What is a Relationship?

Don’t know what to say, because I have so much to say…LOL!

I watch a lot of content on relationships even though we are the only ones in our reality, We still deal with all the constructs we have made called other people, so how do we do that?

First, they are what we think they are. They are our reflections. So, since it is us, we have to learn to be compassionate towards them. It’s like Loving Ourselves. Part of it is forgiving ourselves and releasing the trauma. That’s why we created them!

It’s the details that matter. You have to know what to say to someone when conflict arises. If you react badly, you will reap the effects of resentment, shame guilt, and mostly, lack of peace!

If you keep in mind that those “other people” are just you, it changes everything in your life.

I said it before, you become unoffendable and non-offending. You still have to stand up for yourself, like not accepting non-accountability, by just not associating with that kind of people.

You can create people, and friends that are, so your life becomes what you want it to be. It takes some searching and allowing for that to happen, but they always show up.

If you are accountable, which is a growing process, others of the same kind can come to you, so if you aren’t attracting them, start with yourself!

That’s where Peace, being Over the Line, and listening to they becomes the most important thing in your Life.

It’s also called Finding Your Dream!

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The Mindset of a “Saver”

First, let’s define a “Saver.”

It is someone who is “addicted” to saving.

A good example is when a young person is exposed to the concept of saving or delayed gratification. When given the choice of spending a dollar or waiting a week and having 2 dollars. Once they make the decision to wait one week and get that dollar and still have a dollar. The next week it will happen again, so they realize they will always have a dollar to spend.

Then they are taught if they wait 2 weeks they get 2 dollars. Once they get that concept, they only want to save, and not spend anything. They then go looking for ways to add to the saving!

That’s the mindset of the saver! But it becomes addicting. They don’t want to spend anything, but denying oneself becomes destructive.

They need to be taught to take a percentage and enjoy the fruits of their delayed gratification.

That is a balanced person.

One needs to learn the law of compounding. If you learn that investing as much as possible in the beginning, reinvesting all the returns, and not withdrawing until the first goal is reached. At that time the withdrawal is from the profits only, and will never affect the balance that generates the withdrawal amount.

So if you want to withdraw $1000 you wait until your profits are $1000 on a continuing basis plus able to increase your profits to $2000, and on and on. So one needs to wait until the growth is more than $1000 to take that amount.

And remember to enjoy that $1000 in the way you have planned. An experience would be best. A house or a car that most people want is not the best way. Plan a trip or a visit place that you always want to do. You will be much more satisfied.

Not that a house or car isn’t a worthy goal but it should be for a practical purpose, like your car is in so much need of repair that a different one is best. A house may be necessary for a growing family that is running out of room.

One can really get inspired though to save because watching the balance grow is exciting. To see your initial $1000 grow to $10,000 is amazing.

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The Challenge of Change

I recently met a new friend that told me he didn’t know if he could stay here because it is too different, and he can’t access things he did back home. Mostly he wanted to hear the news back home.

On the other hand, he was sick of the bad news that he watched. He thought he didn’t have access to sites because he was keeping his phone plan on roaming from back home. He doesn’t understand that he has Internet access on his phone and could even use it on his laptop. He could get a phone plan here as well and have the best of both worlds! His family is from this country, but he left when he was very young and returned only a few times. He returned here to take care of his mother. That’s a good thing to do, right? Well, there are other things involved that involve enabling and lack of responsibility, and he is caught up in it. That is making his experience here less than optimal. Hopefully, he can adjust to the culture before he gives up.

I understand how he feels. I went thru the same thing when I came here. That brought up my own fear. I was actually in fear for my life for 2 or 3 years after coming here. Even today I don’t go out by myself very often alone at night unless it’s in a taxi. The times I did, nothing happened, so I have to reevaluate my fear, which has subsided over the years,  It’s just…why tempt fate? I am a foreigner here and a target!

With 2 of us walking around, the chances are statistically reduced, so we both should feel safer.

Then they said that I have protection around me and should get out of fear. It will hinder my Abundance, Bliss and Joy.

I have enough to do to Find My Dream…at least the “First One,” and “What do I want?” Since being told this, the fear has left…mostly. I told my friend that we are protected, and not to worry.

This is another step in the Process of Crossing the Line and Finding Your Dream!

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Confirmation, Realizing My Intentions and Living Life!

Got some good feedback recently!!!

Someone doing the First Pillar, Realizing You Are Loved, sent a voice message crying and saying how she was “feeling the Love!!!”

That has been my experience as well, and I witnessed it with anyone who applied it like I said in my post, The Three Pillars.

It truly is an amazing thing to experience the Love that the Universe/Creation/God has for us!

She was releasing trauma by the boatloads as well!!!

Just as I said!!!

I have been just doing my thing…” The Next Right Thing!”

It’s so interesting that when I intend something, it happens. I just met someone and we have become good friends. We work out together and sit and talk over coffee or lunch. We are traveling to a place on the beach to see if we would like to live there part-time or full.

I also wanted something else financially related, and someone sent out an email that answered my request!”

I had a “question” come to me recently. Have you ever experienced Joy? First, I had to ask, What is Joy?” It is the over-riding sense of Bliss and Happiness that stays there…like a basis for Life. Ok, that was a new one for me, which means that is my intention now!

So I just live my life day to day knowing that all is Well and Getting Better!

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Rewards from Doing the “Next Right Thing”

I learned another thing from they today.

Did I “learn” it or did they just put it in my mind? Anyway, I “got” something!

Words, words, words, what do they mean? Ok, I give up…just do the best I can…being a word artist!  LOL!

Rewards can come in ways I don’t expect!

I had an exciting day yesterday, talking to people, and being excited about telling people about Crossing the Line!

But then last night and this morning, those people did not accept the offer.

Oh no, I am rejected! How could they not see it? What did I do wrong?

Also this morning I missed an appointment!!!

Things piling on top of things!

I immediately called, apologized, rescheduled, and said, “I’m buying!”

Ok, that made it a little better.

Then I went for a walk and did errands. I noticed that people…let’s be honest…women, were noticing me, smiling and saying hi!

That was in stark contrast to yesterday. Not one did. So what changed?

They said when I do the Next Right Thing, rewards can come in completely different areas of my life.

So just accept all the good, and keep doing what they say.

Wow…that Felt GOOD!

It gave me the impetus to write 2 posts today. I like it when things just flow…

It happens when I see my life as having meaning.

We all need to feel good…and the more the better! I have to choose to feel good, and sometimes things come to reward that!

See…the Universe is good and filled with LOVE!

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How to Change Your “Miserable” Life into Your Dream!

I watched a YouTube about a guy who was taken advantage of almost his whole life. I won’t go into the details, but, trust me, it was “bad.”

He said something that really struck me. “My life has been a disaster, but I will make it twice as good going forward.” It’s like he sensed he deserved it, or he was going to make it different!

What a statement!!!

Good on HIM!!!

What about your life? Have bad things happened in your life?

What are you going to BE about it? Not Do, BE. First, decide how you are going to BE inside you, about the negative, as you perceive it.

Yeah, sure maybe it was really bad, but how did you react? Own that!!!

That’s really the only thing you have control over. Your reaction!

Many people become great people after many bad things happen to them. They say those things made them a better person.

I call that a big lie!!!

It’s not the bad things that happened. If you think so, then the bad must ultimately be good.

That’s another lie!!!

It’s like saying “God” gave you all these bad experiences…what for?…to make your life better????

Come on…Another Lie!!!

It’s the reaction they had to those negative events that gave them a better life! Never accept negative as positive. Separate them completely so you know the difference between the light and the dark.

Otherwise, you will be deceived into believing light is darkness. In fact, that’s why our actions are negative. We believe we are doing the right thing. Lies, Lies Lies!

When you can separate them into a stark contrast, you know what is good and bad. Your life becomes very clear. There is no middle ground or grey anymore. This is the way you Own Yourself. No Compromise…No Excuses!!!

Then you can deal with the darkness!

The guy in the video admits that he had a part to play in it too.

Ohhhh, so here comes the accountability! He allowed things to happen.

Now we are getting a fuller picture! It wasn’t just that “Life,” God or whoever gave him those things.

They (to know who they are, see the post “Crossing the Line”) told me he had attracted everything that happened to him.

Oops…there goes victimhood!!!

The good thing is how he reacted.

So quit believing the lie that life happens to you. You make it happen. That means you can’t blame anyone else. Then you can change it.

So how do you change it?

First, list all the bad things, like how people treated you. That would be most of them. Then all the things about you that you dislike…like habits you’d like to change, losing weight, working out, eating better, being nicer to people, not feeling so lonely and depressed, procrastination, using drugs to escape your “miserable” life, etc. Did I hit on most of them?

Write them down.

Think about how much you hate them…and if you don’t…start…NOW!!!

Hating is only ok for something you don’t like…inside of you. Don’t worry about other people. We already addressed that…many times. It’s your reaction to what they did. If you reacted badly, then hate your actions, not them, or yourself!

Now take one thing that you listed and concentrate the negative feeling for it until it becomes a hot ball of energy. Then release it. It will explode into usable energy when you do…so long as you actually see it as energy…neither positive nor negative. Now you can use it to change the thing you detest.

You change the negative you hate into the very thing that overcomes it!!!

Ohhh…how your mind does NOT want you to know this. It thrives on bringing up those memories that created the feelings in the first place. That’s why when it does you acknowledge it compressed and let it go. The explosion destroys the negative and enables the positive…if You create the intention, the desire, for the “fix!”

The negative has to be expressed as a negative thing, like quit doing this, or thinking like this. The fix is all positive, like I am free of this, or I do this.

This can be hard when you say I hate drinking or smoking, because what are you going to do to “not do” those things? It’s going to have to be other ways of thinking or actions specifically. So every time you want a drink or smoke, you are going to say to yourself, “Just 5 more minutes, or I don’t do that anymore, or I don’t like this feeling,” and compress that urge into a ball and release it. Just like before. You keep doing it until it is no longer an issue.

Just imagine the energy have when you do this!!!

You will free yourself up to be the person you can be, and accept the offer to Cross the Line.

Just another hint from they

Have a Great Day!

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