A Follow-Up to the “Gentle Reply” Post

I’ve so many requests to add more substance to the A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

The Gentle Persuasion to “Love Yourself” is a good technique, because it is not an easy thing to do.

But just asking if it is “better to Love Yourself than hate yourself” is an easily answered question….Of Course!

So let’s run with that…why is it so hard to Love Oneself?

Because we have done so many “wrong” things…and people have let us know about it…many times.

So if you think about what they said to you, was it reality, or did you have a different perspective on it.

I would say most of the time you did.

That means that they weren’t inside your head…they were inside theirs…and judging you from there.

So if they don’t know your motivations and reasons why you acted in a certain way, why did you give any credence to their criticism?

The answer is, “I don’t know. Hmmmm.”

The second reason why it’s so hard to Love Yourself is that Your MIND is telling you “bad” things. Just listen to it for awhile…Like:

  • Boy you didn’t sleep very well last night. You are tired.
  • Why are you are hungry? You so fat and useless.
  • Why don’t you get up and do something?

Those are just some examples from my Mind?

Yours are probably similar…or worse!

So, how about using the same technique as listening to others?

Your mind is coming from a different perspective than you are!!!

Wait, my mind is me!!!

Is it? Do you agree with what it is saying?

I don’t really accept that I am Fat and Useless!

So your mind is not really You!!!

You are separate from it.

So what is YOU?

You are a “Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity.”

That’s the REAL You, and the best reason to Love Yourself!!!

Blessings

Vince

PS. Please let me know if this helps. I have much more inside of me bursting to get out. LOL!

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Step 1…You are Loved!

You Are Loved! How can that be?

Recent blog posts “Today is the Day” (you can read it here) and “There is no Tomorrow” (here) lay the ground work for Being Loved.

I talked about that today seems to be going pretty good, since I changed my attitude about the past, and the Future is only in my mind, so I can create any one I want, as all the “Guru’s” say.

The way we do that is by having a positive outlook on our Future.

And the way we have it is believing that the Universe is positive and benevolent!

I call it Love!

So something out there Loves You!!!

And so does your family, friends and colleagues….and so do I!

That means at least one physical person Loves You….ME!!!

That takes away the excuse of, “Nobody love me!”

Not true, I do!!!

And, more importantly, so does all Creation!

Think of that…All That There Is has your best interest at heart!

If not, the “Creator” will want to destroy some things, and it might be you!

What Creator wants to destroy it’s Creation?

And Yes, Creation implies Order!

It’s always Order out of chaos. Not sure who “created” chaos, but I think it’s just the default…like darkness…and it is our duality. Can’t have Order without chaos!

So there is Order, that is a great Love for you  working on your behalf and for your highest best!!!

Isn’t that beautiful?

Think about Being Loved!!!

It might began to separate you into Who You ARE…and What You DO!

Remember, we live in a duality, so some of our actions keep the dark side side operating….lol.

I also talk about are our actions really bad? We can’t know that until we can see the consequences…maybe years down the road. We also do change our perspective on what they actually were. spce

It’s our basic self that is being Loved and Supported! That way down deep being…that little child in us!

Feel that!!!

Isn’t it good to know that no matter how we prop up the negative, we are still OK?

This is something that we can dwell on for days and days…and should be thought about, meditated on and prayed about for the rest of our Lives!

There are so many stories that tell of how it changed people’s lives.

It is the basis for any successful person’s story, so when you read one, look for the self acceptance, the realization of being worthy, and Loved!

So realize that You ARE Loved.

If you need more help…

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to ask!

Blessings

Vince

So…Are You Good or Bad?

I think there are 2 kinds of thinking. I am naturally good, and I am a fallen creature.

The naturally good people say that I am not there but trying to recover that totally good self…and will eventually.

The original sin people say you need someone to make you good, and then you live out that goodness…again until you eventually get there.

Both are basically on the same track. They know that we are going to “get there.”

And that it actually takes “walking it out.”

The people who say you need someone to make you good again implies that you were originally good…so are they really so different?

The “naturally good” know that we are separated from that good…for whatever reason…so both are implying what we are not perfect in our actions.

But underneath….our core, our source….is Perfect!!! And we are striving for that all time. It’s built into us.

It’s just we live in a duality, where choice is available, and we choose “bad” things because we mistakenly believe that they are somehow “good.”

What a strange dichotomy!!!

Thinking something good when we inherently know it’s not…and then being suck in doing it over and over…and more and more…is total irrational and insanity!!!

But that’s the way it is in having Choice. We do chose the negative, or it wouldn’t be available.

So you’re just keeping the duality going…so go for it…then I can have more ability to chose positive….lol.

Hey that’s the way it works.

If you want help to chose more positivity write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com.

There are lots of negative people that open up great new possibilities for us!!!

Vince

There is NO Tomorrow!

This the follow up to “Today is the Day.”

Since it’s always Today, how can there be Tomorrow?

It never comes, so never exists. It’s all in our mind…

and we live there…wishing for things to be different.

Also the past is our memories…which we remember only in our Present.

So if there is only the Present, why can’t we change the past?

We can…if we perceive it differently.

You say but it happened that way. Ahh, that is your perception. Ask someone else about it and they will have a different perspective.

So change your memory!

It might be a bad one, but think about what that experience taught. Most of the time it’s “I’ll never do that again.”

That’s a great lesson, but have you done that again? Are you stuck doing it over and over?

If so, you are in your past. What a crappy way to live!

Change the memory to, “Maybe this was a good thing…looking back at it.”

So, next time that memory comes up, you just say, “Thanks, I know that one…it was for the best.

Now you associate a good feeling with it, so your evil mind doesn’t want to bring it up again.

This is a constant process, and soon “the devil will leave you for a more opportune time.” He’s not going away. He is licking his wounds, and looking for another to attack you.

This strategy works…most of the time, but he will always come up with a new way to get you…and you can always counteract him with a new one of your own.

It comes from you knowing that everything can be changed…or recreated…and that’s one of the things we were created for!!!

More tricks for you are coming!!!

If you need help…vsalzer@vincesalzer.com is the place to go

Blessings

Vince

 

Lots of engagement lately

Someone seems to have gotten ahold of this blog lately and told their friends, because there have been an almost overwhelming number of comments lately.

They comment but never respond to my replies, and the English is rather strange, but I’ll take it.

Now is the time to watch my pride. In other words to begin to believe what other people say about me.

They can put you on a pedestal, and make you seem bigger than you are.

It’s really hard to see who you are then, and you begin to Love Yourself because of what others say about you.

That’s not true self love. A lot of famous people get caught up in it, and end up on drugs or dead.

So there are different kinds of Loving Yourself.

Do the good kind.

And if you need help…respond to this post or at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

Thanks

Vince

Well…”We’ll Just Have to Wait and See!”

That is what I am seeing from people I talk to.

Wait and See???

They are abdicating any ability to do anything about what is happening.

They are also giving up their power.

It’s time to take back our innate ability to co-create our future! How do you see your future.

Look there first!

Then see the world as you want after that!

It ain’t going back to the way it was.

There is very little need for restaurants, airplanes, Targets, Walmarts and “fluffy stuff.”

What there is a need of is survival skills, plumbers, electrician, construction workers, and people who know how to grow their own food, make their own shelter and generate their own power.

When it comes down to it…what else is there?

I mean if you had those 3 things, what else would you need?

You would need socializing with others and creating things…and those things can happen much easier after you have your basic needs covered!

So let’s put the important before the urgent.

Look out into the future to see what you really want.

And if you need help with that…Finding Your Dream…

Let’s talk…

vsalzer@vincesalzer.com

Blessings,

Vince

I Had an Honest Moment the Other Day

The thought came to me that No One wanted to hear what I have been saying for the past 6 or 7 years!

That I had to admit I was speaking into the wind. And I was not relevant.

It was a very honest and revealing moment…

And it was very depressing…for a couple of days. I searched for answers.

You see, I am trying to “monetize” my thoughts into a coaching business.

My goal is to have my thoughts generate resonance with people that want to “pay” for my thoughts.

Honestly, do people really do that?

Not really.

They pay for things that help them.

So why aren’t the things I have been writing helping people?

Maybe I am coming from the wrong place, because I am not doing what I say…namely realizing that I am Loved, Loving Myself and Finding My Dream!

Maybe when I do that, people will then begin to “listen”

But, by my principles, it doesn’t matter if they listen…or want to pay me for my “wisdom.”

My responsibility and accountability is to Love Myself and to Finding MY Dream!

The question is…How do I keep from starving then?

Somebody once said you can have the best and most wisest content, but if no one knows about it, you will starve!

So can I really say that I have told enough people to find any that resonate with what I am saying.

Obviously not!

I mean, if I am just writing my thoughts for myself…no problem…but who really does that? They say things to others to have an effect…to affect change. But it’s a fine line to effect others and not try to control them.

This is a conundrum!

 

 

 

What’s the Plan…For Your Life?

Ya…Really…

What is your Plan..Your Dream?

Do you have one?

Have you thought about it?

Maybe you should put some time into thinking about it.

Like how you would want to live.

Not just get up in the morning way before you want to, and go someplace you don’t really like and do things you don’t really want to for someone you don’t really like.

Like really think about it.

What do you want?

Are you afraid of Your Power?

Is that why?

Because if you admit that, you will begin to access things that you can’t even imagine.

Then there’s no one else to blame, and there’s no one else to congratulate when you actually move forward in accomplish it.

If you really think about it, there isn’t anyone out there for you to please, or even could satisfy, so why don’t you try satisfying yourself for once?

I know thins is tough, but that’s what I do.

Teach that You are Loved, You CAN Love Yourself, and Find Your Dream.

Sometimes it takes someone to tell you that in no uncertain terms.

So let’s start with a Plan

Call me…701-850-0560.

And let’s get started!

 

 

The Real Truth About Viruses

There has never been a vaccine developed for any covid type virus…so how can we think there will be one now?

There is no scientific evidence that viruses cause disease.

The scientific method says you must find an agent, then see it cause something in a lab, and reintroduce it into that agent and have the same reaction as in the lab.

That has never been done for covid or any other virus….or bacteria…for that matter.

Viruses are not alive…cannot live outside the body…and are indistinguishable from cell extrusions called exozomes.

Viruses are so small that they can only be viewed by an electron microscope, so no in situ or live action is possible. It’s all a theory!

I mentioned germ theory before, but the mindset is that there is some “unseen,” unknowable thing out there that can kill you is absurd.

It negates our very power, and is a control mechanism.

In other words…do not believe it!

You know one good thing about this is that the hospitals are empty. Maybe people will realize that they don’t need them, except for accidents and emergencies.

That rest can be handled by natural means, including lifestyle.

But even if there are viruses that can harm us, this one isn’t as bad as they say.

So if you believe that there are viruses or not, we can agree on some things…like

Let’s get back to work!

Start by GROWING your Own Garden!

For a Start!

 

 

Attraction and Assertion

Someone put it this way…there is no assertion…there is only attraction!

So we don’t command things, we attract them!

But we can intend things by lining up with they way “vibrate.”

So it’s a becoming in tune with what you want.

But first you have to know what you want…and that’s an internal process.

It takes a lot of inner reflection.

You could just do the…”I want my credit cards paid off…a new house…a new car…help my friend and family” thing, but that’s not really what you want.

You know that by the shiny new car syndrome. After only 3 months you lose all excitement for the car. It’s becomes just a regular car.

Research says material things don’t bring satisfaction.

Connection and dialogue do!

So Your Dream is happiness, trust, creating, evolving!

And a private plane!