What about that “I am God” thing…

Yeah…what about saying or thinking I am God!

Some say that we are all God. To think that we are separated from God is pretty nonsensical, especially if one defines God as: Everything, Everywhere, All at once.

So that means we are a part of God, because everything is, but to say that we ARE God is stretching it…don’t you think???

We are Not everything. We are a Part of everything.

To say that we are God can bring negative things into our life. Like the notion that can do anything you want…or that you hear from God and do “bad” things to yourself and other people. Bad is in quotes because who knows what is ultimately bad for us, but I would consider murder, adultery, theft, among other acts as not benefiting you.

Thinking that you are “just” a part of God brings a humility that curbs your selfish tendencies.

Knowing that you could be mislead by your own “filters” keeps you searching, listening, creating and growing.

Also being open to feedback and changing your thinking and actions comes from being humble.

Accountability comes from knowing that it is more important to be totally true to oneself than “hearing from God.” Not lying is the ultimate form of Your “God Self.”

Can these attributes be realized thinking You are God…or not? Of course, but we are talking probabilities.

I think it’s better to be humble, grateful and cognizant of our abilities and limitations that creates a better life.

BUT we need to keep in mind that we Are a part of God so we have the ability, tendency and deserve to be the best we can be!

Thanks for listening

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer

On Relationships…Again!!!

I have to write about relationships again, because it is so crazy right now.

Are there any “normal” relationships anymore?

Maybe, but that’s not how it is depicted on Social Media. All one hears about is the cheating going on.

It’s the culture that’s changed over the last 60 years. Women entered the workplace, got birth control and everything got “equal.”

Well there is no equal…there is separation of powers, responsibilities and accountability.

That has largely been removed. Now there are no fault divorces, government dictating of monetary and child support.

None of this has produced anything positive.

Women have been freed to pursue their innate need of hypergamy with little consequence, completely destroying kid’s lives. They just move from man to man whenever they want with little to no regard to their children.

Men are destroyed because they love completely. They too stray but it’s different. Men have had multiple wives throughout history…and it sorta worked.

Women were always looked down upon for having multiple men. Now it women’s rights.

It might seem good and freeing for women, but no real man wants a women who has had multiple partners, ex-boyfriends they still have feelings for, and/or children with, male friends hovering around waiting to ponce on any little conflict that is sure to happen in any relationship.

Women have this need for attention and validation from everyone…mostly men…they really don’t like women because they are in competition for the best man…and they believe they deserve them.

But it doesn’t really give them what they need, because after all the attention, one night stands, being a single mom and at 35 can’t understand why they can’t find a good man. They can always get a man for a short hookup, but no long-term relationships, because men can see it and want no part of it.

Don’t think men have changed that much except to buy into the “equal” thing and end up being dumped or submitted to a masculine women.

Women do not respect weak men.

Men do not respect “loose” women.

But that is what has been pushed by every kind of media, social science and the changing culture…and it’s not working!

There is no way to deny the need for men to be with many women and women seeking the best man they can get.

But just because there is that very biological survival need there doesn’t mean we have to allow it…or encourage it.

There has always been the need for tempering those base instincts, and society has done it one way or another.

It’s the same as one can’t steal just because one wants it…or is even hungry. There has always been the constraints on behavior.

Women have to realize that sleeping around does not give them what they want, and men need to realize that sleeping around only encourages women to do things they don’t respect.

So men, if you want a pure women, quit hooking up with women…you are decreasing the supply of the very same women you want. Plus, women have an emotional attachment to you, and it’s creates trauma when you dump them. You create very damaged women that can’t make a pair bond. When you do find the “right one” they’re so full of the damage you have done to other women…which is the psyche of the culture…that it has the very little chance of making it longer than 7 or 8 years. By then you have made the “commitment” and get destroyed by their callous exit.

Women quit buying into the lie that you can sleep with whoever you want with no emotional ties. It might work for awhile until you think you found someone that maybe you could make something permanent, and then they dump you, because their men…number 1…and 2 they can innately see that you are not relationship material. You have become an object…the very thing you have been complaining about for 60 years. You cannot have sex without some emotional attachment…and it creates trauma…for each one. Yes that’s right…TRAUMA!!!

Realize that men can have sex with no emotional bond, but when they do they form it completely and “forever.” Women NEVER do that! It’s always their need for security and safety that keeps them with their man. If they perceive that is failing…they are gone…with no regrets…changing the past saying it was always bad no matter how long the good was.

Another thing is women will monkey branch and when the next monkey is not as good as she thought, she will branch back you…you monkey!!! Sorry, that’s just the way it is.

She doesn’t have to justify it…and really can’t in her mind. It just makes “sense” to her.

So men need to be the provider by being as good as they can…being the security women so desperately want. When they get it, you get respect…not love. Their “love” is always conditional.

Women, remember men have to “do” something with their lives…to become a provider. It entails many conflicts and struggles. You, on the other hand, have to provide peace, fitness, looks, children and deferring to their provision which means they get the last say…the decision. That makes you feel safe!!!

That’s how we…society…goes forward.

Time for a change!!!

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

 

A New Chapter in My Life!

Yes I am entering a new chapter in my Life!

I am Single…again!

It is so freeing! Maybe I am not meant to be in a relationship…or maybe I need to learn how to be in one. ;>)

Either way I have learned so much about myself and my relationships that I am a different person. I used get sullen and not talk when things went wrong. The internal dialogue was atrocious. I couldn’t communicate when I was not Loving Myself.

It got to the point where it was like that the majority of the time. That is why I haven’t been posting recently.

So now I am “coming out” and saying I feel better…getting closer to the Feeling that I am Loved, and Loving Myself more. It’s like taking my own advice.

We all get good thoughts sometimes, and we want to tell others when what we should be doing is applying them to our lives for awhile (which is what I have been doing.) Those thoughts are meant for us to manifest change, heal trauma and evolve. As we grow others will notice, and gather around us to “see us burn!” (evidenced by compassion, enthusiasm, and charisma.)

I have the freedom now to let my thoughts and feelings flow…so that will result in more intuition, and more posts.

Also other things have been happening, like having more things “line up,” connections with like-minded people, and abundance.

It will result in me coming back to the US for awhile and then who knows. Right now the possibilities seem endless, which means it takes a real focus to “see” which direction to go.

So focusing on what I want, and not resisting it is the current agenda. It’s more difficult than one thinks. First sorting out all the different scenarios, then narrowing it down and creating a complete blueprint for one’s life is a full time endeavor.

Getting rid of the distractions, recognizing trauma, and dealing with it always get in the way. Seems like what you want has a whole bunch of barriers.

Why is that? You want it…it’s the best you can imagine…but you can’t really “see” it, or keep it in your mind. There is so much distortion and interference.

“It’s the Matrix…man.” Well, yeah, what kind of world would it be if we all could be “Finding Our Dream!” How about that matrix!!!!

There’s always going to be a construct, because we can’t even imagine “nothingness…” and who want to be in that anyway.

So we should create the one we want!

BUT…remember, it is all about you, but there is an Organization, Source for Everything.

I was listening to an atheist, and how he talked about some religious guy contradicting himself. Well, I thought about how he himself was also  contradicting himself in the most ultimate way. He was talking about “God,” which he didn’t believe in, which is ok, but then he said there cannot be a god.

It’s like saying there cannot be something that we already conceived of…like love or faith or satisfaction. That fact there is a concept called “God” means there is One.

Why, because of the concept, which is:  That which is Everything, Everywhere, all at once!

Try not believing in that!!! Or saying it doesn’t exist!!!

So, just because we all think we create our reality, doesn’t mean that we can do as we please. That freedom can entice us to be so focused on us that we don’t realize the affect it has on others.

We need that Feedback! Otherwise we can justify anything.

So your purpose, your Dream, should be for YOUR Highest Good…which Truly is for Everyone’s good!!!

We can’t really know what that is, but Feedback will tell us. That’s how we interact with our environment.

So Finding Our Dream is the realization of Love…for ourselves, which is compassion for others!!!

Thanks for “listening!”

Vince

vsalzer@vincsealzer.com

The Delusion of the Illusion of Life

I posted about this in a recent Facebook post.

The post was “Are you believing in the Delusion of the Illusion of Life?”

Seems rather confusing or a word play. I don’t know, it’s just the way it was “given” to me.

So I should probably explain it…

The long version would be: Are you deluded into thinking that your view of life is actually the only one there is?

What would happen if you changed your “delusion?”

Is it even possible to not be deluded?

The “Illusion of Life” seems to indicate that.

Does that mean that “Life” is not real, or doesn’t exist?

Some say that the Illusion comes in Layers, and we can move between them when we realize what they are. There are “Creators” of these Layers called 3D, 4D, 5D and so on. They maintain them so beings can have a shared perception. It’s the structure of the Universe.

Actually who knows? That has been thought about, and written about for centuries.

We can say that we know WE exist, but cannot really explain how or why!!! We think the world or life exists, but it is only through our perception.

The so often quote is, “We create the Life we want.” So if each one of us is creating our own reality, what is the Real one for all of us. Is it knowable?

Good unanswerable questions!!!

Let’s bring it down from the metaphysical to the personal. How can we create the Life we want?

The title of this post suggests that we escape the Delusion, and realize Life is an Illusion. I submit that it frees us up to construct our Dream! The most important part is the delusion. Freeing ourselves of that helps us to participate more in the Illusion…even though it’s fake.

Knowing that it’s fake helps us to not take our Life to seriously, freeing us to create more spontaneously.

Another way to say it is to quit lying to ourselves, so we can respond more authentically. When others see that, they become attracted to us.  Then our Dream becomes achievable, because we can’t do it alone, nor do we want to.

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Many Blessings

Vince

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

Do You Feel like This Sometimes?

Do your first thoughts in the morning just after waking up consist of:

This is the way my life is.

Accept it.

It sucks, but get real, it’s always been this way. My family is this way. My friends are this way.

Sorry, it’s just the way it is.

That progresses into: Well, just wait until it’s over…can’t wait.

It’s like you want someone to point the gun at you and pull the trigger…so it can be over…and you didn’t have to kill yourself.

Is that the truth? Ya…probably…

But somehow we get thru the day…lying to ourselves…wishing we were dead…but going thru the motions.

I think like 98% of us live this way, because we never even come close to living up to our potential.

What a miserable existence!!!

I know this is dark, but, really, that is the way it is for almost all of us.

Wow!!! Not so good…huh?

Maybe just realizing that will compel us to move forward just a little today.

I really don’t know how or why. I just feel it.

It’s so bad and no one has come and pulled the trigger…yet…and so…somehow…we can move forward and change just one thing…for the better.

How does extreme fatalness generate a little progress?

No idea…

Maybe you can help, which will contribute to that little progress.

Thanks in advance!!!

So Many Good Things are Happening!

In the circles I run in so many people are excited about the positive changes that are happening.

It might look like it’s really negative, but the sentiment is that the negative is past its peak and the positive is on the upturn….massively.

I want to put this out there so you can feed off this vibration…and help the parabolic rise!!!

Don’t take this as, “Wow, everything is going to get better. I can sit back and watch the negative collapse, and the positive create.” It’s more like I need this positive message to renew my resolve to change, to realize that I am Loved, can Love Myself and keep moving forward.

Even if the positive is evident, and you don’t do anything, you will miss out on its effects. You can just sit and watch it…watch it run right by you!

This is a free choice reality. It’s your choice to create what you want. It will be easier in the near future, but only if you are prepared.

That’s what I do, help you prepare…to survive the current situation and thrive in the next one!

Why Negative Can Never Win

The negative can never win for a number of reasons.

The first one is that it is only there to give us a choice. If we didn’t have it, how would we know what the positive is?

It is the basis for free will…to pick one or the other.

The second is that it is not self aware. The Universe is positive or it couldn’t exist. The negative only destroys, so it can never ultimately win…or the Universe would not exist. If negative realized that it would just give up, and cease to exist, but it keeps going thinking somehow it can win. In the end it just destroys itself.

Some who choose the negative actually think they are doing good, because they see how bad this world and people are, so they think they need to control them to somehow make them good, not realizing that they, themselves, are what made the world so bad.

So see negative for what it is…just something there so we can see the choice we have…and the opportunity to choose the positive. It has no power in itself, only if we choose it…temporarily. It is there so we can learn what the positive is and choose it.

So don’t view it so negatively…lol. It is there for our good.

Now that’s a different way to look at it…smile!!!

Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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Thoughts on Relationships…

First of all, is to understand the primal urges of our instinctive brain.

Women look for security and safety. They are hypergamous (sp?), which means they are always looking for the better man…and they will monkey branch…they will latch on to that superior man while still with the other one. It’s a basic survival instinct.

Men want to copulate with as many women as possible…to ensure the survival of the species. They also want to conquer and move on.

It’s no wonder there’s a 60+ divorce rate.

So you have to realize that this is happening and know how to combat it if you want to sustain a committed relationship. You will always have the urge to stray, but the question to ask is, after the betrayal (that’s what it is) WHAT THEN? What will you do? Will you hide it and deal with the guilt? Will you be honest and risk losing the relationship? None of those options are positive. That’s what you are left with.

There is a fog that comes over you when you look outside your relationship. You justify your coldness and lack of intimacy because you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Then it comes to a head eventually and the fog lifts and you realize that you want what you originally had…sometimes no matter how bad it was.

So to stay together you have to deal with these basic things. You can do it internally or together. Just be honest with yourself. Are you looking at other women/men? Always ask yourself…

What will I do then?

What are the consequences?

Even if you are not looking at another person, the same question can be asked. If this doesn’t work…WHAT THEN?

What will be the fallout? Who will get hurt? It will not only be you of course, but probably a lot of other people.

Another thing is that you can’t hide it. Your partner knows your vibe. If you are not feeling it they know.

And if you are looking for an “out,” no matter what kind, it gives you an excuse for not talking about your feelings and resolving issues.

Trust is intrinsic to any relationship and very valuable. You might only truly trust only 2 or 3 people in your WHOLE LIFE!!!

Once it’s destroyed, it can never be restored. A whole new relationship has to be developed…and you will have to become a new person to do it!!!

They say divorce is worse than death.

What I can’t understand then, is why there is so much of it…divorce, not death, lol.

So those are the negative reasons why we act the way we do in relationships…and the negative way to combat those instincts.

But that really doesn’t create a good relationship.

Commitment, transparency, and accountability are crucial to your relationships and your life. You will never Love Yourself if you don’t absolutely incorporate these into your life.

It’s “Hard”…

It seems hard to be honest with yourself and your partner…and let them be honest with you. What they say sometimes will not be what you want to hear, but it’s necessary. They know things about you that you don’t, so take it to heart…and change as a result.

It’s also “hard” to become accountable….do what you say…and admit when you’re not.

It’s difficult to trust someone enough to tell them what you are really feeling…maybe telling them things you never told anyone else.

It’s hard but no comparison to the destruction of your very soul.

How about being honest enough to apologize when you didn’t Love Yourself and took it out on them.

You blamed them for you not being the person you want to be.

It’s not them…it’s you. Doesn’t matter what they did. You could have acted differently!!!

They are not psychopathic. They are just reacting to what they thought you did to them, out of their own self-hate.

Yeah, that’s right, it’s either self-love or self-hate. There is no in-between.

Can you imagine going thru life not Loving Yourself?

So imagine the Opposite.

That results in compassion…for them and you.

And controls your reactions.

If you get in a fight, think about what you did…not what they did.

You can only change yourself?

That is Loving Yourself!!!

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The Mindset of People Who Contact Me???

I get up to 10 contacts a day for something or other…crypto or “new fresh leads” or “marketing help” to get me more clients.

I have years of experience in internet marketing, financial markets, and intuition into people’s motives.

The crazy thing is how they interact with me. First, they ask me how I am doing, and add friend or dear or something like that. We just met???

How easy that is…huh!!!

I think it’s what you call connecting with your prospect. All it does is make me skeptical. Friendship takes time and trust. I certainly don’t trust them now…and I would never buy anything from them.

But I struggle through…they then give me the pitch…I decline, and attempt to tell them why I would never buy anything from them.

I then offer to help them solve those issues with my consulting and coaching services, which they mostly decline, although some are mildly curious.

But they are so focused on their program that they cannot even imagine they could use some help.

So they go on with their life and sometimes come back later to tell me that their program is the best…and to just “trust” them.

What a laugh!!!

I again try to help them, but it just doesn’t work.

This is how most people are…so convinced that their way of looking at things is right. They can’t see themselves.

I know because I have done and sometimes do it myself. It’s so ingrained in us. But I am overcoming my own habits, indoctrinations, and biases.

The thing that helps is my 3 step program

  1. Realizing that I am loved
  2. Because of that, I can love myself
  3. Find My Dream.

I have compassion for them, knowing that if they just knew they were loved things could change for them.

I also know all I can do is offer my help, and the rest is up to them.

Just as it is for you. You know things aren’t right. I don’t care how good you think you have it. There are always new things to create, but old things have to die first!

None of them will die if you learn how to live in a new way…the way of LOVE.

And I don’t mean the way love is normally thought of…like loving something outside of yourself…such as God, others, and things.

You can’t love them because you don’t really know them. You can only know yourself. The more you know yourself the more you have compassion for others, realize the Love of the Universe, and see things as what they are.

The greatest satisfaction in life is helping others but only thru the love you have for yourself. Then it becomes selfless with concern for the individual results. You just keep doing it…making the world a better place!

Do you want that?

Haven’t met one person who didn’t…

I can help, because of my compassion for you!

Blessings

Vince

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