New Feedback from Talking to People!

Just recieved is some feedback from people on FB Messenger.

First, I get many friend requests per day…I am getting more and more restrictive, because it’s mostly a huge Time Waster.

Here’s Why:

Once I accept them most want to:

  • Sell me something, or
  • Want “free” consulting or coaching!

So I endure the really poor propaganda and, if they will listen, I try to tell them how to “sell.”

I try to help the “Freeloaders” for awhile. Then I suggest that free advice is not usually applied.

I just read a story about financial trading education. It said you will get your education from the market, losing most of your money, or you can buy it from someone who knows how the “Big Boys” trade.

Good lesson in life!

I also learned this a different way back in the 1990’s when someone started teaching about how the “Rich Cartel” thought and acted. It taught how to be like  they “are” without the negativity so You can Find Your Dream!

Another Good Lesson!

One even asked if I am happy after he bombarded me with 30 pictures and videos right after I responded to him.

Ahhh Yes…I am still happy, and I Love Myself…

No matter what he does.

Many others just ask a few questions, with really poor English, even though they say there are living in the US. (Says something about our education system, their ability to use Auto correct or Grammar checker and…their honesty.)

As an example, I replied to someone at 4 am their time, and they immediately responded. I asked them what time it was there? No response since then. Maybe they woke up to text me back, or maybe they are not really from where they say.

Then they all give the “Pitch.”

Most want me to join their Crypto-currency program that promises great returns, but provides no information about how those returns are generated.

So I do my “due diligence.” I run their company through a couple of scam checker sites. Here is one of them: https://www.scamadviser.com/. Then do a reverse image lookup to see if they stole any pictures. I show them my results and tell them to be careful.

They usually say they have been getting payouts, and I should “try” it with $1000!!!

Right!!!

The others want “help” to get something…

  • Money is the Big One,
  • Finding a partner is next,
  • Then is their Dream, or what they Really Want.

The young usually listen…one calls me “professor.” lol.

The religious people usually accept what I say about You Are Loved, and can Love Yourself. They usually Bless me and are gone when I tell them they can Listen to the Voice inside to be and have everything God intended.

The sellers just blow me off, and go on to other people. Some Do want to learn something about how to treat people. I tell them that no one is interested in what “You” want, only what “I” want.

Those people are Loving Themselves as best they can, and can’t connect with You, because there is no attraction there. It can only come from You being that person that Loves Yourself so much that they want what you have.

Then they will buy anything you have to offer!

Wanna Learn How to do That???

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I’M Sad!

I’m Sad, because my friends from the States just left after 9 wonderful, event filled days.

We had a great time reconnecting, and talking about our view on life. They came from a slightly different perspective, as all people do, but we still mostly agreed on most things.

The others we just let go. We concentrated on saying, “Yes, I can see how you think that way!”

What a wonderful to communicate!

We revealed how we felt about things openly and honestly, and we had a great time doing it!

 

My Shortcoming’s!

I got a couple comments on a FB post about my wife knows everything, or knows that I am her “shortcoming!”

I would like to expand on that, and apply it to everyone. We all think we have “the answer.” But when things don’t work out as expected, we blame others…such as my wife, and in her case, ME!

I do the same…blame her and show her, her failings. I don’t know why, but it makes me feel better. I feel justified, but really all it’s doing is keeping me from being aware of ME!

I feel sorry, but don’t apologize, because she did this, or didn’t that. Then I check out having guilt and shame feelings, because I know I am not aware of myself, or Loving Myself. And therefore incapable of Loving Her.

Sound Familiar!

Leave a reply saying what you do in these situations!!!

A “Gentle” Reply to How to Love Yourself.

This is a reply to a comment on a previous post called Consciousness and Loving Yourself. You can read it here.

The comment was: I enjoyed reading this, but would need some gentle persuasion to love myself. I have done many things in my life I am not very proud of. And you & I come from 2 very different worlds, but living in the same.

My Reply:

I too have done many things I’m not proud of, and not sure how different our worlds were/are. Maybe you can tell me why you think that way?
So true we are all living in the same world.

Gentle persuasion…to Love Yourself…maybe I could be a little nicer…something to think about.
I guess it’s the non-love I have for myself coming out!!!

So gently I say to you, Is it not better to Love Yourself, rather than Hate Yourself?

For example, do you love your children? Of course!!
Do you always like what they do? NO! But you never quit Loving Them!

Now just apply that to Yourself!

The reason you Love Yourself is that you are a Spiritual Creator with a Spark of Divinity!

What you do or think is Not the Real You!

The past may be different for each of us, but we can start to Love Ourselves, NOW.

That’s how we change the past, and that is how we create our Future and Find Our Dream.

Is that gentle…and persuasive?

Please let me know if this helps. I have much more inside of me bursting to get out. LOL!

And share this if you think it can help others! The share buttons are in the upper left or scroll down to the bottom of the post!

And, of course, reply to this comment, if you have something bursting to get out…;>).

Also I do private one on one coaching, if you want to Learn how to Love Yourself to Find Your Dream. Just reply to this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com or on Facebook at:  https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer

Why You Should Love Yourself

Ya, really, why?

Simple, what’s the alternative…Hate yourself!

I submit you already do that. Your mind sends you thoughts all day long on how stupid, idiotic and generally bad you are. And somehow you believe it.

So how about start believing that you are good, worthy, and that God Loves You, so maybe You should too!

All the great and successful people talk about it too, although they don’t necessarily use those words. I am hearing “Love yourself” more and more though.

They use words like, you are worthy, you have value, know who you are, you matter, you are a spiritual creature, and lots of other things.

A Shaman friend of mine told me that being comes from doing. That’s opposite of what I believe, but maybe it’s that who you are is because of what you do.

So you ask, “What should I do, then?”

Ok, first go to a mirror and say I love you {your name}.

Then say it to yourself all day long. You might start to believe it!

Third thing to do is meditate. Well maybe just thinking…for a minute. You have time. Watch your thoughts, what you are thinking. It’s called becoming the Observer. Also watch your breath, how it goes in and out.

You become aware of yourself.

Next, make a video of yourself saying, “I love you.” over and over. Also just talk about how you feel, like angry, tired, and maybe even happy.

You can do it. It only takes a couple of minutes, and if you keep doing it you will be able to talk to yourself for longer and longer.

Then send the video to me. That changes everything, doesn’t it?

Well the first thing is to Love Yourself and then to Love Your Neighbor.

I am Your Neighbor!

Send it!

Talk to you again!

 

 

You Are Afraid of the Light!

Pretty Controversial!

I like to start off that way. And, that’s the way it comes to me!

So what am supposed to do, be afraid of the Light within me?

Ok, let me explain…

You are not afraid of the darkness. You live in it every day.

The darkness of what you think everyone else has done to you, how bad the world is, how bad You are.

You are very familiar with it.

You ARE afraid of the Light…the Light that is within you.

The Light that says you are an unlimited creature that is capable of anything you set your mind to. How many times have you heard that?

You’re afraid of what that means. Like I can do anything I want….Wow!

So why aren’t you? Simple question!

You’re afraid of being more than you are!

That includes a lot of things that you fear. Like people will notice you and call you out. You will have money, but have no idea what to do with it, except spend it.

What you don’t realize is that you will find Peace, Happiness, Your Dream…like everything you want!

So I suggest you start to become familiar, and begin to Love the Light within you!

I call it Loving Yourself! And Seeing the Light!

Nothing more to say…is there?

As always, contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com for ways to Love the Light!

Consciousness and Loving Yourself

The more Conscious you are, the more you Love Yourself!

Yeah, that’s right!

Let’s get into it.

I am getting this from a talk I recently saw, but I’m going to put my own intuition into it.

Consciousness is me thinking about something, being aware of it. Duh!

But I am the conscious one, not the thing I am being aware of..I know, bad grammar.

So if I am aware of my hand, that doesn’t mean that it is aware of me! Now that’s a Wow!

In fact, I have no idea if it is, and I submit, that it isn’t. How can my hand be conscious of me?

You might say that everything is conscious. So what! What difference does it make…to You…if your hand is aware of you? I can’t know anything about That consciousness. My consciousness is all that matters!!!

Get it?

Now for the hard part.

So I am conscious of You, but I can’t know the consciousness of you? It’s the same as I can’t know the consciousness of my hand…

So you to me is the same as my hand to me. It doesn’t matter what my hand/you “thinks,” because I can never know it.

The same goes for you. You can never know what I am aware of.

So why are you so worried about it?

You say, I’m not worried about you, but, be honest, what do you think about all day long? You are thinking about the consciousness of other people.

As one armchair psychologist once said, “Stop it!” That was his advice for everything. Pretty funny but very true.

Just Stop it!

You can’t know what I am thinking about, or what I am aware of.

So what’s left? Could it be to focus on what you are conscious of? Like learning to Love Yourself!

You have plenty of time to do it now that you can’t know anything about what others are thinking.

What if you just thought about what You are thinking about…all the time?

Do you think there would be an improvement?

Do you think you would begin to sort out some things in your life?

Maybe you would begin to appreciate some good things about you.

Maybe you would change what you think about…like good things!

Do you think it would change your life?

I know you are thinking, “There’s got to be more than that.”

Nope, that’s it. If you only focus on you, and not judge what I am doing, you would not be offended by anything I do, cuz you don’t know why I am doing it.

And if you are “unoffendable,” then, soon, you will offend no one else.

Can you think of a life like that?

I can…and am working towards it.

As they say…contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com for more info…

But it’s more like, “Come join me on the journey of Consciousness and Loving Yourself.

It leads you to Find Your Dream.

(Had to put that in there for SEO.) :>)

 

 

There’s Always money

This post is a reply to an email I received. It talked about Elizabeth Warren’s statement, “There’s always money.” The email added…until bankruptcy.

I share my thoughts here:

You know, maybe Warren is right…money is always being created…from value. There is, and always will be, money, but it is moving around from people who made bad decisions to people who don’t pay their bills. That’s a generalization…but a reference to your bankruptcy analogy.

With the fiat currency system we have, there is always money being created too. But it is based on debt, so there is never enough money to pay it all back.

So how long can it last? A lot longer than you think…just like the stock market reaching new highs.

But when it does collapse, what will it look like? Nobody knows…and it has never happened at this level.

2008 gives us a clue, but what if people lose confidence and refuse to cooperate? What does that mean?

Well maybe we begin to see the “rigged” system for what is truly is. Then the “consciousness” changes, and the system crumbles.

What the world will look like then is up for grabs, but much “prophesying” has been done on that already, so let that be as it is.

Should we vote for someone who wants to spend more?

Absolutely NO!

But, Warren says we could get it from “Defense.” Could be a good idea…not sure we need another multi-billion dollar fighter jet, or missile or black ops operation.

Or another War?

But do you think that will happen with the current climate of fear mongering, and saber rattling?

And do you think the Military Industrial “Complex” will let it?

So, it comes down to US! We, each one of us, individually, has to become that “Person,” that “Consciousness,” that realizes there is something wrong.

You know it. Everyone I ask says YES!

You can feel it.

We just need to know that when we…let’s put in real terms…I, change, the world changes.

But if I change, what will happen? What will “they” think? Will the world really change?

How can it not? The “world” is only made of individual people…You and I.

But really there is only “I.” 

There is only I running around trying to “make it in Life.”

And yes, I is reacting, but the reaction is generated only from within.

Now this might be controversial, but science says, “There is no They! They don’t exist!”

So I is creating and changing the world…

Pretty deep and hard to understand, but…

Will the world really change? Question is answered!

So how is that done?

One of the most basic ways, and most important is to “Love Yourself!” You can only love others as much as you love yourself. So if each one of us focused on Loving Ourselves, we would love others more.

Can you imagine a world where everyone cares about themselves enough to focus only on improving and growing in order to reach their potential…and not on what they think others are thinking?

What a futile effort! How can you know what someone else is really thinking? So we are all thinking and judging what we think others are thinking about us.

How insane is that!

I seems like we are all thinking about what others think about us. It makes no sense!

Yes, Loving Yourself is self-centered and some would call it greed, but if you truly loved yourself, would you want to harm others?

NO, that comes from fear, guilt and shame, which is the result of thinking about what others think about you!

So I can imagine a world where the “religion” was Love Yourself, for then you can do no harm to others!

It will take a shift in focus by each one of us…and it starts with YOU…I.

No one else!

So Start Today! But HOW?

How can I love myself!

Every morning say to yourself in the mirror, “I Love You {your name}! And then do it all day long!

Would that be better than what you are thinking now?

Rhetorical Question!

And then, Keep Your Word…no matter what.

Do not promise something you cannot do, and if you can’t, apologize and make it right!

What price do you have to pay to do that? Think about it…not really all that much. You just quit lying to Yourself, because you Love Yourself. Then you become honest with others…because you Love them!

What??? I love others more because I Love Myself!

Yep that’s the way it works!

First You!…then Your Neighbor.

Problem solved…easy right…seems so…

So, again, START Today!

You know what will happen…way deep down…you know you will get better.

But why isn’t it happening? Why is no one…or the world changing? Why is no one Loving Themselves?

They are…sort of…but “they” have nothing to do with you. Once you realize that, you will let go of trying to “know” what they are thinking.

You will also begin to see that what “they” have said to you…that you believed…might not be “good” for you.

The layers of “other truth” start to be revealed,  fall away, and the “true” You can emerge.

So it’s a process of focusing on you, to see the falsity in yourself…letting it go…and becoming the person who is “Finding Your Dream.”

Does that sound like Happiness….Peace…maybe even Abundance?

Again Rhetorical Question!

I am trying to give you reasons why you would to do something you always wanted to do!

Sounds kinda dumb when you put it that way….Right?

So do it, be the I that Loves Itself! You know what will happen!

You will be always Finding Your Dream, because it changes as you grow and expand…

And that is what is called Life…living it to its fullest!

A few thoughts from Vince Salzer on

Loving Yourself and Finding Your Dream!

Does this resonate? Then contact me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com!

 

Some Common Objections to Loving Yourself

I was talking to a guy yesterday…at the beach…as they say here in Ecuador. When I asked him about Loving Himself, he got a quizzical look on his face, like that’s a different view. Then it turned to, “Nope I don’t believe that,” kinda look. He began talking about how we all should serve others. He is internet marketing savvy, so he spoke about what is my niche, who is my customer …blah…blah…blah. The same blather you hear all over the internet these days.

It seemed like he was deflecting, so not having to deal with what was going on inside. Like, did HE Love Himself? Can’t go there!

Gotta Love other people. That’s how business and the world works. Ya right…That’s working out real well.

I said maybe we need a new way to look at things. The saying “Love you neighbor as yourself” means that you can only “serve” the world as much as you love yourself.

Then he gave a little and admitted that there is a balance there.

I think he asked once about how can we do “that,” like it’s snake oil or some conspiracy theory, but we never went there.

Do you relate? Can you think about Loving Yourself?

I can’t really blame him. His reaction is the typical response. All outward focused.

But if you read the stories of all the big Internet players out there, they all had that moment of, “I am not fulfilled.” Many lost their business and had to start again. Some never could make their business work until they found what they Loved to Do!

It’s deeper than that though. It’s not “to do,” it’s “to be!”

Loving Yourself is a process of learning who you are, intrinsically. That You have basic qualities which make you worthy of Finding Your Dream!

Oprah Winfrey said that her success and peace of mind came when she realized the she was worthy.  That was the pivot point for her.

The top internet business people repeat things like I am Worthy of Success…my Dreams…of being Loved. They realize that they can do it, that it is their Their Destiny. Their intentions change. Their “vibration” rises to a level where good things can happen.

Then, when they focus on other people, their story resonates, and their message is compelling.

They also realize that their only responsibility is to themselves. Did you know that only about 10% of the people taking courses online ever finish them, and even less actually apply them successfully!!! So serving others is a very dangerous path to walk down. You put yourself out there and do your best and the 2 or 3 out a 100 that you contact, buy your service or course, and then only 10% of the 2 or 3 actually benefit from all your hard work.

That has depression written all over it…if you focus on that, or them. But if you are concerned with doing the best you can…being the best you can be…taking responsibility for yourself, then the outside world can do what it wants.

And you just keep Loving Yourself..and growing, and Finding Your Dream!

The next thing I learned about Loving Yourself was to become accountable.

Stop lying to yourself!

Keep Your Word…no matter what!

See why nobody wants to go there! We can’t deal with our own lies, guilt and shame. To do so, would mean periods of introspection and evaluation.

Then it means forgiveness…forgiving and asking for forgiveness. Is that hard…not if you know what that brings…Peace

Introspection

How many times have heard about the “gurus” saying that at this time of year, they take time to review the past year and think about what they want to accomplish next year. They break it down to quarters, months, weeks, days, and some even hours.

That’s how valuable their time is. That’s how valuable their Dream is!!!

They become accountable to themselves, and then, to others. Those others begin to trust them and become very loyal clients and customers.

Mark Ford tells his story of he set out to get rich. He was lucky enough to find a mentor, a coach, and he did become successful. So he retired, and started doing things that he loved to do, like writing. He wrote 10 books, thousands of articles, movie screenplays and retired again. Now he is just what he loves to do, and is making money even though he doesn’t need any more. He’s having fun and is very focused!

So this Path…this Journey of Finding your Dream is inward focused…not outward.

So if you really want to discover what you want and how to get it, contact me here!

Neither Do I Condemn You…Go and Sin No More!

I have read this Scripture many times and others like it. Jesus said many times, “Go and Sin No More!”

But let us start with some background for those of you who haven’t read the Bible 30 plus times…like me..

Not only that…but have “studied” it…like thought about it…asking what does this mean?

Well, I got some intuition about it.

The part I am talking about was when a women was caught in adultery, and the religious leaders were about to stone her…like kill her…by throwing stones at her…

As the Law said!

What a way to die…and whoever devised that punishment is…what…insane!

But anyway, the religious leaders asked Jesus what they should do.

He bent down, starting writing in the dirt and said,

“Let him who is without sin, Throw the First Stone!

He continued writing in the dirt….wonder what he was writing?

Maybe all their sins….who knows…doesn’t say…but…

One by one they leave, because they feel guilty.

Finally there are only Jesus and the “guilty” women.

He says to her “Who is left to condemn you?

She says, “NO one!”

He then says,”Neither do I…

Go and Sin NO More!”

What does this all mean?

First of all we condemn ourselves…

Second, God does not condemn us…

So in his Eyes we are Not Guilty!!!

Think about that..WE are Not Guilty!

Love Yourself!

Third we are supposed to “Go and Sin No More!!!”

That means we can live a “Sinless Life!!!”

Wow…how does that work?

I think it has to do with the Big Picture.

It’s like it all works out…and we should live as if IT does…

Then we really don’t live under condemnation and guilt.

That’s the part that matters.

It goes back to the “Love Yourself then Love Your Neighbor” post I wrote a while back…

So if you want to change your perspective on guilt and fear,

and learn How To Love Yourself on Your Journey to Finding Your Dream…

Reply to this post, or email me at vsalzer@vincesalzer.com, or message me at https://www.facebook.com/vsalzer.

Thanks…I love You, as much as I Love Myself!