Step 2 – Love Yourself

Only after you have “done the work” in realizing that You Are Loved can You even begin to Love Yourself.

Teaching you “the work” is my part. Doing is Yours!

And all those “gurus” that say it is effortless are doing you a disservice.

It only becomes effortless after you have reached a certain mindset.

On the way, you will encounter many insights and blocks. Each will come after the other.

It’s an exciting journey! I know, I’m on it too!

I will get you thru the blocks and celebrate the insights with you!

Once you realize that You Are Loved…partially…it’s an ever-increasing revelation…you will understand why you can Love Yourself.

I can tell you why but your insights are always unique.

They will propel you into new heights of peace, calm, confidence, and ease of taking action.

You DO know that you could achieve anything you set your mind to, but there is always something holding you.

Wouldn’t it be nice to find out?

Like maybe you wouldn’t spend so much in front of the TV or on the computer getting nothing of value done, and just getting more and more frustrated.

To know that you Can accomplish anything you set your mind to does “Find Your Dream!

And it’s done through Loving Yourself!

There are many other benefits that I have talked about in other posts, such as becoming “unoffendable”, gaining new friends that resonate with you, and finding love in your relationships.

It’s the whole package!

You know you need help doing this, so contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com and let’s get started!

Blessings

Vince

 

 

Step 1…You are Loved!

You Are Loved! How can that be?

Recent blog posts “Today is the Day” (you can read it here) and “There is no Tomorrow” (here) lay the ground work for Being Loved.

I talked about that today seems to be going pretty good, since I changed my attitude about the past, and the Future is only in my mind, so I can create any one I want, as all the “Guru’s” say.

The way we do that is by having a positive outlook on our Future.

And the way we have it is believing that the Universe is positive and benevolent!

I call it Love!

So something out there Loves You!!!

And so does your family, friends and colleagues….and so do I!

That means at least one physical person Loves You….ME!!!

That takes away the excuse of, “Nobody love me!”

Not true, I do!!!

And, more importantly, so does all Creation!

Think of that…All That There Is has your best interest at heart!

If not, the “Creator” will want to destroy some things, and it might be you!

What Creator wants to destroy it’s Creation?

And Yes, Creation implies Order!

It’s always Order out of chaos. Not sure who “created” chaos, but I think it’s just the default…like darkness…and it is our duality. Can’t have Order without chaos!

So there is Order, that is a great Love for you  working on your behalf and for your highest best!!!

Isn’t that beautiful?

Think about Being Loved!!!

It might began to separate you into Who You ARE…and What You DO!

Remember, we live in a duality, so some of our actions keep the dark side side operating….lol.

I also talk about are our actions really bad? We can’t know that until we can see the consequences…maybe years down the road. We also do change our perspective on what they actually were. spce

It’s our basic self that is being Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!

Feel that!!!

Isn’t it good to know that no matter how we prop up the negative, we are still OK?

This is something that we can dwell on for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on and prayed about for the rest of our Lives!

There are so many stories that tell of how it changed people’s lives.

It is the basis for any successful person’s story, so when you read one, look for the self acceptance, the realization of being worthy, and Loved!

So realize that You ARE Loved.

If you need more help…

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to ask!

Blessings

Vince

So…Are You Good or Bad?

I think there are 2 kinds of thinking. I am naturally good, and I am a fallen creature.

The naturally good people say that I am not there but trying to recover that totally good self…and will eventually.

The original sin people say you need someone to make you good, and then you live out that goodness…again until you eventually get there.

Both are basically on the same track. They know that we are going to “get there.”

And that it actually takes “walking it out.”

The people who say you need someone to make you good again implies that you were originally good…so are they really so different?

The “naturally good” know that we are separated from that good…for whatever reason…so both are implying what we are not perfect in our actions.

But underneath….our core, our source….is Perfect!!! And we are striving for that all time. It’s built into us.

It’s just we live in a duality, where choice is available, and we choose “bad” things because we mistakenly believe that they are somehow “good.”

What a strange dichotomy!!!

Thinking something good when we inherently know it’s not…and then being suck in doing it over and over…and more and more…is total irrational and insanity!!!

But that’s the way it is in having Choice. We do chose the negative, or it wouldn’t be available.

So you’re just keeping the duality going…so go for it…then I can have more ability to chose positive….lol.

Hey that’s the way it works.

If you want help to chose more positivity write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

There are lots of negative people that open up great new possibilities for us!!!

Vince

There is NO Tomorrow!

This the follow up to “Today is the Day.”

Since it’s always Today, how can there be Tomorrow?

It never comes, so never exists. It’s all in our mind…

and we live there…wishing for things to be different.

Also the past is our memories…which we remember only in our Present.

So if there is only the Present, why can’t we change the past?

We can…if we perceive it differently.

You say but it happened that way. Ahh, that is your perception. Ask someone else about it and they will have a different perspective.

So change your memory!

It might be a bad one, but think about what that experience taught. Most of the time it’s “I’ll never do that again.”

That’s a great lesson, but have you done that again? Are you stuck doing it over and over?

If so, you are in your past. What a crappy way to live!

Change the memory to, “Maybe this was a good thing…looking back at it.”

So, next time that memory comes up, you just say, “Thanks, I know that one…it was for the best.

Now you associate a good feeling with it, so your evil mind doesn’t want to bring it up again.

This is a constant process, and soon “the devil will leave you for a more opportune time.” He’s not going away. He is licking his wounds, and looking for another to attack you.

This strategy works…most of the time, but he will always come up with a new way to get you…and you can always counteract him with a new one of your own.

It comes from you knowing that everything can be changed…or recreated…and that’s one of the things we were created for!!!

More tricks for you are coming!!!

If you need help…vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to go

Blessings

Vince

 

TODAY is the Day!

TODAY is the day!

Today is the only day there is. 

The past and the future are only figments of our imagination.

Today is the day that you can realize that You Are Loved!

Today is the day that you can therefore Love Yourself!

Today is the day the Light of Your Dream can come true.

I call it a Dream, not Dreams, because you can only hold 1 at a time.

It consists of Your Whole Life….your Health, Wealth and all Your Relationships!

So today think on being Loved. You don’t know from Who…just be filled with Being Loved…

That’s step number 1!!!!

Stay tuned for more….

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

Lots of engagement lately

Someone seems to have gotten ahold of this blog lately and told their friends, because there have been an almost overwhelming number of comments lately.

They comment but never respond to my replies, and the English is rather strange, but I’ll take it.

Now is the time to watch my pride. In other words to begin to believe what other people say about me.

They can put you on a pedestal, and make you seem bigger than you are.

It’s really hard to see who you are then, and you begin to Love Yourself because of what others say about you.

That’s not true self love. A lot of famous people get caught up in it, and end up on drugs or dead.

So there are different kinds of Loving Yourself.

Do the good kind.

And if you need help…respond to this post or at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

Thanks

Vince

Well…”We’ll Just Have to Wait and See!”

That is what I am seeing from people I talk to.

Wait and See???

They are abdicating any ability to do anything about what is happening.

They are also giving up their power.

It’s time to take back our innate ability to co-create our future! How do you see your future.

Look there first!

Then see the world as you want after that!

It ain’t going back to the way it was.

There is very little need for restaurants, airplanes, Targets, Walmarts and “fluffy stuff.”

What there is a need of is survival skills, plumbers, electrician, construction workers, and people who know how to grow their own food, make their own shelter and generate their own power.

When it comes down to it…what else is there?

I mean if you had those 3 things, what else would you need?

You would need socializing with others and creating things…and those things can happen much easier after you have your basic needs covered!

So let’s put the important before the urgent.

Look out into the future to see what you really want.

And if you need help with that…Finding Your Dream…

Let’s talk…

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

Blessings,

Vince

I Had an Honest Moment the Other Day

The thought came to me that No One wanted to hear what I have been saying for the past 6 or 7 years!

That I had to admit I was speaking into the wind. And I was not relevant.

It was a very honest and revealing moment…

And it was very depressing…for a couple of days. I searched for answers.

You see, I am trying to “monetize” my thoughts into a coaching business.

My goal is to have my thoughts generate resonance with people that want to “pay” for my thoughts.

Honestly, do people really do that?

Not really.

They pay for things that help them.

So why aren’t the things I have been writing helping people?

Maybe I am coming from the wrong place, because I am not doing what I say…namely realizing that I am Loved, Loving Myself and Finding My Dream!

Maybe when I do that, people will then begin to “listen”

But, by my principles, it doesn’t matter if they listen…or want to pay me for my “wisdom.”

My responsibility and accountability is to Love Myself and to Finding MY Dream!

The question is…How do I keep from starving then?

Somebody once said you can have the best and most wisest content, but if no one knows about it, you will starve!

So can I really say that I have told enough people to find any that resonate with what I am saying.

Obviously not!

I mean, if I am just writing my thoughts for myself…no problem…but who really does that? They say things to others to have an effect…to affect change. But it’s a fine line to effect others and not try to control them.

This is a conundrum!

 

 

 

Some Good Sayings I Saw.

2k a day keeps the J. O. B. away.

Be Yourself…Everyone else is already taken

Are you contributing to civic enlightenment and national harmony?

Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean.

I am keeping busy with my own broom.

Am I waiting for someone else to do what I know to be right?

Is this problem my fault?

How truthful am I?

Is Jesus my answer, or the excuse that I am failing?

Do I truly Love Myself? What feedback do I get when I say, “I Love Myself?” Do I actually listen?

What would happen if I did Love Myself?

Would I still be in the situation I’m in?

Deal With It!

Deal with what?

Whatever is bothering you!

Whatever is holding you back?

“They” are called Traumas by many people.

Why?

Because those are the things that keep you from growing, evolving, ascending…

from Finding Your Dream!!!

So what are Traumas?

They are misinterpretations of experiences, or memories. Those wrong judgements have negative emotions attached to them, and raise a flight, fight or freeze reaction in your primitive brain.

That’s what keeps you Stuck!

The judgement of the experience!

Remember, memory is experienced in the present. You bring it back up and that’s where it affects you. If it stayed in the past…on the shelf…it wouldn’t be a problem.

Our mind keeps bringing them though, because we attached an emotion, an importance to them.

It becomes a Trauma whenfear, guilt and shame become attached to it.

This builds a construct, a matrix, which means it can be looked at, evaluated and even discarded for a new interpretation…which forms a new matrix.

I would like to think that we can live “outside the Matrix,” but we can’t. We need have structure to be able to have tables, chairs, beliefs and the possibility of growth.

So we reconstruct those Traumas into beneficial things we learn from and set back on the shelf, with no emotion tied to them.

It would be nice not to have any emotions, but memories are where emotions come from, so one will always have them, but we can greatly reduce their affects.

We can use the technique of saying, “I know that happened”…or rather…”Thank you for bringing that up again. You brought it up for a reason. What can I learn from it?”

Once you get an intuition why it’s there and what can be learned, you can set it back on the shelf.

You can’t eliminate of memories, so they can only be put back in the database. You do that and lower their importance. If they come up again, it means you can learn more from them. Then they go back and sit there. You just keep doing that over and over.

The process is letting the memories come up, thanking them, learning from them and categorizing their importance.

Most of them happened long ago, and really have nothing to do with the way you are today?

I have a very charged memory of spraining my ankle when I was a teenager. It surprised me and hurt so bad. I was running with wet shoes on a guy floor. It was my first experience with intense pain, so a quick and negative emotion was attached to it. I still shudder to this day when it comes back up. I need to see what I can still learn from it. One thing is to be able to deal with surprising and painful experiences, and knowing I will make a judgement about life because of it. I have been living in fear of having new and potentially negative experiences. They could just as easily been positive too, but I judge…construct…my perspective based on that first experience! (I am discovering some of this just by writing about it…a reason to write your thoughts down. They become “concrete” and it’s harder for the memory to assert influence over you, because you have dealt with it.)

The lesson is: “Don’t Do That.” LOL! (The answer for everything!) Also be aware of your environment. Learn the beneficial way to react with it.  Also, that it happened so long ago that it has nothing to do with my present experience, but it surely does affect it.

But it still brings up a shuddering reaction, and I must deal with it on a consistent basis. Maybe just writing this will release it more so that I can look at it every time it comes up, learn from it and consciously release it.

When you truly learn everything you need to know about it, and, then commit to acting differently…being in a different state…taking a different perspective…the Trauma resides.

This must be a big subject since I already wrote 700 words about it.

These emotions…perspectives…developed matrix’s…can be deep seated…like a death or divorce…and can be hard to deal with. Just letting the experience resurface can elicit so much trauma that we can’t do it.

It then just stays beneath the surface…sometimes deeply buried…that we don’t even recognize they are there. Those are the ones affect us the most, but we work on the ones we can.

Once we learn how to deal with Traumas that are at the surface, the deeper ones will be able to come up.

We have to deal with them from the Matrix of I Am Loved, (Nothing can separate me from the Love of God! My parents Love me just like I Love my children…unconditionally!)

And because of that…I can Love Myself. Also, I am a created, eternal spirit by that God that Loves Me…ultimately and unconditionally!

That I am worth it…worthy…deserving…powerful, and able to Deal With It!

So we start from the Point of Love and deal with what comes up from That Construct!

Since Nothing can separate me from Love, I can deal with Pain, Fear…Trauma…anything.

I form my New Reality.

I call it Finding My Dream!