The Mindset of People Who Contact Me???

I get up to 10 contacts a day for something or other…crypto or “new fresh leads” or “marketing help” to get me more clients.

I have years of experience in internet marketing, financial markets, and intuition into people’s motives.

The crazy thing is how they interact with me. First, they ask me how I am doing, and add friend or dear or something like that. We just met???

How easy that is…huh!!!

I think it’s what you call connecting with your prospect. All it does is make me skeptical. Friendship takes time and trust. I certainly don’t trust them now…and I would never buy anything from them.

But I struggle through…they then give me the pitch…I decline, and attempt to tell them why I would never buy anything from them.

I then offer to help them solve those issues with my consulting and coaching services, which they mostly decline, although some are mildly curious.

But they are so focused on their program that they cannot even imagine they could use some help.

So they go on with their life and sometimes come back later to tell me that their program is the best…and to just “trust” them.

What a laugh!!!

I again try to help them, but it just doesn’t work.

This is how most people are…so convinced that their way of looking at things is right. They can’t see themselves.

I know because I have done and sometimes do it myself. It’s so ingrained in us. But I am overcoming my own habits, indoctrinations, and biases.

The thing that helps is my 3 step program

  1. Realizing that I am loved
  2. Because of that, I can love myself
  3. Find My Dream.

I have compassion for them, knowing that if they just knew they were loved things could change for them.

I also know all I can do is offer my help, and the rest is up to them.

Just as it is for you. You know things aren’t right. I don’t care how good you think you have it. There are always new things to create, but old things have to die first!

None of them will die if you learn how to live in a new way…the way of LOVE.

And I don’t mean the way love is normally thought of…like loving something outside of yourself…such as God, others, and things.

You can’t love them because you don’t really know them. You can only know yourself. The more you know yourself the more you have compassion for others, realize the Love of the Universe, and see things as what they are.

The greatest satisfaction in life is helping others but only thru the love you have for yourself. Then it becomes selfless with concern for the individual results. You just keep doing it…making the world a better place!

Do you want that?

Haven’t met one person who didn’t…

I can help, because of my compassion for you!

Blessings

Vince

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A New Way of Living!!!

That’s right! It’s time to find a new way of Living.

When I was in Real Estate, I worked 12 to 16 hours a day, until it ruined my health, and I couldn’t even stand to get up in the morning.

It’s called Depression.

But I had money in the bank, for the little good it did me. I had no time or energy to spend it.

I did not really worry about money then, so I spent foolishly on some things.

One of the worst was not investing enough of it. I should have been able to get an income of at least $3000 a month from it, but that takes time and energy.

I was…and still am… a member of an investment service, but it’s one thing to get advice and take it. I know I would be set for life if I had.

So now I have experience…from mistakes, and You can receive the benefits of that experience.

Also, I have somehow been given intuition and inspiration…that’s how I write these blogs.

So I learned what is important in life…and it certainly isn’t working for a living.

And that’s all most people know how to do.

They also only know how to spend about 110% of what they make.

I won’t go into why… too big a subject…and not the point of this missive.

What I am interested in is to think about how we can get out of the rat race.

We have been conditioned to be concerned about a house and car and things, while the important stuff gets left out.

The most important things in your life are food, water, shelter, and something to do that fulfills you. It also must be something that provides the first three. It could be that you have to do something that you would rather not do to get the basic needs of life handled with the goal of Finding Your Dream.

Actually doing what you don’t really love is Finding Your Dream. The process is the Finding.

Because you might not know what you love until you try many different things.

So, the New Way of Living is to get your priorities right.

Number 1 is to secure your food and water. Grow your own food and find a source of water that will be there no matter what. Learn how to filter it and then test it, so it won’t kill you.

Number 2 is housing. Are what are you living in now going to survive, and is it necessary? Could you live in a smaller place so you can afford to grow food and find water? I am sure most people could.

I live in a small place with plenty of room for our needs. Sure maybe it would be nice to have more room, but until I have food and water taken care of, we stay here.

Also, does going to the mall every weekend really fulfill you more than working on your garden? I doubt it…and if you tried it you would find out how much more satisfying it is.

So instead of yearning for the next biggest TV, or new phone, or more junk in your garage so your cars have to be parked outside, think about eating food that you grew.

Also, you will be much more prepared for the next crisis…we really aren’t out of the present one yet, so who knows…

There are so many people that are realizing that what they thought was important wasn’t. Even toilet paper wasn’t that important.

It’s time to look at life differently and truly Find Our Dream!

For more info, click on any of the icons at the top of this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

Is “Found” Money “Good” for You?

The evidence says, “Not so Much,” especially if you didn’t do anything to “Find It!”

For lottery winners, it is mostly a negative. They end up broke, and their friends do too.

The winners think that giving money to “deserving causes” helps them, so they give money to friends and family thinking they are doing good.

What happens is they spend the money…mostly foolishly…and then come back to the “trough.” Money does not grow on trees and most people will get fed up with others sponging off them, so there goes the friendship and family peace.

Now I’m not saying this happens to everyone, but the research says it happens the vast majority of the time.

You don’t know how to handle money if you never had it.

Even the rich lose their money, and they worked for it!!!

Their children are notorious for losing fortunes.

So how do people think that they are going to be any different?

Money changes you…or rather brings out what’s on the inside. If you realize You Are Loved and can Love Yourself, you will see that “helping others” doesn’t really help them.

You will be able to resist, or “see-thru” all the requests, and give the money in a way that doesn’t hurt them.

I think it’s like buying them gifts instead of giving cash. You could pay off some debts, pay for education which is linked to maintaining grades, buying a car, house, or other necessary things.

How about helping them start a business, with much supervision, a loan, or equity stake.

How about using your influence to help people find jobs?

How about starting a “family bank,” where loans are given…at a low-interest rate? No other loans are given until paid.

Now, back to you!

The crucial thing is to “get used to the new money.” 6 months is a good time frame. You limit yourself to spending 5 or 10 percent of it, doing things like paying off debt, a nice dinner, and a small vacation…to get away from all the people hounding you…lol.

Your next objective is to learn about money and how to “keep it.” The rich know that it is harder to maintain…or rather grow…their wealth than create it.

The biggest reason is the fear of loss is bigger than the excitement of making it.

There are lots of people that specialize in helping them…you!

Remember, You are NOW RICH!

So go on a learning spree, getting courses and advice from everywhere you can…and pay for that advice. That way you will have some buy-in and be able to apply it.

Never accept just one person’s opinion. Learn and compare. Take what you resonate with and combine it into your own system.

That’s what the 6 months are for. You will still only a basic level of knowledge by then and, more importantly, you will be more accustomed to having money.

The system’s goal is always to generate enough profits from investing to give you the lifestyle you want.

So it’s more than learning about money…it’s learning how to invest it. First, find people and or programs that can do it for you.

You are not able to do it yourself, that will take several years.

Invest in at least 10 programs and start small, get your money back and then start to scale up…each time getting your initial investment back. It will increase the time to financial independence, but at least you will have your money.

One guy says, “I am more concerned about the return OF my money than the return ON it.

Good advice.

If you have grown your money by 10% in one year, you are doing very well. You have to limit the investing to a small part of the total amount. Then you can start to increase the risk.

So many people say they want bigger returns, but don’t realize that the risk goes up too. So always in terms of risk, not returns.

You can start to increase the risk by investing a larger percentage of your funds. Keep the programs you are using, but also keep researching and learning.

Move your funds around, to the better programs you find.

Pick different risks…like 10% to high risk, 50% to medium, and the rest to a guaranteed return.

Guaranteed can be savings accounts, but better would be annuities that guarantee a return after time…usually 10 years… that last for the rest of your life. The returns are usually 10% or better!

Also, life insurance can be structured to give you a secure income, plus a generous death benefit, but remember the “found money” principle. The beneficiary has to fulfill certain criteria…so the best beneficiary is a trust that is managed by someone that can judge criteria.

See, there is a lot to know…about money and keeping it…and there is so much more to learn.

But…none of this works unless you know that You Are Loved, You Love Yourself and you are in the process of Finding Your Dream!

I can help!

Email me for more info at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

Helping People “Get Rich”

In my browsing, I received an email…just randomly…or by design, that told me about “Unclaimed Funds.”

What amazed me was there are $50 Billion that are owed to people by the government.

What made me angry…and motivated me…was those funds are not easy to get, and the people owed have no idea they are due sometimes Life Changing Money!

The “big” money is hidden in huge databases full of $5 to $100 rebates…like millions of records!

Then the huge money is hidden in comments like funds due “is more than $100,” so one has no idea how much it actually is.

And to claim the money one has to file a claim, but you must know that you are owed the money. So it’s a catch 22. You don’t know you are owed the money, and I can’t find out if you do.

So there are people called “investigators” or “auditors” that look for funds owed to people, and collect it for them.

But those funds are hidden by the government, because each person has to searched by name, and that could take years just to find 1 person.

There are lists of certain transactions that are kept by the government, but they will not release them even though they “public information.”

They use the excuse that they are not “required” to keep a list, or to give that list to the auditors…since “there isn’t a list.” Everyone knows when a transaction occurs there is a record generated, and with the current technology, a list can be very easily generated, put online or be readily available.

Why do they do this?

Well after a certain amount of time those funds go into the budget of the government and are spent!

So now you know why they make it very hard for anyone to claim them!

It’s a free money source!

Sometimes hundreds of millions of dollars per YEAR!

So my job is to get around all the “red tape,” find the people who are owed Life Changing Money, and help them recoup it!

Then, after they receive it, I help them so it will not ruin their life!

You heard the stories of lottery winners ending up worse than they were before they won the money.

Well the same applies here.

I help them take the lump sum and create a monthly cash flow that will sustain them, and their family for Life!

I like the saying, “Be Good, Do Good.”

That’s what I think this endeavor is!

I’m on a Mission to help people recover what is due them, create a sustainable income stream, and “Get Rich!!!”

You can get more info at SalzerEnterprises.biz.

Blessings

Vince

 

Step 3 – Find Your Dream

So what is a Dream? It’s the experience you want to have, including the feeling of money, good relationships, and emotions like peace and confidence.

It’s not the house, car, travel, vacations, and “stuff” that will bog you down and make your life miserable. The more you have, the more you have to take care of it. And that’s not peace!!! That is a hassle, constantly fixing things, painting and just a drag on your creativity.

So focus on how you want to Feel, not what you want Have!

You can only Find Your Dream if You Love Yourself. Otherwise, the self-hate blocks will obscure it and keep from even seeing it.

So you have to see it, then you can get the process.

The steps will come from the inside, and you will be able to get them because there are no filters from the “survival” part of your mind.

You will be in creative mode. That’s where Dreams are found and realized.

The process is unique for everyone, but the need for accountability and feedback is crucial.

That’s where I come in. You have the benefit of my insight, intuition, and experience.

The chances of You actually Finding Your Dream without help is almost impossible.

Go ahead and try, I’ll be talking to you soon!!!

Blessings

Vince

Step 2 – Love Yourself

Only after you have “done the work” in realizing that You Are Loved can You even begin to Love Yourself.

Teaching you “the work” is my part. Doing is Yours!

And all those “gurus” that say it is effortless are doing you a disservice.

It only becomes effortless after you have reached a certain mindset.

On the way, you will encounter many insights and blocks. Each will come after the other.

It’s an exciting journey! I know, I’m on it too!

I will get you thru the blocks and celebrate the insights with you!

Once you realize that You Are Loved…partially…it’s an ever-increasing revelation…you will understand why you can Love Yourself.

I can tell you why but your insights are always unique.

They will propel you into new heights of peace, calm, confidence, and ease of taking action.

You DO know that you could achieve anything you set your mind to, but there is always something holding you.

Wouldn’t it be nice to find out?

Like maybe you wouldn’t spend so much in front of the TV or on the computer getting nothing of value done, and just getting more and more frustrated.

To know that you Can accomplish anything you set your mind to does “Find Your Dream!

And it’s done through Loving Yourself!

There are many other benefits that I have talked about in other posts, such as becoming “unoffendable”, gaining new friends that resonate with you, and finding love in your relationships.

It’s the whole package!

You know you need help doing this, so contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com and let’s get started!

Blessings

Vince

 

 

A Follow-Up to the “Gentle Reply” Post

I’ve so many requests to add more substance to the A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

The Gentle Persuasion to “Love Yourself” is a good technique, because it is not an easy thing to do.

But just asking if it is “better to Love Yourself than hate yourself” is an easily answered question….Of Course!

So let’s run with that…why is it so hard to Love Oneself?

Because we have done so many “wrong” things…and people have let us know about it…many times.

So if you think about what they said to you, was it reality, or did you have a different perspective on it.

I would say most of the time you did.

That means that they weren’t inside your head…they were inside theirs…and judging you from there.

So if they don’t know your motivations and reasons why you acted in a certain way, why did you give any credence to their criticism?

The answer is, “I don’t know. Hmmmm.”

The second reason why it’s so hard to Love Yourself is that Your MIND is telling you “bad” things. Just listen to it for a while…Like:

  • Boy, you didn’t sleep very well last night. You are tired.
  • Why are you are hungry? You are so fat and useless.
  • Why don’t you get up and do something?

Those are just some examples from my Mind?

Yours are probably similar…or worse!

So, how about using the same technique as listening to others?

Your mind is coming from a different perspective than you are!!!

Wait, my mind is me!!!

Is it? Do you agree with what it is saying?

I don’t really accept that I am Fat and Useless!

So your mind is not really You!!!

You are separate from it.

So what is YOU?

You are a “Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity.”

That’s the REAL You, and the best reason to Love Yourself!!!

Blessings

Vince

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Finding Your Dream Step 1…You are Loved!

You Are Loved! How can that be?

Recent blog posts “Today is the Day” (you can read it here) and “There is no Tomorrow” (here) lay the groundwork for Being Loved.

I talked about that today seems to be going pretty well, since I changed my attitude about the past, and the Future is only in my mind, so I can create anyone I want, as all the “Guru’s” say.

The way we do that is by having a positive outlook on our Future.

And the way we have it is believing that the Universe is positive and benevolent!

I call it Love!

So something out there Loves You!!!

And so do your family, friends, and colleagues….and so do I!

That means at least one physical person Loves You…ME!!!

That takes away the excuse of, “Nobody loves me!”

Not true, I do!!!

And, more importantly, so does all Creation!

Think of that…All That There Is has your best interest at heart!

If not, the “Creator” will want to destroy some things, and it might be you!

What Creator wants to destroy its Creation?

And Yes, Creation implies Order!

It’s always Order out of chaos. Not sure who “created” chaos, but I think it’s just the default…like darkness…and it is our duality. Can’t have Order without chaos!

So there is Order, that is a great Love for you working on your behalf and for your highest best!!!

Isn’t that beautiful?

Think about Being Loved!!!

It might begin to separate you into Who You ARE…and What You DO!

Remember, we live in duality, so some of our actions keep the dark side operating….lol.

I also talk about are our actions really bad? We can’t know that until we can see the consequences…maybe years down the road. We also do change our perspective on what they actually were.

It’s our basic self that is being Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!

Stop and Feel that!!!

Isn’t it good to know that no matter how we prop up the negative, we are still OK?

This is something that we can dwell on for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on, and prayed about for the rest of our Lives!

There are so many stories that tell of how it changed people’s lives.

It is the basis for any successful person’s story, so when you read one, look for self-acceptance, and the realization of being worthy, and Loved!

So realize that You ARE Loved.

This is the first of 3 posts where the basis of How to Find Your Dream is explained.

To Your Dream!

Vince

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So…Are You Good or Bad?

I think there are 2 kinds of thinking. I am naturally good, and I am a fallen creature.

The naturally good people say that I am not there but trying to recover that totally good self…and will eventually.

The original sin people say you need someone to make you good, and then you live out that goodness…again until you eventually get there.

Both are basically on the same track. They know that we are going to “get there.”

And that it actually takes “walking it out.”

The people who say you need someone to make you good again implies that you were originally good…so are they really so different?

The “naturally good” know that we are separated from that good…for whatever reason…so both are implying what we are not perfect in our actions.

But underneath….our core, our source….is Perfect!!! And we are striving for that all time. It’s built into us.

It’s just we live in a duality, where choice is available, and we choose “bad” things because we mistakenly believe that they are somehow “good.”

What a strange dichotomy!!!

Thinking something good when we inherently know it’s not…and then being suck in doing it over and over…and more and more…is total irrational and insanity!!!

But that’s the way it is in having Choice. We do chose the negative, or it wouldn’t be available.

So you’re just keeping the duality going…so go for it…then I can have more ability to chose positive….lol.

Hey that’s the way it works.

If you want help to chose more positivity write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

There are lots of negative people that open up great new possibilities for us!!!

Vince

There is NO Tomorrow!

This the follow up to “Today is the Day.”

Since it’s always Today, how can there be Tomorrow?

It never comes, so never exists. It’s all in our mind…

and we live there…wishing for things to be different.

Also the past is our memories…which we remember only in our Present.

So if there is only the Present, why can’t we change the past?

We can…if we perceive it differently.

You say but it happened that way. Ahh, that is your perception. Ask someone else about it and they will have a different perspective.

So change your memory!

It might be a bad one, but think about what that experience taught. Most of the time it’s “I’ll never do that again.”

That’s a great lesson, but have you done that again? Are you stuck doing it over and over?

If so, you are in your past. What a crappy way to live!

Change the memory to, “Maybe this was a good thing…looking back at it.”

So, next time that memory comes up, you just say, “Thanks, I know that one…it was for the best.

Now you associate a good feeling with it, so your evil mind doesn’t want to bring it up again.

This is a constant process, and soon “the devil will leave you for a more opportune time.” He’s not going away. He is licking his wounds, and looking for another to attack you.

This strategy works…most of the time, but he will always come up with a new way to get you…and you can always counteract him with a new one of your own.

It comes from you knowing that everything can be changed…or recreated…and that’s one of the things we were created for!!!

More tricks for you are coming!!!

If you need help…vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to go

Blessings

Vince