So What Really is Crossing the Line?

I am going to try to explain more about what Crossing the Line is.

This is harder than one thinks. It is explaining something that is out of this world, but, yet, still in it. One wise man said, “Be of this world, but not in it.” Do you know who it was?

To not be “in this world” one needs to be able to access info that comes from those who are in that “other” space, because that’s where the info comes from. They say completely different things from what is commonly known.

They are completely at peace, loving themselves and financially free.

There are groups of them in all areas of society, and they only congregate with other people who are like minded. They don’t think exactly alike, but the common thing among them is that they have all Crossed the Line! Like I said they are FREE in every area of their life and getting more every day! That’s what binds them together. They have other common interests, such as the type of business, the spiritual practice, entertainment, the family stage (children or not) and many other things.

So they gather into these groups I call Master Minds which keeps their mindset “on the other side.” They also help each other to achieve their Dreams.

These people also have seminars and coaching sessions teaching people like you and me how to “Cross Over.” They do it because they live in BLISS and want others to have it as well. The clubs are always wanting to expand too, as everyone wants more friends…right.

They explain what it’s like to be free, and how to go about achieving it. There are many different ways to do that, of course, so it depends on whom you resonate with. But the end goal is the same…Crossing the Line means FREEDOM!

It’s like they are extending their hand out to you, inviting you into the club. You qualify by being open to new and different information. Then they look for commitment in time, energy, focus and money, because nothing is free in this world. They also look for how enthused and excited you are.

If you are stuck in fear, they help you, so you can rise above it. They also help you deal with your traumas. Everyone has them, so you are really no different than anyone else. They have been there themselves, and know what it’s like.

In my experience, everyone talks about Money! It is no different with them because it is so important until you have established ways to generate it consistently. It is the first step in your Crossing the Line journey. But just working hard to make money is not the answer. It is learning how to do the things that makes you a “manifestor!” There are specific vehicles that they use to achieve these goals, and can be different for each group.

The mindset of, “I am open to the way of manifesting that works for me.” is the thing that reveals the Line. I have been looking for that all of my life, and, in some way, everyone is as well. So I am not saying anything that doesn’t apply to all humanity. We all have the desire to become FREE! We just don’t know exactly how to get there! The better way to say it is, “How to be there!” It is a state being.

One of the groups says, “Just keeping coming to the seminars, until you “get it!” Just keep getting the info until that one thing clicks for you.

I always remember the people “over there” say that once you know it, you will be completely changed. They said that they went from “trying” to attract people to their cause or idea or company to having people contacting them wanting to be apart of what they were doing. It became almost effortless. This has been said by many thought leaders throughout history. What we desire we attract!

Then a few years ago I began getting messages from I don’t know who or where. They told me things that came true many times, so I listened and more came. They gave me “The Three Pillars,” which is how one Finds Their Dream…or now, how one “Crosses the Line!”

I asked who they were or where they came from, but never really got an answer. So I just call them they. They said to never put quotes around or bold the word they. They would prefer I don’t capitalize it either. They say it’s not important. They don’t have names anyway. I don’t even know if it’s one entity or more. It really is irrelevant. I just follow what they say as much as I can. They are so loving and accepting that I break down in gratitude and humbleness, just to be allowed to hear what they say. But then they say again, they are no better than me, and just continue to be On the Other Side!

It is a great honor for me just to be a part of Crossing the Line!

It’s like the religious experience of getting saved and filled with the Holy Spirit in the Christian sense. There are similar things in other traditions as well. If you are familiar with them, you will know the words.

But the spiritual experience needs to be manifested in the physical world. That’s when it become real and makes a difference in your life.

It’s called Abundance and Peace!

These are their terms. I don’t make them up. First comes the name like Crossing the Line, and then it’s explained in detail. It takes time to process it, so I can “innerstand” it. Then they tell me to write it in my blog and on social media. Actually I am sometimes overwhelmed by the immensity of it, and have to really focus to put this “concept” into words. Hence I am becoming a word artist as I mentioned in my last post. I am truly amazed sometimes what comes out of my mouth, or write in response to people who respond to me on social media. They always have something unique to say to each of these people, and it just comes out.

In the midst of all this contact with them I found something that just resonated with me, so I got started. A few months later I realized that this vehicle is making me financially independent, and will last as long as the internet and common business practice exists. It was intuitive as well as logical. It just made Sense! Once I realized that I was financially free, I was completely changed.

My favorite line now is that I am financially free and do what I like. The rest of my life will be finding out what I really desire to do! The question is, “What do I want?” That’s not as easy as you think, because the possibilities seem endless. Even with boundaries, as you might have, it still takes a lot of “thinking” to see what you really want!

It is an endeavor that will occupy my life completely. I think of something I want to do and then go about doing it, always keeping that Peace. I call it Staying Over the Line! It gets easier the more I do it. It’s as important as Crossing the Line is.

I learned to keep a protection around me, and am insulated from the negative in this world…as I perceive it.

The other thing they said is there are only 1 or 2 times that this will be presented to you…IN YOUR LIFE! They were very clear about it. It was like a warning! If you don’t accept it, I am told to move on. We can be acquaintances, but Crossing the Line will always be lurking. You know that I am FREE and it’s something you want, but reject.

I guess that’s one reason it’s called a Line. Step over it and become FREE, or stay on the other side. It’s up to You. You don’t offend me by not wanting to cross it. I was there and I know what it’s like.

I share the process of this concept to those who have done the initial steps to gather information, getting their questions answered and seem ready by their actions.

It’s a logical investigation driven by the desire we all have to grow…to be FREE. You just have to be open to learning more about it

I have compassion for you no matter what you decide. We all have our own journey.

They tell me I can only associate with like minded people, those who are over the Line or truly want to be, so I am following Instructions. I am not any better than you, just open to them and made different decisions.

Well this has turned in a “book.” In my last post I said I don’t have anymore words, but many more will be coming. That certainly happened…another amazing thing about them.

All I can say that if you are ready…open to hear what they say…not me…then reply to this post, contact me by email below or PM me on most social media. I am the same everywhere: Vince Salzer

Abundance and Peace,

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

The Differences in Relationships between the East and West

I just saw video about how single motherhood occurs in the East.

It seems that most of the mothers were very young and innocent when they had their babies. They thought that having a baby instilled a sense of responsibility in the father, but a 20 year man is not ready, capable or willing to do that. They don’t have a way to support a wife and child, so they become a deadbeat dad.

In the West it’s more like the women think they can experience life without being controlled. They have more info, but still have to deal with their biological urges. The government helps them out as well.

In the East it is more of education and awareness, where in the West feminism has influenced women’s choices.

Eastern women want good men who are respectful to them. They want to be stay at home wives and moms. They want children and a family.

Western women want that too, but are not “allowed” to admit it. They have more choices, such as careers and independence, but regret taking them when it’s too late to find a man that they want.

In the East children outside of marriage is looked down upon much more, and no government help is available. They become strong independent women out of necessity, but still want a relationship, and are willing to be feminine to get it.

Western women have lost the concept of what being feminine is and are losing the interest of men.

Let’s say it again, women control access to sex and men the access to relationships.

Women allow men to sleep with them and then expect accountability when it goes wrong. I personally know of an instance that having sex one time produced a baby!!!

I will have to admit when I was young I let my emotions and need for sex overwhelm my ability to ask, “And then What?”

I am very fortunate to not have any unknown or unwanted children running around.

As I grew older my need lessened, but still controlled my circumstances, I never progressed past the teenage phase until I took a deep look at myself.

That is when I received the “Realize that I am Loved, and therefore Love Myself” inspiration.

The reason I could not control myself is that I didn’t think I was worthy, so was filled with shame and guilt. Now I consider sex and relationships in a much different way.

I think that’s why I am comparing the East and West. There are good points and bad between the two, but for men they are not wanting to have relationships the Western way.

Let’s also remember that 80% of women are going after the “top” 20% of men, so most men get nothing and women can’t find a good man…because they are competing for the same man. A man who knows that will just sleep around as he has plenty of choices. A good example of this is in college where women flocked to the sports stars, and didn’t even “see” the good students. So it was just one drunken dysfunctional mess. That has expanded culture wide in the West, and it’s breaking down Society.

I really have compassion for Eastern women because of how little education and support they have….But they need to own their choices! And mostly they do, but they are now faced with the reality of raising their children on their own. Their pragmatism precludes their need for philosophical discussions. So they just want a man to take care of them. They don’t focus on blaming men, but just want food and a home for their children…A very different attitude and reality than the West.

The solution, of course, is control your urges. It’s that way with everything. You can’t build a business by just doing what you feel. Unfortunately, the majority of people just get a job and spend everything they made in 5 days at the local mall in 2 days. There goes success!

Relationships and Life are the same. The principles work…in both areas.

So restrain your urges to achieve Your Dream through Realizing You Are Loved, and Loving Yourself!

 

A New Chapter in My Life!

Yes I am entering a new chapter in my Life!

I am Single…again!

It is so freeing! Maybe I am not meant to be in a relationship…or maybe I need to learn how to be in one. ;>)

Either way I have learned so much about myself and my relationships that I am a different person. I used get sullen and not talk when things went wrong. The internal dialogue was atrocious. I couldn’t communicate when I was not Loving Myself.

It got to the point where it was like that the majority of the time. That is why I haven’t been posting recently.

So now I am “coming out” and saying I feel better…getting closer to the Feeling that I am Loved, and Loving Myself more. It’s like taking my own advice.

We all get good thoughts sometimes, and we want to tell others when what we should be doing is applying them to our lives for awhile (which is what I have been doing.) Those thoughts are meant for us to manifest change, heal trauma and evolve. As we grow others will notice, and gather around us to “see us burn!” (evidenced by compassion, enthusiasm, and charisma.)

I have the freedom now to let my thoughts and feelings flow…so that will result in more intuition, and more posts.

Also other things have been happening, like having more things “line up,” connections with like-minded people, and abundance.

It will result in me coming back to the US for awhile and then who knows. Right now the possibilities seem endless, which means it takes a real focus to “see” which direction to go.

So focusing on what I want, and not resisting it is the current agenda. It’s more difficult than one thinks. First sorting out all the different scenarios, then narrowing it down and creating a complete blueprint for one’s life is a full time endeavor.

Getting rid of the distractions, recognizing trauma, and dealing with it always get in the way. Seems like what you want has a whole bunch of barriers.

Why is that? You want it…it’s the best you can imagine…but you can’t really “see” it, or keep it in your mind. There is so much distortion and interference.

“It’s the Matrix…man.” Well, yeah, what kind of world would it be if we all could be “Finding Our Dream!” How about that matrix!!!!

There’s always going to be a construct, because we can’t even imagine “nothingness…” and who want to be in that anyway.

So we should create the one we want!

BUT…remember, it is all about you, but there is an Organization, Source for Everything.

I was listening to an atheist, and how he talked about some religious guy contradicting himself. Well, I thought about how he himself was also  contradicting himself in the most ultimate way. He was talking about “God,” which he didn’t believe in, which is ok, but then he said there cannot be a god.

It’s like saying there cannot be something that we already conceived of…like love or faith or satisfaction. That fact there is a concept called “God” means there is One.

Why, because of the concept, which is:  That which is Everything, Everywhere, all at once!

Try not believing in that!!! Or saying it doesn’t exist!!!

So, just because we all think we create our reality, doesn’t mean that we can do as we please. That freedom can entice us to be so focused on us that we don’t realize the affect it has on others.

We need that Feedback! Otherwise we can justify anything.

So your purpose, your Dream, should be for YOUR Highest Good…which Truly is for Everyone’s good!!!

We can’t really know what that is, but Feedback will tell us. That’s how we interact with our environment.

So Finding Our Dream is the realization of Love…for ourselves, which is compassion for others!!!

Thanks for “listening!”

Vince

vsalzer@vincsealzer.com

Some Answers or at least Explanations

The day after I uploaded my last post, I received and answer. It was from someone I respected.

I don’t need to mention his name, because he is not interested in fame or fortune, and I took what he said and changed it anyway.

It’s interesting that when we ask a question the answer comes to us.

So this was about the question of reincarnation. I said that what is the point of it if we start over every life we live. Doesn’t make sense that we are “learning the lessons,” and no wonder it takes 8 billion lives to “ascend.”

That’s pretty depressing!

Here the alternate viewpoint. We are in a simulated reality (see my Facebook post…The Delusion of the Illusion of Reality.) It has been constructed by negative forces, and keeps “recycling” us to harvest our energy, since they can’t access the Energy of the Universe.

See the movie series, Matrix, as an example, but this is on a much deeper level. Not only are we harvested in this life, but are trapped in the cycle of life after life.

This is much more nefarious.

The escape is to know what the construct is and that one doesn’t die. That removes fear of death.

If you talk to people who have had Near Death Experiences, they generally do not have a fear of death when they return.

The other thing is to not follow the “light” when you die, or accept that the relatives meeting you are genuine. Always look away from the first light and find the second one. That leads you out of the cycle.

But you have to be prepared.

You will never see that second Light unless you have done the work to see through the delusion of this life.

That is what I do in my coaching program.

It’s very hard for most people to see it, and I have worked on my self for years to get to a place where I think I can help. (Don’t think that I’ve seen it all, but I am committed to Finding My Dream.)

If you can see that there is something wrong with this world…The Delusion…and want help to escape it and still live a life full of peace, security and LOVE, send me an email (vsalzer@vincesalzer.com) or PM me on one of the Social Media icons that hover at the bottom of every post. I don’t respond to comments to the posts because of the spam and fake email addresses prevalent there. You need to take some initiative if you want to Find Your Dream.

Thanks

Vince

The Delusion of the Illusion of Life

I posted about this in a recent Facebook post.

The post was “Are you believing in the Delusion of the Illusion of Life?”

Seems rather confusing or a word play. I don’t know, it’s just the way it was “given” to me.

So I should probably explain it…

The long version would be: Are you deluded into thinking that your view of life is actually the only one there is?

What would happen if you changed your “delusion?”

Is it even possible to not be deluded?

The “Illusion of Life” seems to indicate that.

Does that mean that “Life” is not real, or doesn’t exist?

Some say that the Illusion comes in Layers, and we can move between them when we realize what they are. There are “Creators” of these Layers called 3D, 4D, 5D and so on. They maintain them so beings can have a shared perception. It’s the structure of the Universe.

Actually who knows? That has been thought about, and written about for centuries.

We can say that we know WE exist, but cannot really explain how or why!!! We think the world or life exists, but it is only through our perception.

The so often quote is, “We create the Life we want.” So if each one of us is creating our own reality, what is the Real one for all of us. Is it knowable?

Good unanswerable questions!!!

Let’s bring it down from the metaphysical to the personal. How can we create the Life we want?

The title of this post suggests that we escape the Delusion, and realize Life is an Illusion. I submit that it frees us up to construct our Dream! The most important part is the delusion. Freeing ourselves of that helps us to participate more in the Illusion…even though it’s fake.

Knowing that it’s fake helps us to not take our Life to seriously, freeing us to create more spontaneously.

Another way to say it is to quit lying to ourselves, so we can respond more authentically. When others see that, they become attracted to us.  Then our Dream becomes achievable, because we can’t do it alone, nor do we want to.

For more in-depth info, contact me by way of all the icons hovering above this post.

Many Blessings

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

So Many Good Things are Happening!

In the circles I run in so many people are excited about the positive changes that are happening.

It might look like it’s really negative, but the sentiment is that the negative is past its peak and the positive is on the upturn….massively.

I want to put this out there so you can feed off this vibration…and help the parabolic rise!!!

Don’t take this as, “Wow, everything is going to get better. I can sit back and watch the negative collapse, and the positive create.” It’s more like I need this positive message to renew my resolve to change, to realize that I am Loved, can Love Myself and keep moving forward.

Even if the positive is evident, and you don’t do anything, you will miss out on its effects. You can just sit and watch it…watch it run right by you!

This is a free choice reality. It’s your choice to create what you want. It will be easier in the near future, but only if you are prepared.

That’s what I do, help you prepare…to survive the current situation and thrive in the next one!

Fear is an Illusion!

Fear seems real, but you probably have seen the Meme: False Emotions Appearing Real.

Yes, it’s a false narrative.

The only thing real is Love. Fear is the absence of Love, just as cold is the absence of heat.

It’s real in that it is all over the news everyday. It’s how “they” control you. If you are in fear, you can’t think rationally. The flight/fight/freeze part of your brain is activated. The world is now continually in this state, due to the “situation.”

But many people are realizing the falseness and “thinking.” This is changing things. That change, and the future, is up for grabs.

That is up to each one of us to generate that future.

So are you beginning to “think?”

For help…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or on FB at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

Don’t Believe the Narrative – It’s in Your Mind!

The Narrative is telling you that the world is going crazy, and that somehow you are too!

It’s saying that whatever everyone else is telling is the “truth.” The news, your friends and neighbors and your family are all saying things, and they influence you.

Even your own mind is telling you things.

And they aren’t positive. It’s all doom and gloom.

It disconnects you from who you are and what You want.

So don’t believe it. It’s only in your mind.

The real you is the one you need to access. It’s the one underneath all the chaos “outside.”

Understand there is no “outside.” Everything is happening to you internally. It’s your perception and your judgment that makes it appear outside.

So take some time today and go inside underneath that created, fake chaos and tap into the peace that is there.

It comes from the Creator, the Order, that is present everywhere. Feel that presence. It will relax you and make you more confident.

It’s called Love!!!!

You Are Loved. Connect with that today!

Also, the real narrative going on inside is Your Dream. It’s what is pushing and compelling to get up and do it again.

We all have a Dream, but if it’s clouded by our belief in the narrative, it is not serving our best interests.

So go deep and Find Your Real Dream.

I can help…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

Thoughts on Relationships…

First of all, is to understand the primal urges of our instinctive brain.

Women look for security and safety. They are hypergamous (sp?), which means they are always looking for the better man…and they will monkey branch…they will latch on to that superior man while still with the other one. It’s a basic survival instinct.

Men want to copulate with as many women as possible…to ensure the survival of the species. They also want to conquer and move on.

It’s no wonder there’s a 60+ divorce rate.

So you have to realize that this is happening and know how to combat it if you want to sustain a committed relationship. You will always have the urge to stray, but the question to ask is, after the betrayal (that’s what it is) WHAT THEN? What will you do? Will you hide it and deal with the guilt? Will you be honest and risk losing the relationship? None of those options are positive. That’s what you are left with.

There is a fog that comes over you when you look outside your relationship. You justify your coldness and lack of intimacy because you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Then it comes to a head eventually and the fog lifts and you realize that you want what you originally had…sometimes no matter how bad it was.

So to stay together you have to deal with these basic things. You can do it internally or together. Just be honest with yourself. Are you looking at other women/men? Always ask yourself…

What will I do then?

What are the consequences?

Even if you are not looking at another person, the same question can be asked. If this doesn’t work…WHAT THEN?

What will be the fallout? Who will get hurt? It will not only be you of course, but probably a lot of other people.

Another thing is that you can’t hide it. Your partner knows your vibe. If you are not feeling it they know.

And if you are looking for an “out,” no matter what kind, it gives you an excuse for not talking about your feelings and resolving issues.

Trust is intrinsic to any relationship and very valuable. You might only truly trust only 2 or 3 people in your WHOLE LIFE!!!

Once it’s destroyed, it can never be restored. A whole new relationship has to be developed…and you will have to become a new person to do it!!!

They say divorce is worse than death.

What I can’t understand then, is why there is so much of it…divorce, not death, lol.

So those are the negative reasons why we act the way we do in relationships…and the negative way to combat those instincts.

But that really doesn’t create a good relationship.

Commitment, transparency, and accountability are crucial to your relationships and your life. You will never Love Yourself if you don’t absolutely incorporate these into your life.

It’s “Hard”…

It seems hard to be honest with yourself and your partner…and let them be honest with you. What they say sometimes will not be what you want to hear, but it’s necessary. They know things about you that you don’t, so take it to heart…and change as a result.

It’s also “hard” to become accountable….do what you say…and admit when you’re not.

It’s difficult to trust someone enough to tell them what you are really feeling…maybe telling them things you never told anyone else.

It’s hard but no comparison to the destruction of your very soul.

How about being honest enough to apologize when you didn’t Love Yourself and took it out on them.

You blamed them for you not being the person you want to be.

It’s not them…it’s you. Doesn’t matter what they did. You could have acted differently!!!

They are not psychopathic. They are just reacting to what they thought you did to them, out of their own self-hate.

Yeah, that’s right, it’s either self-love or self-hate. There is no in-between.

Can you imagine going thru life not Loving Yourself?

So imagine the Opposite.

That results in compassion…for them and you.

And controls your reactions.

If you get in a fight, think about what you did…not what they did.

You can only change yourself?

That is Loving Yourself!!!

For more info, reply to me here or at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or PM on FB at https://www.facebook.com/How.to.Find.Your.Dream.

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Step 3 – Find Your Dream

So what is a Dream? It’s the experience you want to have, including the feeling of money, good relationships, and emotions like peace and confidence.

It’s not the house, car, travel, vacations, and “stuff” that will bog you down and make your life miserable. The more you have, the more you have to take care of it. And that’s not peace!!! That is a hassle, constantly fixing things, painting and just a drag on your creativity.

So focus on how you want to Feel, not what you want Have!

You can only Find Your Dream if You Love Yourself. Otherwise, the self-hate blocks will obscure it and keep from even seeing it.

So you have to see it, then you can get the process.

The steps will come from the inside, and you will be able to get them because there are no filters from the “survival” part of your mind.

You will be in creative mode. That’s where Dreams are found and realized.

The process is unique for everyone, but the need for accountability and feedback is crucial.

That’s where I come in. You have the benefit of my insight, intuition, and experience.

The chances of You actually Finding Your Dream without help is almost impossible.

Go ahead and try, I’ll be talking to you soon!!!

Blessings

Vince