A New Paradigm!

Doug Casey, an anarcho-capitalist, says that the State is a “Parasite on Society.”

The members of society are becoming less individually responsible, and, therefore, the country has to be held by force.

That is the basis for government to take more and more control…the lack of self responsibility!!!

Once people are responsible for themselves, government becomes mostly unnecessary.

The only thing government is good for is protect You from coercion within inside the countries borders and from other countries…the police and the military…and a court system to adjudicate disputes without resorting to coercion…which might include arbitration.

The current system is only marginally competent in providing these services, and tries to do almost everything else conceivable!

That is why I keep talking about Loving Yourself. If you Love Yourself, you will become honest with yourself and others. Your main concern is your self growth…becoming accountable.

It’s the way to Finding Your Dream!

 

Current Event Questions???

So what is all the fuss about?

50,000 people die of the “flu” every year. Many more of opioids,  benzodiazepines…Xanax…and other “drugs!”

Yes, maybe this could be dangerous, but where does it come from? There is  evidence it came from a lab, and it was engineered! Then it could be something to be prepared for, but are the right measures being taken, or is this for control!

We give up our rights when we are in fear just to “feel safe!”…It happened after 911!

There is some talk of the “powers that be” trying to complete their takeover of the world.

But others say the good guys are using this to wrest control away from them.

Who knows?

I think it comes down to US…to You….I! Each one of us can/will determine the outcome. It’s time for us to look inside, to see the best person we can be!

That’s why I always talk about knowing that You Are Loved, therefore You Can Love Yourself, and Find Your Dream!!!

There is great Opportunity in this crisis.

Make the most of it!

We can form the world that we want…not the one that is!!!

How Can You Love Yourself

In a previous post, I talked about the “Why.”

Now it’s time to address the “How.”

If you have not internalized the Why, go back to the post here and review it.

I did talk a little about the How in that post too, but let’s go it again, with more Gusto!

Number 1:  This is an ongoing learning and growing process. You are always becoming a different person! Your past is no longer relevant to who you are today

Number 2:  As you grow, things come up. You could ignore them by focusing on the Present, and overwhelming them with the positive, like repeating I Love You {your name}, telling yourself that all day long, listen to this YouTube here, make a video of you saying it over and over, and send it to me!

Yes, send it to me! It makes it REAL when you involve someone else!

Number 3: When some things persist, so you need a way to respond to them.

They will manifest as an accusation. “You can’t do this. Look at all the things you did.” Even things like, “I don’t know how. It’s too much. I don’t have time.”

The response is: Yes that’s true, that happened, but I’m not that person anymore. I Love Myself.

Then your mind will resort to send you thoughts just to make you feel bad. Insane things that don’t make sense, but your response is, “Yes, I know that, but I Love Myself.”

Then wait for a response. Most likely there won’t be any. Just think if you responded that way to your friends. They wouldn’t know what to say. Think about what you would say if they said that to you!

So the mind “leaves you for awhile” to go conjure up some new memories or situations to accuse you. It will say, “No you don’t,” and then flash scenes in your mind, or just “talk in your ear.”

The response is: Do you want me to hate myself? Make it either Love or Hate! If the answer is Hate, there is a big problem. It is an entity, not the real you. The real you would never actually say that.

Number 4:  Know that “Being comes from Doing,” as my Shaman friend says.

The more you do it, the more you will believe it, and the more you will become it!

Number 5:  Know that you want to Love Yourself! You certainly don’t want to Hate yourself!!! It’s innate. It helps us survive, keeps us from suicide, and keeps us creating  and growing!

Number 6:  Actions and Being are 2 Different Things!  What you have done is not you. You are the Being in the Present! Separate your actions, which are only in the past, from who you are in the Present…the REAL You!

Your actions are always creating a New You all the time! That’s a great response to past accusations. “I’m a new me, Now!”

Number 7:  Some of these memories and accusations will be pretty emotional, so when after you are confident in Your Love for Yourself, you can take on the “Big One,” It’s called Forgiveness. 

You have to be ready to admit your “wrongs,” be sorry for them, and willing to go to who you have wronged and apologize. Then offer to make amends. It’s hard, but so freeing.

You will be surprised that most people don’t even remember the situation, or have already let it go. I wrote about that here. I was so surprised when they said that’s all in the past.

The other thing that could happen is that they won’t accept your apology no matter what you do, but you can’t do anything about that. Just know you did your part.

So let’s wrap this up by recapping How You Can Love Yourself.

  1. You are growing and becoming a new person all the time.
  2. Repeat “I Love You” in as many different ways and as many times as possible.
  3. Learn the responses to all the accusations. …I Love Myself Anyway. Then wait for the response. There won’t be one, but it so keep saying Yes, I know, I Love Myself!
  4. Being come From Doing
  5. You WANT to Love Yourself! Ask the question, Do you want me to hate myself?
  6. Who you Are and what you Do are separate.
  7. The Big One is most Freeing!

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A new way to realize that Your Love yourself

I got a new inspiration!

It came from a YouTube that came up in the recommended list. Things come up right when they are supposed to.

It’s called You are Loved!

I meditated on this all last night. It was pretty cool!

It’s the precursor to I Love Myself!

I noticed that so many people have trouble Loving Themselves, but I am hesitant of including anything outside of ourselves to help us, because too many people blame that outside force as the reason why they fail. But it could be viewed as we are loved by our Spirit, or our True and Higher Self., so that’s still “US.”

The main thing is to realize that You Are Loved…

Unconditionally, and Compassionately!!!

You are Loved because You are YOU! That’s it.

Now all you have to do is Accept It!

That seems easier than trying to convince yourself of your own worth, when you have all those memories and programming that are controlling you.

So I have added a step to the process: You Are Loved so You can Love Yourself, and that will Find Your Dream!

This is not a new concept. Actually I have seen it bring people to tears. It was a profound spiritual experience!

As you accept that you are Loved, you will be able to develop Self Love.

And remember you can only Love someone else as much as you Love Yourself! So it’s crucial that you accept as much Love as you can, because it will  make you “Bigger on the Inside,” and therefore, capable of Loving Others more, and becoming a Success!

I still have a question about Loving Others. Should that be a goal? Or should your goal be self realization. I think people that think they should help others end up disappointed or controlling, because they think that people should change, because of how good They are, and when they don’t they either get depressed or more aggressive. Also when you get the accolades, you get the pride and side effects…such as drugs and suicide. So I tend to stay away from the serving others thing.

I just think you develop yourself, and then tell others what you are receiving and let them decide. If they like you will be a success…in your own Spirit!

 

Accessing the Right Brain!

I watched…maybe re-watched..a Ted Talk from Jill Bolte Taylor where she relates her brain stroke experience.

She talks about her 2 States of Mind. One was telling her something was wrong and then that she was having a stroke, and needed help.

The other showed her connectedness to “All That Is.”  She could not feel the boundaries of her body. She just felt intense Joy and Love. But she could not function in this “density.” She could not dial her phone, or understand language, but she was able to communicate enough to get to the hospital. When she woke up, the stimuli of her senses overloaded her brain, which resulted in intense pain.

She then described one state as being the “Left Brain,” which helped her in dialing the phone, and the Right Brain, which gave her the expansive realization of her “Higher Self.”

That really affected me, because my inspiration of “You Are Loved, therefore You Can Love Yourself and Find Your Dream” is coming from My Right Brain.

So the only way to You can realize these concepts is if you can move to your Right Brain!!!

Unfortunately, she didn’t talk about how one can do that, and I don’t want You to have a stroke!!!!, so my techniques help you do it…without injuring Yourself….LOL!

First, the Left Brain is very strong. You can tell by the “chatter” if  you watch your thoughts. Watching is a Right Brain function.

Repeating “I am Loved” and “I Love Myself” is a way of raising the Right Brain dominance in Your Life. Love comes from the Infinite, which is realized in the Right Brain…the no body-borders state.

All intuition, ideas and Your Dream reside in the Right Brain, so learning how to raise it’s influence is crucial to your Happiness, Peace and Your Dream!

So if you resonate with How to Access Your Dream from Your Right Brain, leave me a message, or contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/vsalzer.

 

My Shortcoming’s!

I got a couple comments on a FB post about my wife knows everything, or knows that I am her “shortcoming!”

I would like to expand on that, and apply it to everyone. We all think we have “the answer.” But when things don’t work out as expected, we blame others…such as my wife, and in her case, ME!

I do the same…blame her and show her, her failings. I don’t know why, but it makes me feel better. I feel justified, but really all it’s doing is keeping me from being aware of ME!

I feel sorry, but don’t apologize, because she did this, or didn’t that. Then I check out having guilt and shame feelings, because I know I am not aware of myself, or Loving Myself. And therefore incapable of Loving Her.

Sound Familiar!

Leave a reply saying what you do in these situations!!!

A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

This is a reply to a comment on a previous post called Consciousness and Loving Yourself. You can read it here.

The comment was: I enjoyed reading this, but would need some gentle persuasion to love myself. I have done many things in my life I am not very proud of. And you & I come from 2 very different worlds, but living in the same.

My Reply:

I too have done many things I’m not proud of, and not sure how different our worlds were/are. Maybe you can tell me why you think that way?
So true we are all living in the same world.

Gentle persuasion…to Love Yourself…maybe I could be a little nicer…something to think about.
I guess it’s the non-love I have for myself coming out!!!

So gently I say to you, Is it not better to Love Yourself, rather than Hate Yourself?

For example, do you love your children? Of course!!
Do you always like what they do? NO! But you never quit Loving Them!

Now just apply that to Yourself!

The reason you Love Yourself is that you are a Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity!

What you do or think is Not the Real You!

The past may be different for each of us, but we can start to Love Ourselves, NOW.

That’s how we change the past, and that is how we create our Future and Find Our Dream.

Is that gentle…and persuasive?

Please let me know if this helps. I have much more inside of me bursting to get out. LOL!

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And, of course, reply to this comment, if you have something bursting to get out…;>).

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Why You Should Love Yourself

Ya, really, why?

Simple, what’s the alternative…Hate yourself!

I submit you already do that. Your mind sends you thoughts all day long on how stupid, idiotic and generally bad you are. And somehow you believe it.

So how about start believing that you are good, worthy, and that God Loves You, so maybe You should too!

All the great and successful people talk about it too, although they don’t necessarily use those words. I am hearing “Love yourself” more and more though.

They use words like, you are worthy, you have value, know who you are, you matter, you are a spiritual creature, and lots of other things.

A Shaman friend of mine told me that being comes from doing. That’s opposite of what I believe, but maybe it’s that who you are is because of what you do.

So you ask, “What should I do, then?”

Ok, first go to a mirror and say I love you {your name}.

Then say it to yourself all day long. You might start to believe it!

Third thing to do is meditate. Well maybe just thinking…for a minute. You have time. Watch your thoughts, what you are thinking. It’s called becoming the Observer. Also watch your breath, how it goes in and out.

You become aware of yourself.

Next, make a video of yourself saying, “I love you.” over and over. Also just talk about how you feel, like angry, tired, and maybe even happy.

You can do it. It only takes a couple of minutes, and if you keep doing it you will be able to talk to yourself for longer and longer.

Then send the video to me. That changes everything, doesn’t it?

Well the first thing is to Love Yourself and then to Love Your Neighbor.

I am Your Neighbor!

Send it!

Talk to you again!

 

 

Consciousness and Loving Yourself

The more Conscious you are, the more you Love Yourself!

Yeah, that’s right!

Let’s get into it.

I am getting this from a talk I recently saw, but I’m going to put my own intuition into it.

Consciousness is me thinking about something, being aware of it. Duh!

But I am the conscious one, not the thing I am being aware of..I know, bad grammar.

So if I am aware of my hand, that doesn’t mean that it is aware of me! Now that’s a Wow!

In fact, I have no idea if it is, and I submit, that it isn’t. How can my hand be conscious of me?

You might say that everything is conscious. So what! What difference does it make…to You…if your hand is aware of you? I can’t know anything about That consciousness. My consciousness is all that matters!!!

Get it?

Now for the hard part.

So I am conscious of You, but I can’t know the consciousness of you? It’s the same as I can’t know the consciousness of my hand…

So you to me is the same as my hand to me. It doesn’t matter what my hand/you “thinks,” because I can never know it.

The same goes for you. You can never know what I am aware of.

So why are you so worried about it?

You say, I’m not worried about you, but, be honest, what do you think about all day long? You are thinking about the consciousness of other people.

As one armchair psychologist once said, “Stop it!” That was his advice for everything. Pretty funny but very true.

Just Stop it!

You can’t know what I am thinking about, or what I am aware of.

So what’s left? Could it be to focus on what you are conscious of? Like learning to Love Yourself!

You have plenty of time to do it now that you can’t know anything about what others are thinking.

What if you just thought about what You are thinking about…all the time?

Do you think there would be an improvement?

Do you think you would begin to sort out some things in your life?

Maybe you would begin to appreciate some good things about you.

Maybe you would change what you think about…like good things!

Do you think it would change your life?

I know you are thinking, “There’s got to be more than that.”

Nope, that’s it. If you only focus on you, and not judge what I am doing, you would not be offended by anything I do, cuz you don’t know why I am doing it.

And if you are “unoffendable,” then, soon, you will offend no one else.

Can you think of a life like that?

I can…and am working towards it.

As they say…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com for more info…

But it’s more like, “Come join me on the journey of Consciousness and Loving Yourself.

It leads you to Find Your Dream.

(Had to put that in there for SEO.) :>)

 

 

There’s Always money

This post is a reply to an email I received. It talked about Elizabeth Warren’s statement, “There’s always money.” The email added…until bankruptcy.

I share my thoughts here:

You know, maybe Warren is right…money is always being created…from value. There is, and always will be, money, but it is moving around from people who made bad decisions to people who don’t pay their bills. That’s a generalization…but a reference to your bankruptcy analogy.

With the fiat currency system we have, there is always money being created too. But it is based on debt, so there is never enough money to pay it all back.

So how long can it last? A lot longer than you think…just like the stock market reaching new highs.

But when it does collapse, what will it look like? Nobody knows…and it has never happened at this level.

2008 gives us a clue, but what if people lose confidence and refuse to cooperate? What does that mean?

Well maybe we begin to see the “rigged” system for what is truly is. Then the “consciousness” changes, and the system crumbles.

What the world will look like then is up for grabs, but much “prophesying” has been done on that already, so let that be as it is.

Should we vote for someone who wants to spend more?

Absolutely NO!

But, Warren says we could get it from “Defense.” Could be a good idea…not sure we need another multi-billion dollar fighter jet, or missile or black ops operation.

Or another War?

But do you think that will happen with the current climate of fear mongering, and saber rattling?

And do you think the Military Industrial “Complex” will let it?

So, it comes down to US! We, each one of us, individually, has to become that “Person,” that “Consciousness,” that realizes there is something wrong.

You know it. Everyone I ask says YES!

You can feel it.

We just need to know that when we…let’s put in real terms…I, change, the world changes.

But if I change, what will happen? What will “they” think? Will the world really change?

How can it not? The “world” is only made of individual people…You and I.

But really there is only “I.” 

There is only I running around trying to “make it in Life.”

And yes, I is reacting, but the reaction is generated only from within.

Now this might be controversial, but science says, “There is no They! They don’t exist!”

So I is creating and changing the world…

Pretty deep and hard to understand, but…

Will the world really change? Question is answered!

So how is that done?

One of the most basic ways, and most important is to “Love Yourself!” You can only love others as much as you love yourself. So if each one of us focused on Loving Ourselves, we would love others more.

Can you imagine a world where everyone cares about themselves enough to focus only on improving and growing in order to reach their potential…and not on what they think others are thinking?

What a futile effort! How can you know what someone else is really thinking? So we are all thinking and judging what we think others are thinking about us.

How insane is that!

I seems like we are all thinking about what others think about us. It makes no sense!

Yes, Loving Yourself is self-centered and some would call it greed, but if you truly loved yourself, would you want to harm others?

NO, that comes from fear, guilt and shame, which is the result of thinking about what others think about you!

So I can imagine a world where the “religion” was Love Yourself, for then you can do no harm to others!

It will take a shift in focus by each one of us…and it starts with YOU…I.

No one else!

So Start Today! But HOW?

How can I love myself!

Every morning say to yourself in the mirror, “I Love You {your name}! And then do it all day long!

Would that be better than what you are thinking now?

Rhetorical Question!

And then, Keep Your Word…no matter what.

Do not promise something you cannot do, and if you can’t, apologize and make it right!

What price do you have to pay to do that? Think about it…not really all that much. You just quit lying to Yourself, because you Love Yourself. Then you become honest with others…because you Love them!

What??? I love others more because I Love Myself!

Yep that’s the way it works!

First You!…then Your Neighbor.

Problem solved…easy right…seems so…

So, again, START Today!

You know what will happen…way deep down…you know you will get better.

But why isn’t it happening? Why is no one…or the world changing? Why is no one Loving Themselves?

They are…sort of…but “they” have nothing to do with you. Once you realize that, you will let go of trying to “know” what they are thinking.

You will also begin to see that what “they” have said to you…that you believed…might not be “good” for you.

The layers of “other truth” start to be revealed,  fall away, and the “true” You can emerge.

So it’s a process of focusing on you, to see the falsity in yourself…letting it go…and becoming the person who is “Finding Your Dream.”

Does that sound like Happiness….Peace…maybe even Abundance?

Again Rhetorical Question!

I am trying to give you reasons why you would to do something you always wanted to do!

Sounds kinda dumb when you put it that way….Right?

So do it, be the I that Loves Itself! You know what will happen!

You will be always Finding Your Dream, because it changes as you grow and expand…

And that is what is called Life…living it to its fullest!

A few thoughts from Vince Salzer on

Loving Yourself and Finding Your Dream!

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