The Value of Being Utterly, and Gloriously Wrong

Here’s a good article on learning…by being wrong. Sometimes that’s the only way we grow! You can go to Beyond Wealth to see more…

Friday, February 20, 2015
The Value of Being Utterly, Gloriously Wrong
Alexandar Green
When I took my first job as a stockbroker back in 1985, I was as green as a Granny Smith apple.
Although I was confident that I could make boatloads of money in the market in a short period of time, I quickly got my head handed to me.
Over and over again.
My investment strategy was a completely blinkered market-timing approach. (I was certain I could be in for the rallies and out for the dips.) And while I believed in its heart and soul at the time, it never had any real chance of success. Things never got better for me – or my clients –
until the day I recognized that fact.
No one relishes the idea of being utterly and profoundly wrong. But discovering we are can be one of life’s most rewarding experiences.
For reasons of pride, ego, hubris, or fear, however, we have trouble accepting this. That means we miss some of the best lessons life has to offer.
After all, when you admit you’re wrong, all you’re essentially saying is that you know more today than you did yesterday.
Yet studies show that we glom onto ideas early and resist letting them go. Psychologists call it “confirmation bias.” That is, we seek evidence
that confirms our beliefs and ignore or reinterpret evidence that
refutes them.
It’s easy to see how this happens. We all gravitate toward like-minded
individuals, listen primarily to those who share our opinions, and read books and articles by writers who confirm our points of view.
But the narrower our sources of information, the more error-prone
our thinking becomes. When it comes to puzzling things out, instead of doing the heavy lifting, we take a nifty shortcut: jumping to a
In a 1989 study, for example, psychologist Deanna Kuhn found that when subjects were exposed to evidence inconsistent with a theory they preferred, they failed to notice it. When they did recognize the contradictory evidence, they simply reinterpreted it in favor of their preconceived belief.
In a related study, Scientific American columnist Michael Shermers
writes, “Kuhn played an audio recording of an actual murder trial and discovered that instead of evaluating the evidence first and then
coming to a conclusion, most subjects concocted a narrative in their
mind about what happened made a decision of guilt or innocence then riffled through the evidence and picked out what most closely fits the story.”
Knowing this, is it terribly surprising that there have been 325
post-conviction DNA exonerations in the U.S.? Maybe Woody Allen wasn’t kidding when he said he’d hate to leave his fate in the hands of 12 people who weren’t smart enough to get out of jury duty.
In every arena – politics, religion, science, investing – if we look at the evidence with an open mind, we have nothing to lose but our ignorance. Our views are more likely to be accurate when we are better informed.
In his book Confessions of a Philosopher, Bryan Magee writes that he became a skilled debater by identifying his opponent’s weak points and then bringing concentrated fire to bear on them, a tactic used by successful polemicists since ancient times.
Yet he was blown away when he discovered that philosopher Karl Popper did just the opposite:
“He sought out his opponent’s case at its strongest and attacked that. Indeed, he would improve it, if he possibly could, before attacking it. He would remove avoidable contradictions or weaknesses, close loopholes, pass over minor deficiencies, let his opponent’s case have the benefit of every possible doubt, and reformulate the most appealing parts of it in the most rigorous, powerful, and effective arguments he could find – and then direct his onslaught against it. The outcome, when successful, was devastating. In the end, there would be nothing left to say in favor of the opposing case except for tributes and concessions that Popper himself had already made.”
Magee said it was thrilling to witness. Yet no one reaches this level of understanding without taking the time to thoroughly investigate an opposing view rather than dismissing it out of hand. It takes time to weigh the evidence, consider it, and allow for the possibility that we could be mistaken. This is something that most of us – if we’re honest with ourselves – are reluctant to do.
When you bring an open mind to a conflict, one of three things will happen. You will strengthen your existing convictions. You will become more sympathetic to the opposing view. Or you’ll end up smarter today than you were yesterday. (And get a lesson in humility in the bargain.)
That’s why we should never lose our temper in an argument. If you’re right, you don’t need to. If you’re wrong, you can’t afford to.
As the French enlightenment philosopher, Voltaire said, “Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is an absurd one.”
Carpe diem,

Be Well


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