So on to the next process…as I call it…as it is a way of looking at your World.
This process is called…You Don’t KNOW What You Don’t KNOW!!!!
Yea…that’s right. You don’t know everything about yourself, and you need help…If anyone thinks they can get to Finding Their Dream without “outside” assistance, they are definitely in a state of confusion or delusion!
Now that might seem like a contradiction to yesterday’s post…You KNOW the Next THING to be Done. But…
Let’s say you are getting good at doing the Next Thing…and…either many Next Things start to surface, and you don’t know which one to do….becoming overwhelmed….or you start to do them, and they start to feel uncomfortable.
So what should you being doing next…or what is the RIGHT Next Thing?
There are 2 things that need to happen.
First, you need a Purpose…a Vision…I didn’t put that as the first Step…because I have found in my own life that having that overall…big…Vision…like, To Change the World…keeps me from getting started. And I have seen that in many other people. (I have been doing and teaching this process for over 30 years now.) They get started, and as soon as they encounter an obstacle, they QUIT!
They don’t have the habit of doing the Next Thing…no habit of paying attention to themselves and seeing the Next Thing…of focusing on the feeling of accomplishing it…of actually experiencing those results…and how inevitable and automatic the process becomes! That creates the Confidence YOU Need to go on to Finding Your Dream!
Once that is in place, you are ready for the Big Dream!!! You know…What you do if you had all the Time and Money in the World?
I would put it a different way….What kind of Life do You want…even given the restrictions of Time and Money. Having Everything doesn’t make you Happy. Ask the people who “have it all,” and they all say they needed a Bigger Cause…some way to help others, even the world.
So, a better question to ask is: What kind of Life do You want that will help the World? That is a Dream that will never die or become stale. It will guide you through all the steps in the process of Finding Your Dream!
So, now that you know you need a Bigger Cause…that DREAM, you need to realize that you need others to help you…because, as I said at the beginning of this post…You Don’t KNOW What You Don’t KNOW!!!
You need help to find out what is deep inside you, by talking to people…but, not just anyone. You need someone with lots of experience in listening to lots of people, that can hear what is going on “underneath”…” between the lines.” (That’s what I do!) You need someone that will reinforce your Dream, not tear it down, due to jealousy or the desire to keep you safe. Someone that will help you realize that your reality is a perception…one way of looking at things…and show you different ways to look at it and change it. That’s how you get those “Aha” moments, which propel you on to the next level….the Next RIGHT Thing!
Stay tuned for more…the next step in the Process.
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