Month: December 2020

The Mindset of People Who Contact Me???

I get up to 10 contacts a day for something or other…crypto or “new fresh leads” or “marketing help” to get me more clients.

I have years of experience in internet marketing, financial markets, and intuition into people’s motives.

The crazy thing is how they interact with me. First, they ask me how I am doing, and add friend or dear or something like that. We just met???

How easy that is…huh!!!

I think it’s what you call connecting with your prospect. All it does is make me skeptical. Friendship takes time and trust. I certainly don’t trust them now…and I would never buy anything from them.

But I struggle through…they then give me the pitch…I decline, and attempt to tell them why I would never buy anything from them.

I then offer to help them solve those issues with my consulting and coaching services, which they mostly decline, although some are mildly curious.

But they are so focused on their program that they cannot even imagine they could use some help.

So they go on with their life and sometimes come back later to tell me that their program is the best…and to just “trust” them.

What a laugh!!!

I again try to help them, but it just doesn’t work.

This is how most people are…so convinced that their way of looking at things is right. They can’t see themselves.

I know because I have done and sometimes do it myself. It’s so ingrained in us. But I am overcoming my own habits, indoctrinations, and biases.

The thing that helps is my 3 step program

  1. Realizing that I am loved
  2. Because of that, I can love myself
  3. Find My Dream.

I have compassion for them, knowing that if they just knew they were loved things could change for them.

I also know all I can do is offer my help, and the rest is up to them.

Just as it is for you. You know things aren’t right. I don’t care how good you think you have it. There are always new things to create, but old things have to die first!

None of them will die if you learn how to live in a new way…the way of LOVE.

And I don’t mean the way love is normally thought of…like loving something outside of yourself…such as God, others, and things.

You can’t love them because you don’t really know them. You can only know yourself. The more you know yourself the more you have compassion for others, realize the Love of the Universe, and see things as what they are.

The greatest satisfaction in life is helping others but only thru the love you have for yourself. Then it becomes selfless with concern for the individual results. You just keep doing it…making the world a better place!

Do you want that?

Haven’t met one person who didn’t…

I can help, because of my compassion for you!

Blessings

Vince

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A New Way of Living!!!

That’s right! It’s time to find a new way of Living.

When I was in Real Estate, I worked 12 to 16 hours a day, until it ruined my health, and I couldn’t even stand to get up in the morning.

It’s called Depression.

But I had money in the bank, for the little good it did me. I had no time or energy to spend it.

I did not really worry about money then, so I spent foolishly on some things.

One of the worst was not investing enough of it. I should have been able to get an income of at least $3000 a month from it, but that takes time and energy.

I was…and still am… a member of an investment service, but it’s one thing to get advice and take it. I know I would be set for life if I had.

So now I have experience…from mistakes, and You can receive the benefits of that experience.

Also, I have somehow been given intuition and inspiration…that’s how I write these blogs.

So I learned what is important in life…and it certainly isn’t working for a living.

And that’s all most people know how to do.

They also only know how to spend about 110% of what they make.

I won’t go into why… too big a subject…and not the point of this missive.

What I am interested in is to think about how we can get out of the rat race.

We have been conditioned to be concerned about a house and car and things, while the important stuff gets left out.

The most important things in your life are food, water, shelter, and something to do that fulfills you. It also must be something that provides the first three. It could be that you have to do something that you would rather not do to get the basic needs of life handled with the goal of Finding Your Dream.

Actually doing what you don’t really love is Finding Your Dream. The process is the Finding.

Because you might not know what you love until you try many different things.

So, the New Way of Living is to get your priorities right.

Number 1 is to secure your food and water. Grow your own food and find a source of water that will be there no matter what. Learn how to filter it and then test it, so it won’t kill you.

Number 2 is housing. Are what are you living in now going to survive, and is it necessary? Could you live in a smaller place so you can afford to grow food and find water? I am sure most people could.

I live in a small place with plenty of room for our needs. Sure maybe it would be nice to have more room, but until I have food and water taken care of, we stay here.

Also, does going to the mall every weekend really fulfill you more than working on your garden? I doubt it…and if you tried it you would find out how much more satisfying it is.

So instead of yearning for the next biggest TV, or new phone, or more junk in your garage so your cars have to be parked outside, think about eating food that you grew.

Also, you will be much more prepared for the next crisis…we really aren’t out of the present one yet, so who knows…

There are so many people that are realizing that what they thought was important wasn’t. Even toilet paper wasn’t that important.

It’s time to look at life differently and truly Find Our Dream!

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