even knowing all your faults, as do your friends…and your dog or cat!

Do you believe your family and friends love You? Maybe not.

But I know for certain that One does. You can call it whatever you want…The Universe, or God, or whatever.

Maybe you don’t believe in “God,” but I know you realize there is order in the Universe, or it couldn’t exist.​

That Order is what I am talking about. It wants you to be happy and succeed!

This is very important, and discussed in depth in the coaching you will receive.

Think of this…All That There Is (Order) is always looking out for YOU!​

Isn’t that amazingly beautiful?​

Think about being Unconditionally Loved!!!​

We can dwell on this for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on, and prayed about for the rest of our Lives! ​

It’s our soul that is Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!​

Pause, Breathe and Feel that!!!​

It is the basis for any successful person’s life.  So next time you read someone’s success story, look for the self-acceptance, and the awareness of being worthy…and Loved! ​

The second step…​Love Yourself…is the translation of Feeling that Love for You to having a reason to Love Yourself.

Seems easy, right…You can love yourself, because you are loved. Yes, but there’s a process to get there.

It requires you to work through your past, and the judgments, the guilt, the shame that come along with it.

But we don’t focus on those things, we overcome them through special techniques that were given to me. These are unique to this coaching, not to be found anywhere else.

The third step, Finding Your Dream, flows from the self-love you have, and is the actualization of that love! It is natural and free flowing…like being in the zone, as so many people talk about.​

Again, I “received” the processes and exercises to implement it.

It could be called Success, but that infers a static state…like you reach it and then what.

That’s why I call it “Finding” Your Dream. You are always creating and growing.

So, those are the 3 Steps, starting from dissatisfaction to being where you want to be!

I wish I could tell what that feels like. Even my clients can’t find the words. You can see it on their face!

If you want that feeling, that state of being, that joy, that Success, then let’s start that journey together. It’s the most exciting thing in life!

Just reply to the message I sent you or contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, and let’s set up our first meeting, so we can get to know each other better!!!

From there the Journey begins!!!

Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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So…Are You Good or Bad?

I think there are 2 kinds of thinking. I am naturally good, and I am a fallen creature.

The naturally good people say that I am not there but trying to recover that totally good self…and will eventually.

The original sin people say you need someone to make you good, and then you live out that goodness…again until you eventually get there.

Both are basically on the same track. They know that we are going to “get there.”

And that it actually takes “walking it out.”

The people who say you need someone to make you good again implies that you were originally good…so are they really so different?

The “naturally good” know that we are separated from that good…for whatever reason…so both are implying what we are not perfect in our actions.

But underneath….our core, our source….is Perfect!!! And we are striving for that all time. It’s built into us.

It’s just we live in a duality, where choice is available, and we choose “bad” things because we mistakenly believe that they are somehow “good.”

What a strange dichotomy!!!

Thinking something good when we inherently know it’s not…and then being suck in doing it over and over…and more and more…is total irrational and insanity!!!

But that’s the way it is in having Choice. We do chose the negative, or it wouldn’t be available.

So you’re just keeping the duality going…so go for it…then I can have more ability to chose positive….lol.

Hey that’s the way it works.

If you want help to chose more positivity write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

There are lots of negative people that open up great new possibilities for us!!!

Vince

There is NO Tomorrow!

This the follow up to “Today is the Day.”

Since it’s always Today, how can there be Tomorrow?

It never comes, so never exists. It’s all in our mind…

and we live there…wishing for things to be different.

Also the past is our memories…which we remember only in our Present.

So if there is only the Present, why can’t we change the past?

We can…if we perceive it differently.

You say but it happened that way. Ahh, that is your perception. Ask someone else about it and they will have a different perspective.

So change your memory!

It might be a bad one, but think about what that experience taught. Most of the time it’s “I’ll never do that again.”

That’s a great lesson, but have you done that again? Are you stuck doing it over and over?

If so, you are in your past. What a crappy way to live!

Change the memory to, “Maybe this was a good thing…looking back at it.”

So, next time that memory comes up, you just say, “Thanks, I know that one…it was for the best.

Now you associate a good feeling with it, so your evil mind doesn’t want to bring it up again.

This is a constant process, and soon “the devil will leave you for a more opportune time.” He’s not going away. He is licking his wounds, and looking for another to attack you.

This strategy works…most of the time, but he will always come up with a new way to get you…and you can always counteract him with a new one of your own.

It comes from you knowing that everything can be changed…or recreated…and that’s one of the things we were created for!!!

More tricks for you are coming!!!

If you need help…vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to go

Blessings

Vince

 

I Had an Honest Moment the Other Day

The thought came to me that No One wanted to hear what I have been saying for the past 6 or 7 years!

That I had to admit I was speaking into the wind. And I was not relevant.

It was a very honest and revealing moment…

And it was very depressing…for a couple of days. I searched for answers.

You see, I am trying to “monetize” my thoughts into a coaching business.

My goal is to have my thoughts generate resonance with people that want to “pay” for my thoughts.

Honestly, do people really do that?

Not really.

They pay for things that help them.

So why aren’t the things I have been writing helping people?

Maybe I am coming from the wrong place, because I am not doing what I say…namely realizing that I am Loved, Loving Myself and Finding My Dream!

Maybe when I do that, people will then begin to “listen”

But, by my principles, it doesn’t matter if they listen…or want to pay me for my “wisdom.”

My responsibility and accountability is to Love Myself and to Finding MY Dream!

The question is…How do I keep from starving then?

Somebody once said you can have the best and most wisest content, but if no one knows about it, you will starve!

So can I really say that I have told enough people to find any that resonate with what I am saying.

Obviously not!

I mean, if I am just writing my thoughts for myself…no problem…but who really does that? They say things to others to have an effect…to affect change. But it’s a fine line to effect others and not try to control them.

This is a conundrum!

 

 

 

What’s the Plan…For Your Life?

Ya…Really…

What is your Plan..Your Dream?

Do you have one?

Have you thought about it?

Maybe you should put some time into thinking about it.

Like how you would want to live.

Not just get up in the morning way before you want to, and go someplace you don’t really like and do things you don’t really want to for someone you don’t really like.

Like really think about it.

What do you want?

Are you afraid of Your Power?

Is that why?

Because if you admit that, you will begin to access things that you can’t even imagine.

Then there’s no one else to blame, and there’s no one else to congratulate when you actually move forward in accomplish it.

If you really think about it, there isn’t anyone out there for you to please, or even could satisfy, so why don’t you try satisfying yourself for once?

I know thins is tough, but that’s what I do.

Teach that You are Loved, You CAN Love Yourself, and Find Your Dream.

Sometimes it takes someone to tell you that in no uncertain terms.

So let’s start with a Plan

Call me…701-850-0560.

And let’s get started!

 

 

Accessing the Right Brain!

I watched…maybe re-watched..a Ted Talk from Jill Bolte Taylor where she relates her brain stroke experience.

She talks about her 2 States of Mind. One was telling her something was wrong and then that she was having a stroke, and needed help.

The other showed her connectedness to “All That Is.”  She could not feel the boundaries of her body. She just felt intense Joy and Love. But she could not function in this “density.” She could not dial her phone, or understand language, but she was able to communicate enough to get to the hospital. When she woke up, the stimuli of her senses overloaded her brain, which resulted in intense pain.

She then described one state as being the “Left Brain,” which helped her in dialing the phone, and the Right Brain, which gave her the expansive realization of her “Higher Self.”

That really affected me, because my inspiration of “You Are Loved, therefore You Can Love Yourself and Find Your Dream” is coming from My Right Brain.

So the only way to You can realize these concepts is if you can move to your Right Brain!!!

Unfortunately, she didn’t talk about how one can do that, and I don’t want You to have a stroke!!!!, so my techniques help you do it…without injuring Yourself….LOL!

First, the Left Brain is very strong. You can tell by the “chatter” if  you watch your thoughts. Watching is a Right Brain function.

Repeating “I am Loved” and “I Love Myself” is a way of raising the Right Brain dominance in Your Life. Love comes from the Infinite, which is realized in the Right Brain…the no body-borders state.

All intuition, ideas and Your Dream reside in the Right Brain, so learning how to raise it’s influence is crucial to your Happiness, Peace and Your Dream!

So if you resonate with How to Access Your Dream from Your Right Brain, leave me a message, or contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/vsalzer.

 

I’M Sad!

I’m Sad, because my friends from the States just left after 9 wonderful, event filled days.

We had a great time reconnecting, and talking about our view on life. They came from a slightly different perspective, as all people do, but we still mostly agreed on most things.

The others we just let go. We concentrated on saying, “Yes, I can see how you think that way!”

What a wonderful to communicate!

We revealed how we felt about things openly and honestly, and we had a great time doing it!

 

The Review of My Life….You Should Try It!

I got the inspiration to go over the past few years of my life and see how I have changed. So I went to my blog at VinceSalzer.com and started reviewing the posts.

Then I got the idea to write about them…to “feel” how I felt at the time.

I began to write and was guided to divide it up into sections, by date, to show the progression (I call it “graduating.”) of my life. It is a big writing project, so it will be published in parts. I think it can resonate with you…and if it does, let me know.

First, back then I was a pretty staunch Christian…not so much now….staunch that is. I have been “graduating” from how I believe all my life. My beliefs helped me tremendously…got me thru a devastating divorce…but then I needed more…as I saw that a lot of the teachings I was hearing weren’t making a difference in my life and many of the lives that I saw. So I kept searching… But back to how I thought 5 years ago. It wasn’t all bad.

So let’s dig in…