New Feedback from Talking to People!

Just recieved is some feedback from people on FB Messenger.

First, I get many friend requests per day…I am getting more and more restrictive, because it’s mostly a huge Time Waster.

Here’s Why:

Once I accept them most want to:

  • Sell me something, or
  • Want “free” consulting or coaching!

So I endure the really poor propaganda and, if they will listen, I try to tell them how to “sell.”

I try to help the “Freeloaders” for awhile. Then I suggest that free advice is not usually applied.

I just read a story about financial trading education. It said you will get your education from the market, losing most of your money, or you can buy it from someone who knows how the “Big Boys” trade.

Good lesson in life!

I also learned this a different way back in the 1990’s when someone started teaching about how the “Rich Cartel” thought and acted. It taught how to be like  they “are” without the negativity so You can Find Your Dream!

Another Good Lesson!

One even asked if I am happy after he bombarded me with 30 pictures and videos right after I responded to him.

Ahhh Yes…I am still happy, and I Love Myself…

No matter what he does.

Many others just ask a few questions, with really poor English, even though they say there are living in the US. (Says something about our education system, their ability to use Auto correct or Grammar checker and…their honesty.)

As an example, I replied to someone at 4 am their time, and they immediately responded. I asked them what time it was there? No response since then. Maybe they woke up to text me back, or maybe they are not really from where they say.

Then they all give the “Pitch.”

Most want me to join their Crypto-currency program that promises great returns, but provides no information about how those returns are generated.

So I do my “due diligence.” I run their company through a couple of scam checker sites. Here is one of them: https://www.scamadviser.com/. Then do a reverse image lookup to see if they stole any pictures. I show them my results and tell them to be careful.

They usually say they have been getting payouts, and I should “try” it with $1000!!!

Right!!!

The others want “help” to get something…

  • Money is the Big One,
  • Finding a partner is next,
  • Then is their Dream, or what they Really Want.

The young usually listen…one calls me “professor.” lol.

The religious people usually accept what I say about You Are Loved, and can Love Yourself. They usually Bless me and are gone when I tell them they can Listen to the Voice inside to be and have everything God intended.

The sellers just blow me off, and go on to other people. Some Do want to learn something about how to treat people. I tell them that no one is interested in what “You” want, only what “I” want.

Those people are Loving Themselves as best they can, and can’t connect with You, because there is no attraction there. It can only come from You being that person that Loves Yourself so much that they want what you have.

Then they will buy anything you have to offer!

Wanna Learn How to do That???

I’m on all Social Media, and email, so respond wherever you like!!!

 

My Shortcoming’s!

I got a couple comments on a FB post about my wife knows everything, or knows that I am her “shortcoming!”

I would like to expand on that, and apply it to everyone. We all think we have “the answer.” But when things don’t work out as expected, we blame others…such as my wife, and in her case, ME!

I do the same…blame her and show her, her failings. I don’t know why, but it makes me feel better. I feel justified, but really all it’s doing is keeping me from being aware of ME!

I feel sorry, but don’t apologize, because she did this, or didn’t that. Then I check out having guilt and shame feelings, because I know I am not aware of myself, or Loving Myself. And therefore incapable of Loving Her.

Sound Familiar!

Leave a reply saying what you do in these situations!!!

A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

This is a reply to a comment on a previous post called Consciousness and Loving Yourself. You can read it here.

The comment was: I enjoyed reading this, but would need some gentle persuasion to love myself. I have done many things in my life I am not very proud of. And you & I come from 2 very different worlds, but living in the same.

My Reply:

I too have done many things I’m not proud of, and not sure how different our worlds were/are. Maybe you can tell me why you think that way?
So true we are all living in the same world.

Gentle persuasion…to Love Yourself…maybe I could be a little nicer…something to think about.
I guess it’s the non-love I have for myself coming out!!!

So gently I say to you, Is it not better to Love Yourself, rather than Hate Yourself?

For example, do you love your children? Of course!!
Do you always like what they do? NO! But you never quit Loving Them!

Now just apply that to Yourself!

The reason you Love Yourself is that you are a Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity!

What you do or think is Not the Real You!

The past may be different for each of us, but we can start to Love Ourselves, NOW.

That’s how we change the past, and that is how we create our Future and Find Our Dream.

Is that gentle…and persuasive?

Please let me know if this helps. I have much more inside of me bursting to get out. LOL!

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And, of course, reply to this comment, if you have something bursting to get out…;>).

Also I do private one on one coaching, if you want to Learn how to Love Yourself to Find Your Dream. Just reply to this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or on Facebook at:  https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

Why You Should Love Yourself

Ya, really, why?

Simple, what’s the alternative…Hate yourself!

I submit you already do that. Your mind sends you thoughts all day long on how stupid, idiotic and generally bad you are. And somehow you believe it.

So how about start believing that you are good, worthy, and that God Loves You, so maybe You should too!

All the great and successful people talk about it too, although they don’t necessarily use those words. I am hearing “Love yourself” more and more though.

They use words like, you are worthy, you have value, know who you are, you matter, you are a spiritual creature, and lots of other things.

A Shaman friend of mine told me that being comes from doing. That’s opposite of what I believe, but maybe it’s that who you are is because of what you do.

So you ask, “What should I do, then?”

Ok, first go to a mirror and say I love you {your name}.

Then say it to yourself all day long. You might start to believe it!

Third thing to do is meditate. Well maybe just thinking…for a minute. You have time. Watch your thoughts, what you are thinking. It’s called becoming the Observer. Also watch your breath, how it goes in and out.

You become aware of yourself.

Next, make a video of yourself saying, “I love you.” over and over. Also just talk about how you feel, like angry, tired, and maybe even happy.

You can do it. It only takes a couple of minutes, and if you keep doing it you will be able to talk to yourself for longer and longer.

Then send the video to me. That changes everything, doesn’t it?

Well the first thing is to Love Yourself and then to Love Your Neighbor.

I am Your Neighbor!

Send it!

Talk to you again!

 

 

Consciousness and Loving Yourself

The more Conscious you are, the more you Love Yourself!

Yeah, that’s right!

Let’s get into it.

I am getting this from a talk I recently saw, but I’m going to put my own intuition into it.

Consciousness is me thinking about something, being aware of it. Duh!

But I am the conscious one, not the thing I am being aware of..I know, bad grammar.

So if I am aware of my hand, that doesn’t mean that it is aware of me! Now that’s a Wow!

In fact, I have no idea if it is, and I submit, that it isn’t. How can my hand be conscious of me?

You might say that everything is conscious. So what! What difference does it make…to You…if your hand is aware of you? I can’t know anything about That consciousness. My consciousness is all that matters!!!

Get it?

Now for the hard part.

So I am conscious of You, but I can’t know the consciousness of you? It’s the same as I can’t know the consciousness of my hand…

So you to me is the same as my hand to me. It doesn’t matter what my hand/you “thinks,” because I can never know it.

The same goes for you. You can never know what I am aware of.

So why are you so worried about it?

You say, I’m not worried about you, but, be honest, what do you think about all day long? You are thinking about the consciousness of other people.

As one armchair psychologist once said, “Stop it!” That was his advice for everything. Pretty funny but very true.

Just Stop it!

You can’t know what I am thinking about, or what I am aware of.

So what’s left? Could it be to focus on what you are conscious of? Like learning to Love Yourself!

You have plenty of time to do it now that you can’t know anything about what others are thinking.

What if you just thought about what You are thinking about…all the time?

Do you think there would be an improvement?

Do you think you would begin to sort out some things in your life?

Maybe you would begin to appreciate some good things about you.

Maybe you would change what you think about…like good things!

Do you think it would change your life?

I know you are thinking, “There’s got to be more than that.”

Nope, that’s it. If you only focus on you, and not judge what I am doing, you would not be offended by anything I do, cuz you don’t know why I am doing it.

And if you are “unoffendable,” then, soon, you will offend no one else.

Can you think of a life like that?

I can…and am working towards it.

As they say…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com for more info…

But it’s more like, “Come join me on the journey of Consciousness and Loving Yourself.

It leads you to Find Your Dream.

(Had to put that in there for SEO.) :>)

 

 

Neither Do I Condemn You…Go and Sin No More!

I have read this Scripture many times and others like it. Jesus said many times, “Go and Sin No More!”

But let us start with some background for those of you who haven’t read the Bible 30 plus times…like me..

Not only that…but have “studied” it…like thought about it…asking what does this mean?

Well, I got some intuition about it.

The part I am talking about was when a women was caught in adultery, and the religious leaders were about to stone her…like kill her…by throwing stones at her…

As the Law said!

What a way to die…and whoever devised that punishment is…what…insane!

But anyway, the religious leaders asked Jesus what they should do.

He bent down, starting writing in the dirt and said,

“Let him who is without sin, Throw the First Stone!

He continued writing in the dirt….wonder what he was writing?

Maybe all their sins….who knows…doesn’t say…but…

One by one they leave, because they feel guilty.

Finally there are only Jesus and the “guilty” women.

He says to her “Who is left to condemn you?

She says, “NO one!”

He then says,”Neither do I…

Go and Sin NO More!”

What does this all mean?

First of all we condemn ourselves…

Second, God does not condemn us…

So in his Eyes we are Not Guilty!!!

Think about that..WE are Not Guilty!

Love Yourself!

Third we are supposed to “Go and Sin No More!!!”

That means we can live a “Sinless Life!!!”

Wow…how does that work?

I think it has to do with the Big Picture.

It’s like it all works out…and we should live as if IT does…

Then we really don’t live under condemnation and guilt.

That’s the part that matters.

It goes back to the “Love Yourself then Love Your Neighbor” post I wrote a while back…

So if you want to change your perspective on guilt and fear,

and learn How To Love Yourself on Your Journey to Finding Your Dream…

Reply to this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or message me at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer.

Thanks…I love You, as much as I Love Myself!

 

I Had Dream!!!

Yes just like Martin Luther King…Don’t you all have Dreams…like at night, I mean.

Do you remember them? Probably not many.

But this one was…memorable.

It terrified me!

I was crying and very depressed.

I kept saying over and over…”I’m sorry…I’m sorry…I’M SORRY!!!

FOR EVERYTHING I HAVE DONE!”

That was it, but it was so powerful!

I felt so guilty and shameful, and I was in great fear!

I’ve had this Dream many times, but never knew why.

A question came to me after I woke up. It asked, “What are you SORRY for?”

I could not say anything. I didn’t know!

I didn’t know What I was sorry for!

What are you Sorry for?

Do you know?

Then it came to me…the guilt, shame and fear are not real…They just come to you and accuse you…with nothing to back it up.

That’s the lesson…Quit being so Guilty…and living in Fear.

I am NOT Guilty…and neither are YOU!!!

Yes, but you might say, “I have done many things wrong.” What things???

Tell me…what things?

Yes if you have wronged someone. Go to them and apologize and offer to make things right but if it happened years ago…how can you do that….or if you did, would they accept it, or even remember it.

That just happened to me recently…

An old friend…after many years…connected with me. I apologized to him for things I did.

He amazingly said he forgiven all and put it behind him. I was shocked.

What a lesson!

So forgive and move on…so You can Live Guilt Free!!!

It is the way You Love Yourself!

On Your way to Finding Your Dream!

And if you have found this helpful and want further assistance in Your Journey to Find Your Dream..

Reply to this post, email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or message on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

 

What I’ve Learned from Being Sick

Wow…it’s taken awhile to recover.

I think the one thing I learned from this “sickness” was to be consistent. In other words, to keep doing what you love no matter how you feel. Otherwise you lose momentum. 

Also, just sitting down with no idea what you are going to write about, and just trust that intuition and inspiration will come.

And it does!

This goes for everything in life.

Let’s say that you want to start Loving Yourself more. One way to do that is to look in the mirror and enjoy what you see. Doesn’t seem like much, but if you just do it…no matter how you feel…you will notice a difference…that gets bigger every day.

That creates room for more things to come to you.

It builds up so you can begin to make more and more changes. But remember the being come from the doing…and the being comes from within…from being the Observer…watching what you are thinking.

I have been watching my thoughts…and do I think about some strange things. Memories and the result of them are the worst. I have learned remove myself from them as soon as I notice them.

I just take some time to watch myself before I go to sleep and when I wake up. That really helps during the day.  I can “feel” what I want to be doing, and not the fear or anxiety blocking me from doing it.

It’s a breakthrough! The feeling of accomplishing my Dream is incredible. Better than any other feeling!!!

If you need help implementing this…reply to this post, or write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or contact me at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

 

 

Relating Loving Yourself and Your Neighbor

The question is how can you Love Yourself without it involving your neighbor???

I have researched trading in the financial markets, online marketing, selling actual products and services and many other ways to become a Success….to Find Your Dream…

They all entail you becoming an expert at doing something that benefits yourself, like having money, time and Freedom!

The only way that happens is by benefiting others…either by teaching or by providing something others want and are willing to exchange something for it…like money.

We are tied to others in pursuit of Finding Our Dream.

We can only achieve what we want when we give others what they want.

It’s called Loving our Neighbor as Ourselves.

So it’s first Loving Ourselves and knowing the way to do it is to Love our Neighbor!

Let’s take the opposite of Love Your Neighbor

I wrote about “Love Your Neighbor as Yourself” earlier.

I said it’s hard to love your neighbor if you don’t love yourself…and how to Love Yourself!

Well, I got another inspiration…if you hate your neighbor, do you hate yourself???

Seems like the opposite of that famous comment…so could be true. Some say that we reflect what we don’t like in ourselves onto other people. That’s why you can have an opinion of someone, and I can have the opposite.

So if you are offended or don’t like someone, it might be a pretty good sign that you don’t like yourself either!

Pretty tough to take…huh?

So the saying could be “If you hate your neighbor, you hate yourself…”

Now who thinks they hate them self…not many I would guess…but are you just not satisfied, or angry or guilty???

It might be that you are caught up with the thoughts of what you did wrong. Hard to love yourself then.

So, a few years ago, I “heard” (intuition, still small voice, my higher self…I don’t know…call it what you like) “You are Perfect.”

Well I had a problem with that, because I knew all the things wrong with me, but “it” said, “If you don’t think of yourself as perfect, you will always have the seed of doubt and that will keep you from Finding Your Dream.”

Well, I want my Dream more than my doubts…so I am Perfect!!!

Pretty good way to start Loving Yourself and Finding Your Dream!!!