Don’t Believe the Narrative – It’s in Your Mind!

The Narrative is telling you that the world is going crazy, and that somehow you are too!

It’s saying that whatever everyone else is telling is the “truth.” The news, your friends and neighbors and your family are all saying things, and they influence you.

Even your own mind is telling you things.

And they aren’t positive. It’s all doom and gloom.

It disconnects you from who you are and what You want.

So don’t believe it. It’s only in your mind.

The real you is the one you need to access. It’s the one underneath all the chaos “outside.”

Understand there is no “outside.” Everything is happening to you internally. It’s your perception and your judgment that makes it appear outside.

So take some time today and go inside underneath that created, fake chaos and tap into the peace that is there.

It comes from the Creator, the Order, that is present everywhere. Feel that presence. It will relax you and make you more confident.

It’s called Love!!!!

You Are Loved. Connect with that today!

Also, the real narrative going on inside is Your Dream. It’s what is pushing and compelling to get up and do it again.

We all have a Dream, but if it’s clouded by our belief in the narrative, it is not serving our best interests.

So go deep and Find Your Real Dream.

I can help…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

I Had a Dream

I was pacing in my front patio the other morning, and this just came to me. What I mean is that I get inspirations…or downloads…as I call them. I have received them for years. Finding Your Dream came this way too.

I intend to tell you about them more in the future too.

This one said, “The earth will be changing…to a new higher frequency. All those who want to be a apart of this “new earth” will have to raise their frequency as well. Those who do not wish to will go “somewhere else,” and it will be like it is here now.” I was not shown where, but it didn’t look pleasant.

I said that I wanted to stay here, and I am working to raise my vibration. Then I asked for help to do that. “It” answered, “Do the Finding Your Dream program we gave you (first time I heard we) and help others implement it as well. ”

I am doing both of those things here in the blog and on social media.

A short summary of the “program” is below.

Realizing that You Are Loved is our way of showing you who you really are, and that you are worthy.

Then it’s up to you to make that the reason to Love Yourself. As you do Your Dream will be revealed as a state of being, and you will get the “next right thing” to do.

Then you get feedback,  and do the next right thing!

It is a creative process that gives you the “I love what I do” feeling. It’s no longer work…just joy and peace…knowing that you are Finding Your Dream.

I’m doing what I am being told. I am in the process myself, and am extending a hand to you to do the same.

If this resonates with you, just respond to this post…and if you are really serious about changing you life, email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

 

3 Steps to Finding Your Dream

Are you unsatisfied, unfulfilled or just sense that there is more to life? Is your life filled with just busy things, and you never have the time to really think about what you want?

Do you know why? Is there something there that you just can’t put your finger on, but you know there is something wrong?

If these things REALLY bother you…then Read On…

Finding Your Dream was “downloaded” to me several years ago as a complete package. Guess I was ready or something. So I’m giving what I got.

It is a life coaching program meant to help you escape the life that no longer satisfies you.

So, let’s get into it.

There are just 3 simple steps to Finding Your Dream.

The first step is Realizing You Are Loved! ​

The second is Knowing that you can Love Yourself.

The third step is the actual process of Finding Your Dream.

The first step is the process of learning the deep truth of “You are Loved!”

It involves the concept of Unconditional Love.

Like, your family loves you, even knowing all your faults, as do your friends…and your dog or cat!

Do you believe your family and friends love You? Maybe not.

But I know for certain that One does. You can call it whatever you want…The Universe, or God, or whatever.

Maybe you don’t believe in “God,” but I know you realize there is order in the Universe, or it couldn’t exist.​

That Order is what I am talking about. It wants you to be happy and succeed!

This is very important, and discussed in depth in the coaching you will receive.

Think of this…All That There Is (Order) is always looking out for YOU!​

Isn’t that amazingly beautiful?​

Think about being Unconditionally Loved!!!​

We can dwell on this for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on, and prayed about for the rest of our Lives! ​

It’s our soul that is Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!​

Pause, Breathe and Feel that!!!​

It is the basis for any successful person’s life.  So next time you read someone’s success story, look for the self-acceptance, and the awareness of being worthy…and Loved! ​

The second step…​Love Yourself…is the translation of Feeling that Love for You to having a reason to Love Yourself.

Seems easy, right…You can love yourself, because you are loved. Yes, but there’s a process to get there.

It requires you to work through your past, and the judgments, the guilt, the shame that come along with it.

But we don’t focus on those things, we overcome them through special techniques that were given to me. These are unique to this coaching, not to be found anywhere else.

The third step, Finding Your Dream, flows from the self-love you have, and is the actualization of that love! It is natural and free flowing…like being in the zone, as so many people talk about.​

Again, I “received” the processes and exercises to implement it.

It could be called Success, but that infers a static state…like you reach it and then what.

That’s why I call it “Finding” Your Dream. You are always creating and growing.

So, those are the 3 Steps, starting from dissatisfaction to being where you want to be!

I wish I could tell what that feels like. Even my clients can’t find the words. You can see it on their face!

If you want that feeling, that state of being, that joy, that Success, then let’s start that journey together. It’s the most exciting thing in life!

Just reply to the message I sent you or contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, and let’s set up our first meeting, so we can get to know each other better!!!

From there the Journey begins!!!

I had a Vision!

I was just pacing in the front courtyard this morning, when I started to receive a “download.” You know when thoughts come unexpectedly. This one came as video…with words attached.

It showed the earth with some people leaving, and some staying. It said the earth was changing and could no longer sustain the present system. The earth was transitioning to a new place. All the people who were not ready for this change would have to go to a different place with the same “frequency” that is here now.

It did not say where or how, but it didn’t look like a good place.

It was a compelling vision, revealing that all those aspiring can remain here, if they want to do the necessary things to do so.

It was called “The way of being.”  That way was flashed through my mind. Basically it said to go within and develop that “higher frequency.”  It’s hard to explain.

It was a vision…remember…lol.

It then said that my 3 Steps to Finding Your Dream (talked about many times in my other blog posts and on social media) is the way to do it.

“They” (now someone is “talking” to me) said they are the ones who gave me the Finding Your Dream idea and the associated steps and strategies to go with it.

First, it was me who was supposed to Find My Dream and then “spread the word.”

I have been on that journey for years, but this was a new inspiration. It showed me how it will feel/be on this new earth…and it was very compelling!

So if you want to accompany me on this journey and experience the New You, let me know in the comments, or reach me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or by clicking on any of the social media icons you see hovering over this post.

I would be honored to have you as a fellow aspiring Finder of Your Dream?

Allowance, Consent and Accountability

The 3 necessary things to create a better world.

Allowance…you/we need to allow ourselves to speak what we think, and, therefore, afford that same privilege to everyone else…even if we don’t like it.

When everyone feels free to express themselves, society can move forward.

When you feel free to speak, you can Find Your Dream!

Consent…you consent to what happens to you. Only you…not others, not society not God!

You have free will. That means you have given consent…even if it’s not “conscious.” (It is really because it’s the way you think…what you say to yourself all day long.)

The constant chatter in your mind gives consent to all kinds of “good and bad” situations in your life.

On the good side, when people or government try to get you to do things, you have the right…and responsibility to say, “I do not give consent.”

You might still have to do certain things…like pay taxes…but your mindset is what counts.

When you know you have the power of your consent, it changes how you look at life.

It will even dictate where and how you live…like as far away from the things you do not consent to and closer to people that think like you do, and places that allow you the freedom you crave!

All this is dependant on your Accountability. You must allow other people that same freedom you want.

That means you are free only in as much as you don’t infringe upon their freedom to do what they want or to think the way they do.

That requires extreme accountability. You must be very cognizant of your own actions.

Are your biased opinions and condemnation of other points of view and lifestyles infringing on their freedom?

Remember, they will also do the same to you!!!

Striving for a just world does not include judging others.

It only happens when everyone does their best.

That’s why it’s so important to Learn:

That You are Loved,

Therefore You can Love Yourself!!!

When you do that, we are all closer to…

Finding Our Dream!!!

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

This ISN’T Going to End Well!

When one looks at today’s situation, there is no way it’s going to End Well.

We can’t keep going being in lockdown, and opening back up will never go back to the way it was…”Normal!”

So it looks like it will have to be a “New Normal!”

What that will look like is anybody’s guess.

So what can one do?

You can’t control the future, but you can control yourself!

That means that you must become your best self…to Survive!

Yes to survive at the most basic level…food, shelter, and power.

None of these are guaranteed anymore.

To do that it starts with the 3 principles I always talk about:

To realize that You Are LOVED!

Therefore You can Love Yourself, and

Find Your Dream!

This is the way to survive and even Thrive in the coming Change!

Loving Yourself will facilitate you knowing the truth from the lies.

There is so much conflicting information now, that it’s very hard to do that.

Also, because of the chaos, fear is also on the rise, and You can be spared all of its negative effects.

So become the person you can be thru Loving Yourself, escape the falseness and fear, and…

Thrive!!!

Email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or thru any of the icons at the top of every post.

 

Govern Yourself

Govern Yourself…You already do!

Yes, you drive on the correct side of the road…whether right or left.

Hmmm… says something about politics too…right or left…govern yourself.

In other words, make sure you are “right” before you correct the other side…

and do it with compassion. Not everyone thinks like you do.

Now onto other things.

Tony Robbins is asking what your life is going to like when this “situation” is over. How are you going to act…to survive…in this “new world?”

My answer is…you must make yourself new, because the world will go back to the way it was.

Too much has happened.

Too many people have realized the way it was…is not going to last.

So it’s going towards total totalitarianism…or self determination and feedom.

Each of us…you included…has to choose, and therefore unconsciously contribute to that “future.” (I don’t believe in a “future.” Everything is now. You can read about in a previous blog post Here.)

If you want the self determination…you will have to learn how to govern yourself. To determine your life, you need to create it. That means knowing what you want, setting a plan to get it, and being brutally honest on what you are doing to implement it. No excuses.

Self determination is a form a freedom that is not necesarily “free” as you normally see it. It means delaying self gratification, and much self evaluation…which does not seem like freedom at all.

So, Govern Yourself is work! Just like everthing else.

If you don’t go to work, go lose you house, probably your family, and everythings else you value.

But you don’t like to go to work!!!

Don’t even tell you like work…can see thru that excuse a mile away.

I don’t like writing this blog either….it’s work!!!

But I do it because it’s necessary.

What would happen if everyone really governed themselves…like drove on the correct side of road in everything they did.

No more lies, cheating, stealing…excuses.

Can you imagine if that was only true 90% of the time.

Wow!!!

What if you were that way? Don’t blame the world unless you ARE!!!

I’m not asking for perfectness…just 90%.

Another reason to Govern Yourself is to look at what government has given us.

The current situation is good example…and certainly isn’t the answer…so look for a new one.

What if you drive on a road you pay for it…you consume online content you pay for it. If it cost you a small amount each time, you would be much more selective what you looked at. Also you voted with your opinion. If you didn’t like it, you don’t view it anymore. And the stuff you like you view more of.

Apply this everywhere…so if the road is bad you drive on a different one…which means someone (the private owners) would have to fix it…or lose money. It would decrease in value until someone would buy it and fix it, because they could make money at it.

Other ways that are being used is that if you view, share and contribute, you actually GET paid.

All agreements, or contracts could be put on the blockchain…so there is a permanent record… and secured by a bond. The party that is paying is putting a small amount as security, and the paid party is guaranteeing quality work…and is also bonded by a company…which is based on previous results.

There are platforms that are trying to do this right now.

In other words, all financial transactions are permanent and immediate…no more fraud and movement of money is freely done.

Can you see how this would work?

People say that with “no government” it would be chaos.

It isn’t chaos now???!!!

Another concept is “consent.”

Do I consent to my taxes to be used in ways I do not agree with.

Is it right to take money from another under the threat of bodily harm….no matter who does it…a person or a government?

Is not government like the mafia…just with more power. With the mafia I get something back…like protection…or something. The streets “protected” by them are safer than government controlled ones, because there is always someone there that wants to take over…and will if he can gain popularity.

Actually sounds like a better way to me, although the same thing happens to those who rebel…

Consent is the innate right to chose…to create…to live…to Find Your Dream!!!

That’s enough for now. I might add more later!

For more info click on any of the icons at the top of this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thoughts on Relationships…

First of all, is to understand the primal urges of our instinctive brain.

Women look for security and safety. They are hypergamous (sp?), which means they are always looking for the better man…and they will monkey branch…they will latch on to that superior man while still with the other one. It’s a basic survival instinct.

Men want to copulate with as many women as possible…to ensure the survival of the species. They also want to conquer and move on.

It’s no wonder there’s a 60+ divorce rate.

So you have to realize that this is happening and know how to combat it if you want to sustain a committed relationship. You will always have the urge to stray, but the question to ask is, after the betrayal…that’s what it is…WHAT THEN? What will you do? Will you hide it and deal with the guilt? Will you be honest and risk losing the relationship? None of those options are positive. That’s what you are left with.

There is a fog that comes over you when you look outside your relationship. You justify your coldness and lack of intimacy because you are not getting what you want out of the relationship. Then it comes to a head eventually and the fog lifts and you realize that you want what you originally had…sometimes no matter how bad it was.

So to stay together you have to deal with these basic things. You can do it internally or together. Just be honest with yourself. Are you looking at other women/men? Always ask yourself…

What will I do then?

What are the consequences?

Even if you are not looking at another person, the same question can be asked. If this doesn’t work…WHAT THEN?

What will be the fallout? Who will get hurt? It will not only be you, of course but probably a lot of other people.

Another thing is that you can’t hide it. Your partner knows your vibe. If you are not feeling it they know.

And if you are looking for an “out,” no matter what kind, it gives you an excuse for not talking about your feelings and resolving issues.

Trust is intrinsic to any relationship and very valuable. You might only truly trust only 2 or 3 people in your WHOLE LIFE!!!

Once it’s destroyed, it can never be restored. A whole new relationship has to be developed…and you will have to become a new person to do it!!!

They say divorce is worse than death

What I can’t understand then, is why there is so much of it…divorce, not death, lol.

So those are the negative reasons why we act the way we do in relationships…and the negative way to combat those instincts.

But that really doesn’t create a good relationship.

Commitment, transparency, and accountability are crucial to your relationships and your life. You will never Love Yourself if you don’t absolutely incorporate these into your life.

It’s “hard”…

It seems hard to be honest with yourself and your partner…and let them be honest with you. What they say sometimes will not be what you want to hear, but it’s necessary. They know things about you that you don’t, so take it to heart…and change as a result.

It’s also “hard” to become accountable….do what you say…and admit when you’re not.

It’s difficult to trust someone enough to tell them what you are really feeling…maybe telling them things you never told anyone else.

It’s hard but no comparison to the destruction of your very soul.

How about being honest enough to apologize when you didn’t Love Yourself and took it out on them.

You blamed them for you not being the person you want to be.

It’s not them…it’s you. Doesn’t matter what they did. You could have acted differently!!!

They are not psychopathic. They are just reacting to what they thought you did to them, out of their own self-hate.

Yeah, that’s right, it’s either self-love or self-hate. There is no in-between.

Can you imagine going thru life not Loving Yourself?

Realizing that brings compassion…for them and you.

That controls your reaction.

If you get in a fight, think about what you did…not them.

You can only change yourself?

That is Loving Yourself!!!

 

Start Thinking for Yourself!

Are you frustrated with how things are playing out in the world today?

On one side there is the view of just accept everything.

On the other, there are accusations of fraud and corruption.

What do you think?

I am sure you know that there is rampant fraud and corruption. Everyone does…

Some just choose to ignore it, so their worldview can be validated.

It is happening on both sides.

This is what happens when you want to see what you want to see…and don’t want to deal with “reality.”

It is also a result of You not Loving Yourself. You then have to accept what other people tell you since you think you are not worthy to find out what you really think.

You are also unworthy of Love from others, so you have to prove yourself to them and take their opinion as your own.

That means you follow the crowd…never thinking for yourself…and perpetuate “the matrix.”

In “the movies” reality is changed when someone challenges the status quo. It takes effort and is dangerous, but they eventually “win.”

And the world changes!!!

What’s the lesson?

Nothing changes unless you do!!!

You don’t have to win a war. You just have to quit accepting “the narrative” and start to think for yourself and go your own way.

Like I said in the previous post…

Govern Yourself!!!

So You don’t become a SLAVE!!!

Quit censoring yourself…just start to think differently…it spreads…

Just make sure you are Loving Yourself in the process, so you don’t end up in the negative.

Also, I do private one on one coaching. If you want to Learn that

You are Loved,

therefore You can Love Yourself and

Find Your Dream,

email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer or click on any of the icons at the top of every post for my social media accounts.

 

Recent Events!!!

The recent events have evoked a response from me.

Namely, government is total crap and unnecessary.

My take is…I can govern myself…and so can you…you drive on the correct side of the road don’t you?

This goes in line with Loving Yourself. You will have compassion and love for others, and this makes it work.

Loving Yourself also holds you accountable and transparent. You have no reason to hide anything and can deal with other people.

So almost everyone else drives on the correct side too. We all follow “the rules” that make sense.

The ones that don’t are psychopaths. They don’t care what happens to other people when they “drive on the wrong side of the road.”

And they don’t see that it will destroy them as well.

We all “get it.” We need to cooperate to survive.

So, who will fix the roads is a common question.

Well, look at the roads now. Are they doing a good job? I am sure a better system can be devised…like toll roads…if you use them you pay. Simple…

And the company that “owns” that road will be accountable…if he doesn’t keep the road up, fewer people will drive on it.

That goes for every part of infrastructure…if you use it you pay for it.

The contracts between people can be secured by bonds…payment occurs when both parties are satisfied. Disagreements are arbitrated.

There are many other questions, but can be worked out.

Right now government rules by law but is really at the end of a gun. Just try not complying if you don’t think so. Even a parking ticket can lead to jail time.

I go back to the Bible (1 Samuel 8) where it said thousands of years ago….saying the kings will take your sons and daughters to serve in the military, others to farm the land for him, make weapons of war (formerly people were called to war, but went back to regular tasks in peacetime). He will take a tenth of what you have and give it to his court…friends, and officials. He will take the best of your cattle…

AND…

YOU SHALL BECOME SLAVES!!!

Can it become any more clear!!!

Questions…vsalzer@vincesalzer.com