Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

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Thoughts on Relationships…

First of all, is to understand the primal urges of our instinctive brain.

Women look for security and safety. They are hypergamous (sp?), which means they are always looking for the better man…and they will monkey branch…they will latch on to that superior man while still with the other one. It’s a basic survival instinct.

Men want to copulate with as many women as possible…to ensure the survival of the species. They also want to conquer and move on.

It’s no wonder there’s a 60+ divorce rate.

So you have to realize that this is happening and know how to combat it if you want to sustain a committed relationship. You will always have the urge to stray, but the question to ask is, after the betrayal…that’s what it is…WHAT THEN? What will you do? Will you hide it and deal with the guilt? Will you be honest and risk losing the relationship? None of those options are positive. That’s what you are left with.

There is a fog that comes over you when you look outside your relationship. You justify your coldness and lack of intimacy because you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Then it comes to a head eventually and the fog lifts and you realize that you want what you originally had…sometimes no matter how bad it was.

So to stay together you have to deal with these basic things. You can do it internally or together. Just be honest with yourself. Are you looking at other women/men? Always ask yourself…

What will I do then?

What are the consequences?

Even if you are not looking at another person, the same question can be asked. If this doesn’t work…WHAT THEN?

What will be the fallout? Who will get hurt? It will not only be you, of course but probably a lot of other people.

Another thing is that you can’t hide it. Your partner knows your vibe. If you are not feeling it they know.

And if you are looking for an “out,” no matter what kind, it gives you an excuse for not talking about your feelings and resolving issues.

Trust is intrinsic to any relationship and very valuable. You might only truly trust only 2 or 3 people in your WHOLE LIFE!!!

Once it’s destroyed, it can never be restored. A whole new relationship has to be developed…and you will have to become a new person to do it!!!

They say divorce is worse than death

What I can’t understand then, is why there is so much of it…divorce, not death, lol.

So those are the negative reasons why we act the way we do in relationships…and the negative way to combat those instincts.

But that really doesn’t create a good relationship.

Commitment, transparency, and accountability are crucial to your relationships and your life. You will never Love Yourself if you don’t absolutely incorporate these into your life.

It’s “hard”…

It seems hard to be honest with yourself and your partner…and let them be honest with you. What they say sometimes will not be what you want to hear, but it’s necessary. They know things about you that you don’t, so take it to heart…and change as a result.

It’s also “hard” to become accountable….do what you say…and admit when you’re not.

It’s difficult to trust someone enough to tell them what you are really feeling…maybe telling them things you never told anyone else.

It’s hard but no comparison to the destruction of your very soul.

How about being honest enough to apologize when you didn’t Love Yourself and took it out on them.

You blamed them for you not being the person you want to be.

It’s not them…it’s you. Doesn’t matter what they did. You could have acted differently!!!

They are not psychopathic. They are just reacting to what they thought you did to them, out of their own self-hate.

Yeah, that’s right, it’s either self-love or self-hate. There is no in-between.

Can you imagine going thru life not Loving Yourself?

Realizing that brings compassion…for them and you.

That controls your reaction.

If you get in a fight, think about what you did…not them.

You can only change yourself?

That is Loving Yourself!!!

 

Start Thinking for Yourself!

Are you frustrated with how things are playing out in the world today?

On one side there is the view of just accept everything.

On the other, there are accusations of fraud and corruption.

What do you think?

I am sure you know that there is rampant fraud and corruption. Everyone does…

Some just choose to ignore it, so their worldview can be validated.

It is happening on both sides.

This is what happens when you want to see what you want to see…and don’t want to deal with “reality.”

It is also a result of You not Loving Yourself. You then have to accept what other people tell you since you think you are not worthy to find out what you really think.

You are also unworthy of Love from others, so you have to prove yourself to them and take their opinion as your own.

That means you follow the crowd…never thinking for yourself…and perpetuate “the matrix.”

In “the movies” reality is changed when someone challenges the status quo. It takes effort and is dangerous, but they eventually “win.”

And the world changes!!!

What’s the lesson?

Nothing changes unless you do!!!

You don’t have to win a war. You just have to quit accepting “the narrative” and start to think for yourself and go your own way.

Like I said in the previous post…

Govern Yourself!!!

So You don’t become a SLAVE!!!

Quit censoring yourself…just start to think differently…it spreads…

Just make sure you are Loving Yourself in the process, so you don’t end up in the negative.

Also, I do private one on one coaching. If you want to Learn that

You are Loved,

therefore You can Love Yourself and

Find Your Dream,

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Recent Events!!!

The recent events have evoked a response from me.

Namely, government is total crap and unnecessary.

My take is…I can govern myself…and so can you…you drive on the correct side of the road don’t you?

This goes in line with Loving Yourself. You will have compassion and love for others, and this makes it work.

Loving Yourself also holds you accountable and transparent. You have no reason to hide anything and can deal with other people.

So almost everyone else drives on the correct side too. We all follow “the rules” that make sense.

The ones that don’t are psychopaths. They don’t care what happens to other people when they “drive on the wrong side of the road.”

And they don’t see that it will destroy them as well.

We all “get it.” We need to cooperate to survive.

So, who will fix the roads is a common question.

Well, look at the roads now. Are they doing a good job? I am sure a better system can be devised…like toll roads…if you use them you pay. Simple…

And the company that “owns” that road will be accountable…if he doesn’t keep the road up, fewer people will drive on it.

That goes for every part of infrastructure…if you use it you pay for it.

The contracts between people can be secured by bonds…payment occurs when both parties are satisfied. Disagreements are arbitrated.

There are many other questions, but can be worked out.

Right now government rules by law but is really at the end of a gun. Just try not complying if you don’t think so. Even a parking ticket can lead to jail time.

I go back to the Bible (1 Samuel 8) where it said thousands of years ago….saying the kings will take your sons and daughters to serve in the military, others to farm the land for him, make weapons of war (formerly people were called to war, but went back to regular tasks in peacetime). He will take a tenth of what you have and give it to his court…friends, and officials. He will take the best of your cattle…

AND…

YOU SHALL BECOME SLAVES!!!

Can it become any more clear!!!

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