Category: Mindset

A New Definition of “Karma!”

What is “karma?”

Before we get to that, we need to talk about the new “Energy” coming into this Earth.

That is what’s creating this New Definition. Instead of doing “good” things to overcome “bad,” it’s the innerstanding of how the Universe is made. It all came from One source, so there can’t be two Ultimates. So there is only One, not good and bad. Most religions and traditions are rooted in that concept. That also implies that we need help, like a savior to cleanse our sins or remove our karma. That is not possible since there is no one able to do that. Everyone has their Journey to follow and we are all the same…in the sight of God. Believing in a savior removes accountability and hinders us in our progress.

The other concept is that we created/dreamed our reality. That means we have a reason to be here. It’s something like we set tasks for ourselves that we wanted to experience.

A funny meme I saw said, “If I knew what I gave myself to do when I got here, I would have said, “Are you Crazy?”

I think it’s funny, but also looking at it from our perspective, it seems like a disaster most of the time. Why did we choose this very dense and dirty existence?

The Answer is:  To be able to turn it into a good one!

This is the new karma concept!

The karma hold on us has been dissolved. We need to face the current situation, forgive ourselves by knowing that We are Loved.

So we don’t have to go back into our past and try to find the reasons why we do/did things. We probably won’t get a definite answer, because it’s too intertwined with everything else that happened. Our mind just brings up either random things or the Next Right Thing to deal with. We don’t know which it is, but the technique is the same…Face it, Forgive ourselves, and Move On!

I received a saying that helps with the racing of the mind that accuses us of “stupid stuff” that we can’t do anything about.

It’s Love, Love, Love!!!

By repeating that in answer to all the questions or situations that can never be answered or resolved, they diffuse into nothing.

That allows only the things that truly need to be addressed to come forth and be dealt with.

This is the way to Cross the Line and Find Your Dream!

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What is a Relationship?

Don’t know what to say, because I have so much to say…LOL!

I watch a lot of content on relationships even though we are the only ones in our reality, We still deal with all the constructs we have made called other people, so how do we do that?

First, they are what we think they are. They are our reflections. So, since it is us, we have to learn to be compassionate towards them. It’s like Loving Ourselves. Part of it is forgiving ourselves and releasing the trauma. That’s why we created them!

It’s the details that matter. You have to know what to say to someone when conflict arises. If you react badly, you will reap the effects of resentment, shame guilt, and mostly, lack of peace!

If you keep in mind that those “other people” are just you, it changes everything in your life.

I said it before, you become unoffendable and non-offending. You still have to stand up for yourself, like not accepting non-accountability, by just not associating with that kind of people.

You can create people, and friends that are, so your life becomes what you want it to be. It takes some searching and allowing for that to happen, but they always show up.

If you are accountable, which is a growing process, others of the same kind can come to you, so if you aren’t attracting them, start with yourself!

That’s where Peace, being Over the Line, and listening to they becomes the most important thing in your Life.

It’s also called Finding Your Dream!

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The Mindset of a “Saver”

First, let’s define a “Saver.”

It is someone who is “addicted” to saving.

A good example is when a young person is exposed to the concept of saving or delayed gratification. When given the choice of spending a dollar or waiting a week and having 2 dollars. Once they make the decision to wait one week and get that dollar and still have a dollar. The next week it will happen again, so they realize they will always have a dollar to spend.

Then they are taught if they wait 2 weeks they get 2 dollars. Once they get that concept, they only want to save, and not spend anything. They then go looking for ways to add to the saving!

That’s the mindset of the saver! But it becomes addicting. They don’t want to spend anything, but denying oneself becomes destructive.

They need to be taught to take a percentage and enjoy the fruits of their delayed gratification.

That is a balanced person.

One needs to learn the law of compounding. If you learn that investing as much as possible in the beginning, reinvesting all the returns, and not withdrawing until the first goal is reached. At that time the withdrawal is from the profits only, and will never affect the balance that generates the withdrawal amount.

So if you want to withdraw $1000 you wait until your profits are $1000 on a continuing basis plus able to increase your profits to $2000, and on and on. So one needs to wait until the growth is more than $1000 to take that amount.

And remember to enjoy that $1000 in the way you have planned. An experience would be best. A house or a car that most people want is not the best way. Plan a trip or a visit place that you always want to do. You will be much more satisfied.

Not that a house or car isn’t a worthy goal but it should be for a practical purpose, like your car is in so much need of repair that a different one is best. A house may be necessary for a growing family that is running out of room.

One can really get inspired though to save because watching the balance grow is exciting. To see your initial $1000 grow to $10,000 is amazing.

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The Challenge of Change

I recently met a new friend that told me he didn’t know if he could stay here because it is too different, and he can’t access things he did back home. Mostly he wanted to hear the news back home.

On the other hand, he was sick of the bad news that he watched. He thought he didn’t have access to sites because he was keeping his phone plan on roaming from back home. He doesn’t understand that he has Internet access on his phone and could even use it on his laptop. He could get a phone plan here as well and have the best of both worlds! His family is from this country, but he left when he was very young and returned only a few times. He returned here to take care of his mother. That’s a good thing to do, right? Well, there are other things involved that involve enabling and lack of responsibility, and he is caught up in it. That is making his experience here less than optimal. Hopefully, he can adjust to the culture before he gives up.

I understand how he feels. I went thru the same thing when I came here. That brought up my own fear. I was actually in fear for my life for 2 or 3 years after coming here. Even today I don’t go out by myself very often alone at night unless it’s in a taxi. The times I did, nothing happened, so I have to reevaluate my fear, which has subsided over the years,  It’s just…why tempt fate? I am a foreigner here and a target!

With 2 of us walking around, the chances are statistically reduced, so we both should feel safer.

Then they said that I have protection around me and should get out of fear. It will hinder my Abundance, Bliss and Joy.

I have enough to do to Find My Dream…at least the “First One,” and “What do I want?” Since being told this, the fear has left…mostly. I told my friend that we are protected, and not to worry.

This is another step in the Process of Crossing the Line and Finding Your Dream!

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Rewards from Doing the “Next Right Thing”

I learned another thing from they today.

Did I “learn” it or did they just put it in my mind? Anyway, I “got” something!

Words, words, words, what do they mean? Ok, I give up…just do the best I can…being a word artist!  LOL!

Rewards can come in ways I don’t expect!

I had an exciting day yesterday, talking to people, and being excited about telling people about Crossing the Line!

But then last night and this morning, those people did not accept the offer.

Oh no, I am rejected! How could they not see it? What did I do wrong?

Also this morning I missed an appointment!!!

Things piling on top of things!

I immediately called, apologized, rescheduled, and said, “I’m buying!”

Ok, that made it a little better.

Then I went for a walk and did errands. I noticed that people…let’s be honest…women, were noticing me, smiling and saying hi!

That was in stark contrast to yesterday. Not one did. So what changed?

They said when I do the Next Right Thing, rewards can come in completely different areas of my life.

So just accept all the good, and keep doing what they say.

Wow…that Felt GOOD!

It gave me the impetus to write 2 posts today. I like it when things just flow…

It happens when I see my life as having meaning.

We all need to feel good…and the more the better! I have to choose to feel good, and sometimes things come to reward that!

See…the Universe is good and filled with LOVE!

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How to Change Your “Miserable” Life into Your Dream!

I watched a YouTube about a guy who was taken advantage of almost his whole life. I won’t go into the details, but, trust me, it was “bad.”

He said something that really struck me. “My life has been a disaster, but I will make it twice as good going forward.” It’s like he sensed he deserved it, or he was going to make it different!

What a statement!!!

Good on HIM!!!

What about your life? Have bad things happened in your life?

What are you going to BE about it? Not Do, BE. First, decide how you are going to BE inside you, about the negative, as you perceive it.

Yeah, sure maybe it was really bad, but how did you react? Own that!!!

That’s really the only thing you have control over. Your reaction!

Many people become great people after many bad things happen to them. They say those things made them a better person.

I call that a big lie!!!

It’s not the bad things that happened. If you think so, then the bad must ultimately be good.

That’s another lie!!!

It’s like saying “God” gave you all these bad experiences…what for?…to make your life better????

Come on…Another Lie!!!

It’s the reaction they had to those negative events that gave them a better life! Never accept negative as positive. Separate them completely so you know the difference between the light and the dark.

Otherwise, you will be deceived into believing light is darkness. In fact, that’s why our actions are negative. We believe we are doing the right thing. Lies, Lies Lies!

When you can separate them into a stark contrast, you know what is good and bad. Your life becomes very clear. There is no middle ground or grey anymore. This is the way you Own Yourself. No Compromise…No Excuses!!!

Then you can deal with the darkness!

The guy in the video admits that he had a part to play in it too.

Ohhhh, so here comes the accountability! He allowed things to happen.

Now we are getting a fuller picture! It wasn’t just that “Life,” God or whoever gave him those things.

They (to know who they are, see the post “Crossing the Line”) told me he had attracted everything that happened to him.

Oops…there goes victimhood!!!

The good thing is how he reacted.

So quit believing the lie that life happens to you. You make it happen. That means you can’t blame anyone else. Then you can change it.

So how do you change it?

First, list all the bad things, like how people treated you. That would be most of them. Then all the things about you that you dislike…like habits you’d like to change, losing weight, working out, eating better, being nicer to people, not feeling so lonely and depressed, procrastination, using drugs to escape your “miserable” life, etc. Did I hit on most of them?

Write them down.

Think about how much you hate them…and if you don’t…start…NOW!!!

Hating is only ok for something you don’t like…inside of you. Don’t worry about other people. We already addressed that…many times. It’s your reaction to what they did. If you reacted badly, then hate your actions, not them, or yourself!

Now take one thing that you listed and concentrate the negative feeling for it until it becomes a hot ball of energy. Then release it. It will explode into usable energy when you do…so long as you actually see it as energy…neither positive nor negative. Now you can use it to change the thing you detest.

You change the negative you hate into the very thing that overcomes it!!!

Ohhh…how your mind does NOT want you to know this. It thrives on bringing up those memories that created the feelings in the first place. That’s why when it does you acknowledge it compressed and let it go. The explosion destroys the negative and enables the positive…if You create the intention, the desire, for the “fix!”

The negative has to be expressed as a negative thing, like quit doing this, or thinking like this. The fix is all positive, like I am free of this, or I do this.

This can be hard when you say I hate drinking or smoking, because what are you going to do to “not do” those things? It’s going to have to be other ways of thinking or actions specifically. So every time you want a drink or smoke, you are going to say to yourself, “Just 5 more minutes, or I don’t do that anymore, or I don’t like this feeling,” and compress that urge into a ball and release it. Just like before. You keep doing it until it is no longer an issue.

Just imagine the energy have when you do this!!!

You will free yourself up to be the person you can be, and accept the offer to Cross the Line.

Just another hint from they

Have a Great Day!

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Thank You again, and Be in Abundance and Peace

Vince

 

Why do I do “This?”

Why DO I do this?

What is “This” anyway?

It’s me writing this blog, and posting on Social Media.

It doesn’t seem to line up with anything I have said in previous posts.
I say, “There is only me/I.”

You really aren’t there. You are a figment of my imagination or perception.

On the other hand, we are all a part of the Whole. We all came from the same Place/Being.

I am You!

I am really talking to myself; encouraging, uplifting, organizing, practicing, vibrating being ME.

When I write, produce a video, or post on social media, I am telling myself what I think…and thinking is the most crucial part. I have to think…for hours… to express myself to you, another part of Me.

Then “You” give me feedback and I grow and create new “content.”

What is content anyway? What does it mean in the traditional sense? It means “the filling,” or what’s inside. So I am giving you what’s inside me…what I THINK…what I am being!

I am giving You/Myself what I have and You/I are responding, which creates new content. It’s how Matrixes are created, and, most importantly, the one I use.

How does they (If you don’t know about they, you can read about it here: https://vincesalzer.com/being-good/the-line/.) fit into all this jumble, contradiction, and sense-making…LOL?

They tell me all this stuff, and say they are a part of me speaking from another part of Me…”over there!”.

Am I making any sense at all?

I think I’m getting it…at least better than before I started “spilling my guts” as the saying goes. Guts are what’s inside me…content.

See everything means something.

I am sitting in a coffee tienda writing and it is completely full.

The staff is going at 150 %. It’s amazing to watch! The energy in the room is very intense and exciting. Everyone is connecting in a way that is authentic, life-giving, Matrix sustaining, and generally good for the connection to myself.

Seems Contradictory and Rational.

I always say, “Does it make sense?” Somehow it does.

I use the both/and way of looking at life rather than the either/or…like quantum states…meaning one can be in 2 states at the same time or even an undetermined one. That concept is being applied in the real world now, so why can’t I use it?!!!
I can both contradict myself and make sense so long as I am not in doubt or in conflict within myself.

I need to see myself as congruent, so I can focus and create undoubtedly.

My intention is to create the reality… illusion…I live in that is the best for my ascension, evolution, progression.

I call it “Bliss!!!” The Bliss of being Over the Line and in Peace!

Focus, and it happens all day long! I am reminding myself…or being reminded by they.  I keep asking, “Ok, what is the Next Right Thing?”

I am always discovering what I want…also knowing an overall Dream is there. I don’t need to know it…just that is.

They have my back! It’s ok! Everything is going to turn out just the way I Want!

To Your Peace,

Vince Salzer

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So What Really is Crossing the Line?

I am going to try to explain more about what Crossing the Line is.

This is harder than one thinks. It is explaining something that is out of this world, but, yet, still in it. One wise man said, “Be of this world, but not in it.” Do you know who it was?

To not be “in this world” one needs to be able to access info that comes from those who are in that “other” space, because that’s where the info comes from. They say completely different things from what is commonly known.

They are completely at peace, loving themselves and financially free.

There are groups of them in all areas of society, and they only congregate with other people who are like minded. They don’t think exactly alike, but the common thing among them is that they have all Crossed the Line! Like I said they are FREE in every area of their life and getting more every day! That’s what binds them together. They have other common interests, such as the type of business, the spiritual practice, entertainment, the family stage (children or not) and many other things.

So they gather into these groups I call Master Minds which keeps their mindset “on the other side.” They also help each other to achieve their Dreams.

These people also have seminars and coaching sessions teaching people like you and me how to “Cross Over.” They do it because they live in BLISS and want others to have it as well. The clubs are always wanting to expand too, as everyone wants more friends…right.

They explain what it’s like to be free, and how to go about achieving it. There are many different ways to do that, of course, so it depends on whom you resonate with. But the end goal is the same…Crossing the Line means FREEDOM!

It’s like they are extending their hand out to you, inviting you into the club. You qualify by being open to new and different information. Then they look for commitment in time, energy, focus and money, because nothing is free in this world. They also look for how enthused and excited you are.

If you are stuck in fear, they help you, so you can rise above it. They also help you deal with your traumas. Everyone has them, so you are really no different than anyone else. They have been there themselves, and know what it’s like.

In my experience, everyone talks about Money! It is no different with them because it is so important until you have established ways to generate it consistently. It is the first step in your Crossing the Line journey. But just working hard to make money is not the answer. It is learning how to do the things that makes you a “manifestor!” There are specific vehicles that they use to achieve these goals, and can be different for each group.

The mindset of, “I am open to the way of manifesting that works for me.” is the thing that reveals the Line. I have been looking for that all of my life, and, in some way, everyone is as well. So I am not saying anything that doesn’t apply to all humanity. We all have the desire to become FREE! We just don’t know exactly how to get there! The better way to say it is, “How to be there!” It is a state being.

One of the groups says, “Just keeping coming to the seminars, until you “get it!” Just keep getting the info until that one thing clicks for you.

I always remember the people “over there” say that once you know it, you will be completely changed. They said that they went from “trying” to attract people to their cause or idea or company to having people contacting them wanting to be apart of what they were doing. It became almost effortless. This has been said by many thought leaders throughout history. What we desire we attract!

Then a few years ago I began getting messages from I don’t know who or where. They told me things that came true many times, so I listened and more came. They gave me “The Three Pillars,” which is how one Finds Their Dream…or now, how one “Crosses the Line!”

I asked who they were or where they came from, but never really got an answer. So I just call them they. They said to never put quotes around or bold the word they. They would prefer I don’t capitalize it either. They say it’s not important. They don’t have names anyway. I don’t even know if it’s one entity or more. It really is irrelevant. I just follow what they say as much as I can. They are so loving and accepting that I break down in gratitude and humbleness, just to be allowed to hear what they say. But then they say again, they are no better than me, and just continue to be On the Other Side!

It is a great honor for me just to be a part of Crossing the Line!

It’s like the religious experience of getting saved and filled with the Holy Spirit in the Christian sense. There are similar things in other traditions as well. If you are familiar with them, you will know the words.

But the spiritual experience needs to be manifested in the physical world. That’s when it become real and makes a difference in your life.

It’s called Abundance and Peace!

These are their terms. I don’t make them up. First comes the name like Crossing the Line, and then it’s explained in detail. It takes time to process it, so I can “innerstand” it. Then they tell me to write it in my blog and on social media. Actually I am sometimes overwhelmed by the immensity of it, and have to really focus to put this “concept” into words. Hence I am becoming a word artist as I mentioned in my last post. I am truly amazed sometimes what comes out of my mouth, or write in response to people who respond to me on social media. They always have something unique to say to each of these people, and it just comes out.

In the midst of all this contact with them I found something that just resonated with me, so I got started. A few months later I realized that this vehicle is making me financially independent, and will last as long as the internet and common business practice exists. It was intuitive as well as logical. It just made Sense! Once I realized that I was financially free, I was completely changed.

My favorite line now is that I am financially free and do what I like. The rest of my life will be finding out what I really desire to do! The question is, “What do I want?” That’s not as easy as you think, because the possibilities seem endless. Even with boundaries, as you might have, it still takes a lot of “thinking” to see what you really want!

It is an endeavor that will occupy my life completely. I think of something I want to do and then go about doing it, always keeping that Peace. I call it Staying Over the Line! It gets easier the more I do it. It’s as important as Crossing the Line is.

I learned to keep a protection around me, and am insulated from the negative in this world…as I perceive it.

The other thing they said is there are only 1 or 2 times that this will be presented to you…IN YOUR LIFE! They were very clear about it. It was like a warning! If you don’t accept it, I am told to move on. We can be acquaintances, but Crossing the Line will always be lurking. You know that I am FREE and it’s something you want, but reject.

I guess that’s one reason it’s called a Line. Step over it and become FREE, or stay on the other side. It’s up to You. You don’t offend me by not wanting to cross it. I was there and I know what it’s like.

I share the process of this concept to those who have done the initial steps to gather information, getting their questions answered and seem ready by their actions.

It’s a logical investigation driven by the desire we all have to grow…to be FREE. You just have to be open to learning more about it

I have compassion for you no matter what you decide. We all have our own journey.

They tell me I can only associate with like minded people, those who are over the Line or truly want to be, so I am following Instructions. I am not any better than you, just open to them and made different decisions.

Well this has turned in a “book.” In my last post I said I don’t have anymore words, but many more will be coming. That certainly happened…another amazing thing about them.

All I can say that if you are ready…open to hear what they say…not me…then reply to this post, contact me by email below or PM me on most social media. I am the same everywhere: Vince Salzer

Abundance and Peace,

Vince

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What about that “I am God” thing…

Yeah…what about saying or thinking I am God!

Some say that we are all God. To think that we are separated from God is pretty nonsensical, especially if one defines God as: Everything, Everywhere, All at once.

So that means we are a part of God, because everything is, but to say that we ARE God is stretching it…don’t you think???

We are Not everything. We are a Part of everything.

To say that we are God can bring negative things into our life. Like the notion that can do anything you want…or that you hear from God and do “bad” things to yourself and other people. Bad is in quotes because who knows what is ultimately bad for us, but I would consider murder, adultery, theft, among other acts as not benefiting you.

Thinking that you are “just” a part of God brings a humility that curbs your selfish tendencies.

Knowing that you could be mislead by your own “filters” keeps you searching, listening, creating and growing.

Also being open to feedback and changing your thinking and actions comes from being humble.

Accountability comes from knowing that it is more important to be totally true to oneself than “hearing from God.” Not lying is the ultimate form of Your “God Self.”

Can these attributes be realized thinking You are God…or not? Of course, but we are talking probabilities.

I think it’s better to be humble, grateful and cognizant of our abilities and limitations that creates a better life.

BUT we need to keep in mind that we Are a part of God so we have the ability, tendency and deserve to be the best we can be!

Thanks for listening

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer

On Relationships…Again!!!

I have to write about relationships again, because it is so crazy right now.

Are there any “normal” relationships anymore?

Maybe, but that’s not how it is depicted on Social Media. All one hears about is the cheating going on.

It’s the culture that’s changed over the last 60 years. Women entered the workplace, got birth control and everything got “equal.”

Well there is no equal…there is separation of powers, responsibilities and accountability.

That has largely been removed. Now there are no fault divorces, government dictating of monetary and child support.

None of this has produced anything positive.

Women have been freed to pursue their innate need of hypergamy with little consequence, completely destroying kid’s lives. They just move from man to man whenever they want with little to no regard to their children.

Men are destroyed because they love completely. They too stray but it’s different. Men have had multiple wives throughout history…and it sorta worked.

Women were always looked down upon for having multiple men. Now it women’s rights.

It might seem good and freeing for women, but no real man wants a women who has had multiple partners, ex-boyfriends they still have feelings for, and/or children with, male friends hovering around waiting to ponce on any little conflict that is sure to happen in any relationship.

Women have this need for attention and validation from everyone…mostly men…they really don’t like women because they are in competition for the best man…and they believe they deserve them.

But it doesn’t really give them what they need, because after all the attention, one night stands, being a single mom and at 35 can’t understand why they can’t find a good man. They can always get a man for a short hookup, but no long-term relationships, because men can see it and want no part of it.

Don’t think men have changed that much except to buy into the “equal” thing and end up being dumped or submitted to a masculine women.

Women do not respect weak men.

Men do not respect “loose” women.

But that is what has been pushed by every kind of media, social science and the changing culture…and it’s not working!

There is no way to deny the need for men to be with many women and women seeking the best man they can get.

But just because there is that very biological survival need there doesn’t mean we have to allow it…or encourage it.

There has always been the need for tempering those base instincts, and society has done it one way or another.

It’s the same as one can’t steal just because one wants it…or is even hungry. There has always been the constraints on behavior.

Women have to realize that sleeping around does not give them what they want, and men need to realize that sleeping around only encourages women to do things they don’t respect.

So men, if you want a pure women, quit hooking up with women…you are decreasing the supply of the very same women you want. Plus, women have an emotional attachment to you, and it’s creates trauma when you dump them. You create very damaged women that can’t make a pair bond. When you do find the “right one” they’re so full of the damage you have done to other women…which is the psyche of the culture…that it has the very little chance of making it longer than 7 or 8 years. By then you have made the “commitment” and get destroyed by their callous exit.

Women quit buying into the lie that you can sleep with whoever you want with no emotional ties. It might work for awhile until you think you found someone that maybe you could make something permanent, and then they dump you, because their men…number 1…and 2 they can innately see that you are not relationship material. You have become an object…the very thing you have been complaining about for 60 years. You cannot have sex without some emotional attachment…and it creates trauma…for each one. Yes that’s right…TRAUMA!!!

Realize that men can have sex with no emotional bond, but when they do they form it completely and “forever.” Women NEVER do that! It’s always their need for security and safety that keeps them with their man. If they perceive that is failing…they are gone…with no regrets…changing the past saying it was always bad no matter how long the good was.

Another thing is women will monkey branch and when the next monkey is not as good as she thought, she will branch back you…you monkey!!! Sorry, that’s just the way it is.

She doesn’t have to justify it…and really can’t in her mind. It just makes “sense” to her.

So men need to be the provider by being as good as they can…being the security women so desperately want. When they get it, you get respect…not love. Their “love” is always conditional.

Women, remember men have to “do” something with their lives…to become a provider. It entails many conflicts and struggles. You, on the other hand, have to provide peace, fitness, looks, children and deferring to their provision which means they get the last say…the decision. That makes you feel safe!!!

That’s how we…society…goes forward.

Time for a change!!!

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

 

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