Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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Thoughts on Relationships…

First of all, is to understand the primal urges of our instinctive brain.

Women look for security and safety. They are hypergamous (sp?), which means they are always looking for the better man…and they will monkey branch…they will latch on to that superior man while still with the other one. It’s a basic survival instinct.

Men want to copulate with as many women as possible…to ensure the survival of the species. They also want to conquer and move on.

It’s no wonder there’s a 60+ divorce rate.

So you have to realize that this is happening and know how to combat it if you want to sustain a committed relationship. You will always have the urge to stray, but the question to ask is, after the betrayal…that’s what it is…WHAT THEN? What will you do? Will you hide it and deal with the guilt? Will you be honest and risk losing the relationship? None of those options are positive. That’s what you are left with.

There is a fog that comes over you when you look outside your relationship. You justify your coldness and lack of intimacy because you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Then it comes to a head eventually and the fog lifts and you realize that you want what you originally had…sometimes no matter how bad it was.

So to stay together you have to deal with these basic things. You can do it internally or together. Just be honest with yourself. Are you looking at other women/men? Always ask yourself…

What will I do then?

What are the consequences?

Even if you are not looking at another person, the same question can be asked. If this doesn’t work…WHAT THEN?

What will be the fallout? Who will get hurt? It will not only be you, of course but probably a lot of other people.

Another thing is that you can’t hide it. Your partner knows your vibe. If you are not feeling it they know.

And if you are looking for an “out,” no matter what kind, it gives you an excuse for not talking about your feelings and resolving issues.

Trust is intrinsic to any relationship and very valuable. You might only truly trust only 2 or 3 people in your WHOLE LIFE!!!

Once it’s destroyed, it can never be restored. A whole new relationship has to be developed…and you will have to become a new person to do it!!!

They say divorce is worse than death

What I can’t understand then, is why there is so much of it…divorce, not death, lol.

So those are the negative reasons why we act the way we do in relationships…and the negative way to combat those instincts.

But that really doesn’t create a good relationship.

Commitment, transparency, and accountability are crucial to your relationships and your life. You will never Love Yourself if you don’t absolutely incorporate these into your life.

It’s “hard”…

It seems hard to be honest with yourself and your partner…and let them be honest with you. What they say sometimes will not be what you want to hear, but it’s necessary. They know things about you that you don’t, so take it to heart…and change as a result.

It’s also “hard” to become accountable….do what you say…and admit when you’re not.

It’s difficult to trust someone enough to tell them what you are really feeling…maybe telling them things you never told anyone else.

It’s hard but no comparison to the destruction of your very soul.

How about being honest enough to apologize when you didn’t Love Yourself and took it out on them.

You blamed them for you not being the person you want to be.

It’s not them…it’s you. Doesn’t matter what they did. You could have acted differently!!!

They are not psychopathic. They are just reacting to what they thought you did to them, out of their own self-hate.

Yeah, that’s right, it’s either self-love or self-hate. There is no in-between.

Can you imagine going thru life not Loving Yourself?

Realizing that brings compassion…for them and you.

That controls your reaction.

If you get in a fight, think about what you did…not them.

You can only change yourself?

That is Loving Yourself!!!

 

Step 3 – Find Your Dream

So what is a Dream? It’s the experience you want to have, including the feeling of money, good relationships, and emotions like peace and confidence.

It’s not the house, car, travel, vacations, and “stuff” that will bog you down and make your life miserable. The more you have, the more you have to take care of it. And that’s not peace!!! That is a hassle, constantly fixing things, painting and just a drag on your creativity.

So focus on how you want to Feel, not what you want Have!

You can only Find Your Dream if You Love Yourself. Otherwise, the self-hate blocks will obscure it and keep from even seeing it.

So you have to see it, then you can get the process.

The steps will come from the inside, and you will be able to get them because there are no filters from the “survival” part of your mind.

You will be in creative mode. That’s where Dreams are found and realized.

The process is unique for everyone, but the need for accountability and feedback is crucial.

That’s where I come in. You have the benefit of my insight, intuition, and experience.

The chances of You actually Finding Your Dream without help is almost impossible.

Go ahead and try, I’ll be talking to you soon!!!

Blessings

Vince

Accessing the Right Brain!

I watched…maybe re-watched..a Ted Talk from Jill Bolte Taylor where she relates her brain stroke experience.

She talks about her 2 States of Mind. One was telling her something was wrong and then that she was having a stroke, and needed help.

The other showed her connectedness to “All That Is.”  She could not feel the boundaries of her body. She just felt intense Joy and Love. But she could not function in this “density.” She could not dial her phone, or understand language, but she was able to communicate enough to get to the hospital. When she woke up, the stimuli of her senses overloaded her brain, which resulted in intense pain.

She then described one state as being the “Left Brain,” which helped her in dialing the phone, and the Right Brain, which gave her the expansive realization of her “Higher Self.”

That really affected me, because my inspiration of “You Are Loved, therefore You Can Love Yourself and Find Your Dream” is coming from My Right Brain.

So the only way to You can realize these concepts is if you can move to your Right Brain!!!

Unfortunately, she didn’t talk about how one can do that, and I don’t want You to have a stroke!!!!, so my techniques help you do it…without injuring Yourself….LOL!

First, the Left Brain is very strong. You can tell by the “chatter” if  you watch your thoughts. Watching is a Right Brain function.

Repeating “I am Loved” and “I Love Myself” is a way of raising the Right Brain dominance in Your Life. Love comes from the Infinite, which is realized in the Right Brain…the no body-borders state.

All intuition, ideas and Your Dream reside in the Right Brain, so learning how to raise it’s influence is crucial to your Happiness, Peace and Your Dream!

So if you resonate with How to Access Your Dream from Your Right Brain, leave me a message, or contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/vsalzer.

 

New Revelation Today!!

I was just thinking about a problem I was having with someone. They were stuck, basically just reading and posting on Facebook and WhatsApp all day long. No they didn’t have a job or a business, they just were on their phone, every spare minute they had. They were failing in life!!!

I thought how can they be happy?

Then my inner voice, said how can I be happy failing at what I am doing? (I always start by thinking about someone else’s fault, and the voice begins to ask me the same question.) Well, I am not happy failing. Then the voice said, “You will only be truly happy when you are happy when you are failing!!!! (Lots of when’s, I know, but don’t know how else to say it. My inner voice does not tell me how to write it, it just tells me.)

So, I need to be happy failing, because that is what I am doing right now, specifically, I have been learning how to trade the Forex market, and failing!!! My voice said I needed to be happy losing trades in order to start winning trades. WOW!!!

Why??? It said I can only learn from my losing trades, by being happy I lost. Weird! If I am not happy about them, I block the information that is needed to gain the insight to trade positively.

I think I need to change my thinking, which has been a limiting belief.

Now how about you? Are you happy, or are you angry about the things in your life that aren’t working? How about being happy that they aren’t working, and see what you begin to learn.

There is a concept about being in the present, the NOW. You know, that’s where God is. And, that’s where you are Right Now, and you are failing. That’s a fact, right? So why is failing such a bad thing? That’s where God is. So if God is in your failing, maybe it’s really not failing. Maybe it’s succeeding, unless you believe God is against you, but how can that be? God is everything, in everything, everywhere, all the time. And if he wanted you to fail, all His creation would fall apart. Everything must progress, to part of creation. So is there really failure…not really….can’t be!!!

Oh, you can have lots of arguments against what I just said, but what good would it do you? You can think I am failing and God is against me, or you can think that all the failures are there, so I can learn how to succeed!!

You pick which way you want to view things!!!

But I am going to be happy failing, and see what happens. There’s another thing, when I get an inspiration, I usually implement it. It’s called taking Action, and the first Action is changing one’s mind.

Well, we’ll see what happens. Keep you updated. 

Another “Thing for You.”

From

Vince Salzer

For a free coaching session, on how to be happy failing, and other things to succeed, email me at Vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or message me on Facebook here… https://www.facebook.com/How.to.Find.Your.Dream/