I watched a YouTube about a guy who was taken advantage of almost his whole life. I won’t go into the details, but, trust me, it was “bad.”
He said something that really struck me. “My life has been a disaster, but I will make it twice as good going forward.” It’s like he sensed he deserved it, or he was going to make it different!
What a statement!!!
Good on HIM!!!
What about your life? Have bad things happened in your life?
What are you going to BE about it? Not Do, BE. First, decide how you are going to BE inside you, about the negative, as you perceive it.
Yeah, sure maybe it was really bad, but how did you react? Own that!!!
That’s really the only thing you have control over. Your reaction!
Many people become great people after many bad things happen to them. They say those things made them a better person.
I call that a big lie!!!
It’s not the bad things that happened. If you think so, then the bad must ultimately be good.
That’s another lie!!!
It’s like saying “God” gave you all these bad experiences…what for?…to make your life better????
Come on…Another Lie!!!
It’s the reaction they had to those negative events that gave them a better life! Never accept negative as positive. Separate them completely so you know the difference between the light and the dark.
Otherwise, you will be deceived into believing light is darkness. In fact, that’s why our actions are negative. We believe we are doing the right thing. Lies, Lies Lies!
When you can separate them into a stark contrast, you know what is good and bad. Your life becomes very clear. There is no middle ground or grey anymore. This is the way you Own Yourself. No Compromise…No Excuses!!!
Then you can deal with the darkness!
The guy in the video admits that he had a part to play in it too.
Ohhhh, so here comes the accountability! He allowed things to happen.
Now we are getting a fuller picture! It wasn’t just that “Life,” God or whoever gave him those things.
They (to know who they are, see the post “Crossing the Line”) told me he had attracted everything that happened to him.
Oops…there goes victimhood!!!
The good thing is how he reacted.
So quit believing the lie that life happens to you. You make it happen. That means you can’t blame anyone else. Then you can change it.
So how do you change it?
First, list all the bad things, like how people treated you. That would be most of them. Then all the things about you that you dislike…like habits you’d like to change, losing weight, working out, eating better, being nicer to people, not feeling so lonely and depressed, procrastination, using drugs to escape your “miserable” life, etc. Did I hit on most of them?
Write them down.
Think about how much you hate them…and if you don’t…start…NOW!!!
Hating is only ok for something you don’t like…inside of you. Don’t worry about other people. We already addressed that…many times. It’s your reaction to what they did. If you reacted badly, then hate your actions, not them, or yourself!
Now take one thing that you listed and concentrate the negative feeling for it until it becomes a hot ball of energy. Then release it. It will explode into usable energy when you do…so long as you actually see it as energy…neither positive nor negative. Now you can use it to change the thing you detest.
You change the negative you hate into the very thing that overcomes it!!!
Ohhh…how your mind does NOT want you to know this. It thrives on bringing up those memories that created the feelings in the first place. That’s why when it does you acknowledge it compressed and let it go. The explosion destroys the negative and enables the positive…if You create the intention, the desire, for the “fix!”
The negative has to be expressed as a negative thing, like quit doing this, or thinking like this. The fix is all positive, like I am free of this, or I do this.
This can be hard when you say I hate drinking or smoking, because what are you going to do to “not do” those things? It’s going to have to be other ways of thinking or actions specifically. So every time you want a drink or smoke, you are going to say to yourself, “Just 5 more minutes, or I don’t do that anymore, or I don’t like this feeling,” and compress that urge into a ball and release it. Just like before. You keep doing it until it is no longer an issue.
Just imagine the energy have when you do this!!!
You will free yourself up to be the person you can be, and accept the offer to Cross the Line.
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