Why should You Love Yourself?

Ya, really, why?

Simple, what’s the alternative…Hate yourself!

I submit you already do that. Your mind send you thoughts all day long on how stupid, idiotic and generally bad you are. And somehow you believe it.

So how about start believing that you are good, worthy, and that God Loves You, so maybe You should too!

All the great and successful people talk about it too, although they don’t necessarily use those words. I am hearing them more and more though.

They use words like, you are worthy, you have value, know who you are, you matter, you are a spiritual creature, and lots of other things.

So this Shaman friend of mine told me that being comes from doing. That’s opposite of what I believe, but maybe it’s that who you are is because of what you do.

So you ask, “What should I do, then?”

Ok, first go to a mirror and say I love you {your name}.

Then say it to yourself all day long. You might start to believe it!

Third thing to do is meditate. Well maybe just thinking…for a minute. You have time. Watch your thoughts, what you are thinking. It’s called becoming the Observer. Also watch your breath, how it goes in and out.

You become aware of yourself.

Next, make a video of yourself saying, “I love you.” over and over. Also just talk about how you feel, angry, tired, and maybe even happy.

You can do it. It only takes a couple of minutes, and if you keep doing it you will be able to talk to yourself for longer and longer.

Then send the video to me. That changes everything, doesn’t it?

Well the first thing is to Love Yourself and then to Love Your Neighbor.

I am Your Neighbor!

Send it!

Talk to you again!

 

 

You Are Afraid of the Light!

Pretty Controversial!

I like to start off that way. And, that’s the way it comes to me!

So what am supposed to do, be afraid of the Light within me?

Ok, let me explain…

You are not afraid of the darkness. You live in it every day.

The darkness of what you think everyone else has done to you, how bad the world is, how bad You are.

You are very familiar with it.

You ARE afraid of the Light…the Light that is within you.

The Light that says you are an unlimited creature that is capable of anything you set your mind to. How many times have you heard that?

You’re afraid of what that means. Like I can do anything I want….Wow!

So why aren’t you? Simple question!

You’re afraid of being more than you are!

That includes a lot of things that you fear. Like people will notice you and call you out. You will have money, but have no idea what to do with it, except spend it.

What you don’t realize is that you will find Peace, Happiness, Your Dream…like everything you want!

So I suggest you start to become familiar, and begin to Love the Light within you!

I call it Loving Yourself! And Seeing the Light!

Nothing more to say…is there?

As always, contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com for ways to Love the Light!

Consciousness and Loving Yourself

The more Conscious you are, the more you Love Yourself!

Yeah, that’s right!

Let’s get into it.

I am getting this from a talk I recently saw, but I’m going to put my own intuition into it.

Consciousness is me thinking about something, being aware of it. Duh!

But I am the conscious one, not the thing I am being aware of..I know, bad grammar.

So if I am aware of my hand, that doesn’t mean that it is aware of me! Now that’s a Wow!

In fact, I have no idea if it is, and I submit, that it isn’t. How can my hand be conscious of me?

You might say that everything is conscious. So what! What difference does it make…to me…if my hand is aware of me? I can’t know anything about That consciousness. My consciousness is all that matters!!!

Get it?

Now for the hard part.

So I am conscious of You, but I can’t know the consciousness of you? It’s the same as I can’t know the consciousness of my hand…

So you to me is the same as my hand to me. It doesn’t matter what my hand/you “thinks,” because I can never know it.

The same goes for you. You can never know what I am aware of.

So why are you so worried about it?

You say, I’m not worried about you, but, be honest, what do you think about all day long? You are thinking about the consciousness of other people.

As one armchair psychologist once said, “Stop it!” That was his advice for everything. Pretty funny but very true.

Just Stop it!

You can’t know what I am thinking about, or what I am aware of.

So what’s left? Could it to focus on You? Like learning to Love Yourself!

You have plenty of time to do it now that you can’t know anything about what others are thinking.

What if you just thought about what You are thinking about…all the time?

Do you think there would be an improvement?

Do you think you would begin to sort out some things in your life?

Maybe you would begin to appreciate some good things about you.

Maybe you would change what you think about…like good things!

Do you think it would change your life?

I know you are thinking, “There’s got to be more than that.”

Nope, that’s it. If you only focus on you, and not judge what I am doing, you would not be offended by anything I do, cuz you don’t know why I am doing it.

And if you are “unoffendable,” then, soon, you will offend no one else.

Can you think of a life like that?

I can…and am working towards it.

As they say…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com for more info…

But it’s more like, “Come join me on the journey of Consciousness and Loving Yourself.

It leads you to Find Your Dream.

(Had to put that in there for SEO.) :>)

 

 

There’s Always money

This post is a reply to an email I received. It talked about Elizabeth Warren’s statement, “There’s always money.” The email added…until bankruptcy.

I share my thoughts here:

You know, maybe Warren is right…money is always being created…from value. There is, and always will be, money, but it is moving around from people who made bad decisions to people who don’t pay their bills. That’s a generalization…but a reference to your bankruptcy analogy.

With the fiat currency system we have, there is always money being created too. But it is based on debt, so there is never enough money to pay it all back.

So how long can it last? A lot longer than you think…just like the stock market reaching new highs.

But when it does collapse, what will it look like? Nobody knows…and it has never happened at this level.

2008 gives us a clue, but what if people lose confidence and refuse to cooperate? What does that mean?

Well maybe we begin to see the “rigged” system for what is truly is. Then the “consciousness” changes, and the system crumbles.

What the world will look like then is up for grabs, but much “prophesying” has been done on that already, so let that be as it is.

Should we vote for someone who wants to spend more?

Absolutely NO!

But, Warren says we could get it from “Defense.” Could be a good idea…not sure we need another multi-billion dollar fighter jet, or missile or black ops operation.

Or another War?

But do you think that will happen with the current climate of fear mongering, and saber rattling?

And do you think the Military Industrial “Complex” will let it?

So, it comes down to US! We, each one of us, individually, has to become that “Person,” that “Consciousness,” that realizes there is something wrong.

You know it. Everyone I ask says YES!

You can feel it.

We just need to know that when we…let’s put in real terms…I, change, the world changes.

But if I change, what will happen? What will “they” think? Will the world really change?

How can it not? The “world” is only made of individual people…You and I.

But really there is only “I.” 

There is only I running around trying to “make it in Life.”

And yes, I is reacting, but the reaction is generated only from within.

Now this might be controversial, but science says, “There is no They! They don’t exist!”

So I is creating and changing the world…

Pretty deep and hard to understand, but…

Will the world really change? Question is answered!

So how is that done?

One of the most basic ways, and most important is to “Love Yourself!” You can only love others as much as you love yourself. So if each one of us focused on Loving Ourselves, we would love others more.

Can you imagine a world where everyone cares about themselves enough to focus only on improving and growing in order to reach their potential…and not on what they think others are thinking?

What a futile effort! How can you know what someone else is really thinking? So we are all thinking and judging what we think others are thinking about us.

How insane is that!

I seems like we are all thinking about what others think about us. It makes no sense!

Yes, Loving Yourself is self-centered and some would call it greed, but if you truly loved yourself, would you want to harm others?

NO, that comes from fear, guilt and shame, which is the result of thinking about what others think about you!

So I can imagine a world where the “religion” was Love Yourself, for then you can do no harm to others!

It will take a shift in focus by each one of us…and it starts with YOU…I.

No one else!

So Start Today! But HOW?

How can I love myself!

Every morning say to yourself in the mirror, “I Love You {your name}! And then do it all day long!

Would that be better than what you are thinking now?

Rhetorical Question!

And then, Keep Your Word…no matter what.

Do not promise something you cannot do, and if you can’t, apologize and make it right!

What price do you have to pay to do that? Think about it…not really all that much. You just quit lying to Yourself, because you Love Yourself. Then you become honest with others…because you Love them!

What??? I love others more because I Love Myself!

Yep that’s the way it works!

First You!…then Your Neighbor.

Problem solved…easy right…seems so…

So, again, START Today!

You know what will happen…way deep down…you know you will get better.

But why isn’t it happening? Why is no one…or the world changing? Why is no one Loving Themselves?

They are…sort of…but “they” have nothing to do with you. Once you realize that, you will let go of trying to “know” what they are thinking.

You will also begin to see that what “they” have said to you…that you believed…might not be “good” for you.

The layers of “other truth” start to be revealed,  fall away, and the “true” You can emerge.

So it’s a process of focusing on you, to see the falsity in yourself…letting it go…and becoming the person who is “Finding Your Dream.”

Does that sound like Happiness….Peace…maybe even Abundance?

Again Rhetorical Question!

I am trying to give you reasons why you would to do something you always wanted to do!

Sounds kinda dumb when you put it that way….Right?

So do it, be the I that Loves Itself! You know what will happen!

You will be always Finding Your Dream, because it changes as you grow and expand…

And that is what is called Life…living it to its fullest!

A few thoughts from Vince Salzer on

Loving Yourself and Finding Your Dream!

Does this resonate? Then contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

 

Some Common Objections to Loving Yourself

I was talking to a guy yesterday…at the beach…as they say here in Ecuador. When I asked him about Loving Himself, he got a quizzical look on his face, like that’s a different view. Then it turned to, “Nope I don’t believe that,” kinda look. He began talking about how we all should serve others. He is internet marketing savvy, so he spoke about what is my niche, who is my customer …blah…blah…blah. The same blather you hear all over the internet these days.

It seemed like he was deflecting, so not having to deal with what was going on inside. Like, did HE Love Himself? Can’t go there!

Gotta Love other people. That’s how business and the world works. Ya right…That’s working out real well.

I said maybe we need a new way to look at things. The saying “Love you neighbor as yourself” means that you can only “serve” the world as much as you love yourself.

Then he gave a little and admitted that there is a balance there.

I think he asked once about how can we do “that,” like it’s snake oil or some conspiracy theory, but we never went there.

Do you relate? Can you think about Loving Yourself?

I can’t really blame him. His reaction is the typical response. All outward focused.

But if you read the stories of all the big Internet players out there, they all had that moment of, “I am not fulfilled.” Many lost their business and had to start again. Some never could make their business work until they found what they Loved to Do!

It’s deeper than that though. It’s not “to do,” it’s “to be!”

Loving Yourself is a process of learning who you are, intrinsically. That You have basic qualities which make you worthy of Finding Your Dream!

Oprah Winfrey said that her success and peace of mind came when she realized the she was worthy.  That was the pivot point for her.

The top internet business people repeat things like I am Worthy of Success…my Dreams…of being Loved. They realize that they can do it, that it is their Their Destiny. Their intentions change. Their “vibration” rises to a level where good things can happen.

Then, when they focus on other people, their story resonates, and their message is compelling.

They also realize that their only responsibility is to themselves. Did you know that only about 10% of the people taking courses online ever finish them, and even less actually apply them successfully!!! So serving others is a very dangerous path to walk down. You put yourself out there and do your best and the 2 or 3 out a 100 that you contact, buy your service or course, and then only 10% of the 2 or 3 actually benefit from all your hard work.

That has depression written all over it…if you focus on that, or them. But if you are concerned with doing the best you can…being the best you can be…taking responsibility for yourself, then the outside world can do what it wants.

And you just keep Loving Yourself..and growing, and Finding Your Dream!

The next thing I learned about Loving Yourself was to become accountable.

Stop lying to yourself!

Keep Your Word…no matter what!

See why nobody wants to go there! We can’t deal with our own lies, guilt and shame. To do so, would mean periods of introspection and evaluation.

Then it means forgiveness…forgiving and asking for forgiveness. Is that hard…not if you know what that brings…Peace

Introspection

How many times have heard about the “gurus” saying that at this time of year, they take time to review the past year and think about what they want to accomplish next year. They break it down to quarters, months, weeks, days, and some even hours.

That’s how valuable their time is. That’s how valuable their Dream is!!!

They become accountable to themselves, and then, to others. Those others begin to trust them and become very loyal clients and customers.

Mark Ford tells his story of he set out to get rich. He was lucky enough to find a mentor, a coach, and he did become successful. So he retired, and started doing things that he loved to do, like writing. He wrote 10 books, thousands of articles, movie screenplays and retired again. Now he is just what he loves to do, and is making money even though he doesn’t need any more. He’s having fun and is very focused!

So this Path…this Journey of Finding your Dream is inward focused…not outward.

So if you really want to discover what you want and how to get it, contact me here!

Neither Do I Condemn You…Go and Sin No More!

I have read this Scripture many times and others like it. Jesus said many times, “Go and Sin No More!”

But let us start with some background for those of you who haven’t read the Bible 30 plus times…like me..

Not only that…but have “studied” it…like thought about it…asking what does this mean?

Well, I got some intuition about it.

The part I am talking about was when a women was caught in adultery, and the religious leaders were about to stone her…like kill her…by throwing stones at her…

As the Law said!

What a way to die…and whoever devised that punishment is…what…insane!

But anyway, the religious leaders asked Jesus what they should do.

He bent down, starting writing in the dirt and said,

“Let him who is without sin, Throw the First Stone!

He continued writing in the dirt….wonder what he was writing?

Maybe all their sins….who knows…doesn’t say…but…

One by one they leave, because they feel guilty.

Finally there are only Jesus and the “guilty” women.

He says to her “Who is left to condemn you?

She says, “NO one!”

He then says,”Neither do I…

Go and Sin NO More!”

What does this all mean?

First of all we condemn ourselves…

Second, God does not condemn us…

So in his Eyes we are Not Guilty!!!

Think about that..WE are Not Guilty!

Love Yourself!

Third we are supposed to “Go and Sin No More!!!”

That means we can live a “Sinless Life!!!”

Wow…how does that work?

I think it has to do with the Big Picture.

It’s like it all works out…and we should live as if IT does…

Then we really don’t live under condemnation and guilt.

That’s the part that matters.

It goes back to the “Love Yourself then Love Your Neighbor” post I wrote a while back…

So if you want to change your perspective on guilt and fear,

and learn How To Love Yourself on Your Journey to Finding Your Dream…

Reply to this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or message me at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer.

Thanks…I love You, as much as I Love Myself!

 

I Had Dream!!!

Yes just like Martin Luther King…Don’t you all have Dreams…like at night, I mean.

Do you remember them? Probably not many.

But this one was…memorable.

It terrified me!

I was crying and very depressed.

I kept saying over and over…”I’m sorry…I’m sorry…I’M SORRY!!!

FOR EVERYTHING I HAVE DONE!”

That was it, but it was so powerful!

I felt so guilty and shameful, and I was in great fear!

I’ve had this Dream many times, but never knew why.

A question came to me after I woke up. It asked, “What are you SORRY for?”

I could not say anything. I didn’t know!

I didn’t know What I was sorry for!

What are you Sorry for?

Do you know?

Then it came to me…the guilt, shame and fear are not real…They just come to you and accuse you…with nothing to back it up.

That’s the lesson…Quit being so Guilty…and living in Fear.

I am NOT Guilty…and neither are YOU!!!

Yes, but you might say, “I have done many things wrong.” What things???

Tell me…what things?

Yes if you have wronged someone. Go to them and apologize and offer to make things right but if it happened years ago…how can you do that….or if you did, would they accept it, or even remember it.

That just happened to me recently…

An old friend…after many years…connected with me. I apologized to him for things I did.

He amazingly said he forgiven all and put it behind him. I was shocked.

What a lesson!

So forgive and move on…so You can Live Guilt Free!!!

It is the way You Love Yourself!

On Your way to Finding Your Dream!

And if you have found this helpful and want further assistance in Your Journey to Find Your Dream..

Reply to this post, email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or message on FaceBook at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

 

What I’ve Learned from Being Sick

Wow…it’s taken awhile to recover.

I think the one thing I learned from this “sickness” was to be consistent. In other words, to keep doing what you love no matter how you feel. Otherwise you lose momentum. 

Also, just sitting down with no idea what you are going to write about, and just trust that intuition and inspiration will come.

And it does!

This goes for everything in life.

Let’s say that you want to start Loving Yourself more. One way to do that is to look in the mirror and enjoy what you see. Doesn’t seem like much, but if you just do it…no matter how you feel…you will notice a difference…that gets bigger every day.

That creates room for more things to come to you.

It builds up so you can begin to make more and more changes. But remember the being come from the doing…and the being comes from within…from being the Observer…watching what you are thinking.

I have been watching my thoughts…and do I think about some strange things. Memories and the result of them are the worst. I have learned remove myself from them as soon as I notice them.

I just take some time to watch myself before I go to sleep and when I wake up. That really helps during the day.  I can “feel” what I want to be doing, and not the fear or anxiety blocking me from doing it.

It’s a breakthrough! The feeling of accomplishing my Dream is incredible. Better than any other feeling!!!

If you need help implementing this…reply to this post, or write me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or contact me at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

 

 

Find Out an Amazing Thing about Me!

I’m just amazed at a technique that came to me about 3 years ago.

My wife is a healer, so one time she asked me to help her. Because of that I developed a healing technique. It just came to me.

And it amazes me that works!

Many times…like over 100!

In the last few days, I have received 2 reminders.

One was my grandson having trouble breathing. My wife asked me to help him. I did my “thing”…took less than 5 minutes…and in just a couple more minutes, he kinda jerked and the wheezing quit. Everyone was amazed…and I was more than anyone!!!

A couple days later his mother was really sick…so, again I did my technique, and asked her how she felt. She said, I’ll let you know.” A few minutes later I asked her. She said she was fine…like nothing was wrong.

I think she forgot how sick she said she was…lol!

Again, I was amazed…and am over and over every time it happens.

It all comes from my “intuition”…not really sure what to call it. All I know, it’s not me!!!

So if you resonate with this, just reply. I will be posting this on Social Media…so it should be easy!

Thanks

Vince

 

On Perfectness

I got some feedback on being perfect from a previous post and a YouTube video. It really made me “think.” Actually inspiration came to me…not really thinking. And I really thank those who responded, as I grew personally from the discussion.

The feedback said that they know they are not perfect. And even if one could be, what would come after that?

Actually I sort of agree with them…in my mind…but through inspiration it is hard to hold that idea. It is just the programming that we get in this life. We are told that we are “naughty” when we are young…and sinful when we get older. I can feel the shame and guilt from it.

Then when this revelation came, with all the supporting Scriptures…and many other sources from my research, I had to change my attitude.

Scriptures say to be Perfect even as Jesus is….you will do more than these things…talking about the miracles he is doing.

Also He said go and sin no more…many times…it is the command to be perfect.

The inspiration said that if there is even a seed of doubt, you will not achieve anything. It’s got to do with faith…believing without a doubt

It says in the Bible that if we accept Christ…we become righteous…God sees us as righteous and we can then enter into His presence…

Seems like we can become Perfect!!! Pretty Deep…Hard to understand…because we’ve all been told the opposite all our lives.

And if we are not perfect, then what are we…evil…????

We are made in His image therefore perfect.

The Kingdom of Heaven is within…how can that be if are imperfect.

Jesus removes our sin!!!

We have to see ourselves as perfect as God does.

Those are just some of the Scriptures, but my research found many other places and teachings that say…or at least imply…our perfectness.

Such as:

The Universe is one…we are one…

Creation is perfect…as we are.

In the parable of the man and the white horse… a series of circumstances occur such as keeping a very valuable horse, then losing it…which is a “bad” thing, but it comes back with 10 other horses…which is a “good” thing. Then another bad thing happens then a good thing. The idea is to quit making judgments about our life. We really don’t know ultimately what “sin” is.

So is being imperfect evil?…it is taught that way. There is no gray area…evil or perfect. But we must believe the ultimate result is perfectness or we have chaos!!!

So it seems like when we look at our lives there is no way we can be perfect..and even if we are, what do we do then, like what’s next, but when the Perfect One tells us to be perfect and we can…maybe we should listen!